Does it feel like your communication with your spouse could use a tune-up? In this episode, we tackle five common communication mistakes couples often make—and, more importantly, how to fix them! From poor listening habits to unrealistic expectations, we’re breaking down the barriers to understanding and offering practical solutions to help you and your partner connect on a deeper level. Whether you've been married for decades or are newlyweds, this episode is packed with relatable scenarios, laughter, and actionable insights to strengthen your relationship.
Key Takeaways:
- Poor Listening: Learn how to listen to understand rather than just respond, and why this skill is the ultimate relationship game-changer.
- Assuming Mind-Reading Abilities: Discover the importance of clear, direct communication and why your spouse isn’t a psychic!
- Reacting Emotionally Instead of Responding Thoughtfully: Master the art of pausing before reacting to create a more empathetic and constructive dialogue.
- Sweeping Issues Under the Rug: Find out how to address conflicts head-on while respecting each other's communication styles.
- Using Negative Communication Patterns: We dive into Dr. John Gottman’s “Four Horsemen” (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling) and their antidotes to protect your marriage.
Resources Mentioned:
- Communication Style Quiz: [Click here to take the quiz]
- Conflict Style Quiz: [Click here to take the quiz]
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