"Listening to Understand: The Most Underrated Skill in Marriage"

What if we told you that one of the secrets to a thriving marriage lies in one simple—but often overlooked—skill? In this episode of A Purpose Driven Marriage, we dive into the transformative power of listening to understand.

Active listening isn’t just a corporate buzzword; it’s a game-changer for relationships. Research shows that couples who prioritize listening experience increased satisfaction, stronger emotional connections, and are less likely to divorce. Tune in as we share personal stories, practical strategies, and proven techniques to help you become a better listener in your marriage.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. The Difference Between Hearing and Listening to Understand

   • Why your spouse needs more than a quick “I heard you.”
   • How listening to understand builds trust and intimacy.

2. The Science of Listening in Relationships

   • Studies reveal that active listening can increase marital satisfaction by 30%.
   • Emotional attunement: Why it’s key to resolving conflicts.

3. Challenges to Effective Listening

   • Overcoming distractions in our busy lives.
   • Handling defensiveness and keeping emotions in check.

4. Practical Tips to Improve Your Listening Skills Today

   • The “Witnessing” technique to ensure your partner feels heard.
   • Creating designated spaces for undistracted conversations.
   • How to call a respectful “time out” when emotions run high.

 

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