Revisiting: Undoing the Urge to Overdrink

In this episode, Molly revisits a listener favorite: Undoing the Urge to Overdrink — a heartfelt and informative conversation first shared just before Thanksgiving 2023. Molly reflects on how emotional triggers, life events, and deeply rooted habits shape our relationship with alcohol — and how we can interrupt the cycle to create lasting change.

Molly also shares a poignant personal moment, connecting the episode's theme with the anniversary of her father’s passing on Thanksgiving night in 2022, making this revisited conversation especially meaningful.

This episode coincides with the launch of Just One More, Molly’s new two-week mini-course aimed at helping binge drinkers take the first powerful step toward a peaceful relationship with alcohol. (Sign-ups are open now! Check the link in the show notes.)

Key Topics Covered:

• Defining Overdrinking and Binge Drinking:
  Molly clarifies what constitutes a binge for women (4+ standard drinks) and men (5+ standard drinks) — emphasizing why even gradual consumption across a day still counts as overdrinking.
• Impact of Overdrinking Beyond Intoxication:
  How even without reaching a "drunk" state, overdrinking disrupts sleep, elevates anxiety, taxes the liver, and triggers inflammatory responses.
• Holiday Drinking Traps:
  Common ways Thanksgiving and other holidays can lull us into overdrinking patterns — and why "spreading it out" doesn’t negate its negative effects.
• Personal Reflections on Thanksgiving:
  Molly shares her experience navigating family-induced stress (especially dealing with her mother-in-law’s anxiety) without turning to alcohol, highlighting the importance of mind management.
• The Cycle of Overdrinking:
  Breaking down the behavioral patterns and emotional triggers that drive overdrinking — and how building awareness interrupts the urge before it turns into action.
• Tools for Undoing the Urge:
  Molly emphasizes key strategies:
  • Practicing mindfulness during urges
  • Choosing empathy over resentment in stressful family situations
  • Reframing thoughts to shift emotional responses
  • Focusing on gratitude and emotional resilience
• Important Reminder:
  Changing your drinking habits isn’t just about counting days — it’s about understanding your brain, managing your mind, and creating a lifestyle of peace and intentionality.

Featured Resource:

 Just One More
A two-week mini-program designed to help binge drinkers interrupt old patterns and create a sustainable path toward mindful drinking.
  Sign up here (link in the show notes)

Connect with Molly:

• Website: www.mollywatts.com
• Facebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol Habits

Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:

Healthy men under 65:

No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.

Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:
No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.

One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.

Abstinence from alcohol
Abstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or anot