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December 1, 2025 20 mins

If your brain is telling you, “It’s the holidays, I’ll start in January,” this episode is here to challenge that script. Molly dives into why the belief that we need a perfect time to change our drinking is one of the most misleading and damaging patterns we fall into. In this episode, you’ll discover why December is actually the ideal time to begin changing your relationship with alcohol—and how doing so can help you build real-life skills that stick.

Drawing from neuroscience, behavior science, and lived experience, Molly shows you how to bypass the perfectionism trap and gain momentum before the new year even begins.

What You’ll Learn

  • Why “I’ll start after the holidays” is a psychological trap
  • The science of temporal discounting and how it sabotages habit change
  • How to work with your brain’s neuroplasticity to make change easier
  • Why starting now creates more resilient, long-term results
  • Practical tools to begin moderating your drinking today

Featured Concepts

  • Habit change during high-stress seasons
  • Real-life application of the Behavior Map-Results Cycle
  • Building skills in real time vs. waiting for “perfect” conditions
  • Embracing discomfort as part of sustainable behavior change

Quote to Remember

“If you wait for life to calm down to make a change, you’ll be waiting forever. Change happens when you decide it does—even in December.” – Molly Watts

Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:

Healthy men under 65:

No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.

Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:
No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.

One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.

Abstinence from alcohol
Abstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.

Benefits of “low-risk” drinking
Following these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work.

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