Are the five love languages the secret to a successful relationship? Or do they just enforce outdated relationship norms? In this episode, we dive into how love languages can be helpful, not as a guideline to express love, but as a lens to spot and respond to gaps in connection. We also share our experiences from going to couple’s counseling with our ex-husbands, where we first learned about these five love languages, and how we use them in our relationship today. If you’ve ever felt boxed in by a quiz result or confused about what you need from your partner, this episode will help you feel seen and give you tools to go deeper.
Some key takeaways from this episode include:
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Love languages aren’t fixed. Regular check-ins, reflection, or therapy can help keep open communication about what each of you needs in a particular season.
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You don’t have to speak just one. Love languages work best when they’re used as a mix - not a label - to help your partner feel seen and supported in different seasons.
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Patriarchal structures still show up in our relationships, but we have the power to teach our kids (and ourselves) more equitable ways to love and live. Conversations about these structures can feel uncomfortable, but they’re crucial for fostering happier, healthier relationships.
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