But First, She Failed
Welcome to But First, She Failed. Do you want to have unshakable confidence when you go into that meeting- no matter who’s in the room? Do you want to quit that job that makes you unhappy and start that dream business or go after that dream job but you’re scared of failing? Or wonder how those wildly successful women that you look up to got to where they are today? What if failure is part of the journey towards success and purpose? Hey, I'm Paola Soares, a former journalist who feared, failed and overcame. I too dealt with imposter syndrome and compared myself to others in my industry. After being let go from a position that I thought was a dream job and feeling like I failed. I had a life changing revelation; every successful person fails, it’s part of the journey towards success and purpose. Join me as I talk to trailblazing women that share wisdom, strategies and get vulnerable about how moments of “failure” propelled them to where they are today. Get ready to get inspired!
Episodes
Struggling to stay motivated? Feeling discouraged and wondering if it’s even worth it to keep going? This episode is for you.
This week on But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares talks about what it means to show up even when you don’t feel like it—especially in those moments when confidence is low, self-doubt is loud, and the results just aren’t showing up yet.
Whether you’re building a busi...
In this episode of the But First, She Failed podcast, Paola Soares breaks down how to actually develop a growth mindset—one of the most powerful tools for personal and professional success.
You’ll learn how to start thinking differently, move past self-doubt, and build habits that support long-term growth. Whether you’re facing setbacks, navigating a career transition, or simply ready to level up, this epi...
Do you ever feel like you're not good enough at work, or worry you're falling behind in your career or business? In this empowering episode of But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares juxtaposes a growth mindset vs. a fixed mindset in various scenarios— especially in the workplace.
If you’re a woman chasing big dreams but battling low confidence, imposter syndrome, or fear of failure, this episode is for ...
What is the one trait or characteristic that all successful people have in common?
In this episode, host Paola Soares shares what she has learned after talking to countless trailblazers as well as reading books on this topic and being in proximity to many highly successful people.
In this episode she dives into the power of a growth mindset, what it is and the background on it as well as the ...
In this episode of the But First, She Failed Podcast, host Paola Soares welcomes Nikki Barua — serial entrepreneur, bestselling author, keynote speaker, and Interim CEO of Latinas in Tech — for a powerful conversation on thriving in the age of AI.
As artificial intelligence continues to rapidly transform the workforce, it’s no longer a question of if AI will affect our careers, but how. A recent McKinsey G...
In this episode of the But First She Failed podcast, Host Paola Soares tackles a topic that many of us face but few talk about openly—discouragement. Drawing from her own experiences, Paola unpacks how discouragement can silently impact our careers, businesses, dreams, and mental well-being.
She discusses the dangers of discouragement and reminds us that feeling discouraged doesn’t make us weak—it makes us...
In this episode of But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares sits down with her pastor Dawncheré Wilkerson to talk about her newly released debut book Slow Burn:The Work and Wonder of the Wait.
A renowned international pastor, speaker, singer, songwriter, and now author, DawnCheré has encouraged countless people to keep moving forward, even in seasons of waiting.
As the co-lead pastor of VOUS C...
In this inspiring episode of But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares sits down with Yuri Cordero, Vice President and Executive Producer of Univision’s iconic news show Primer Impacto. A trailblazer in Spanish-language media, Yuri shares her remarkable 30-year journey, how she broke barriers in a competitive industry, rose to the top, and built a legacy rooted in faith, resilience, and purpose-driven leadership.
In this episode, Host Paola Soares speaks with Jennifer Tsay, co-founder and CEO of Shoott.com, a fast-growing photography platform that’s transforming the way people book professional photo sessions. Jennifer shares her incredible journey from working in the corporate space to acting and into entrepreneurship, and how she leveraged her transferable skills, resilience, and a strong sense of purpose to scale a business ...
In this episode, host Paola Soares talks dives into the hidden dangers of perfectionism and how it can silently sabotage your career, business, and professional development. Over the past few weeks, we’ve explored perfectionism’s grip on our personal lives, but now it’s time to take a closer look at its impact on our professional worlds.
From procrastination and burnout to stifled creativity and impaired d...
In this episode, host Paola Soares talks about the root causes of perfectionism, is it genetic or environmental? What are developmental things in your childhood that could cause someone to be a perfectionist? And how to combat perfectionism when it pops up?
In this episode Paola continues the deep dive into the complexities of perfectionism and its origins. She explores how genetics, parenting, societal pr...
In this episode, host Paola Soares talks about being a high achiever vs. perfectionism and how to know the difference.
In this episode she goes over the various traits of a high achiever vs. a perfectionist and juxaposes them side by side so you can see which category you fall into. It’s always wise to reflect and see what’s healthy vs. unhealthy and this episode will give you the handles and information o...
In this episode, host Paola Soares talks about how perfectionism is actually a form of self-sabotage.
She dives into the unexpected truth about perfectionism and how it may be silently sabotaging your life, career, and dreams. You might think of perfectionism as a pursuit of excellence, but in reality, it’s often a form of self-sabotage that keeping you stuck.
She also shares personal stories ...
In this episode, host Paola Soares chats about 7 reasons why it’s crucial to start your personal brand in 2025.
Whether you’re an entrepreneur, freelancer, or professional or stay at home mom, building a personal brand can open doors to new opportunities, enhance your credibility, and help you stand out in a competitive world. Tune in to discover why establishing your personal brand now will set you up for...
In this episode, host Paola Soares breaks down 6 ways to figure out your perfect side hustle.Whether you are over your 9-5 or looking for something that’s more flexible and will lead to the life you want? Or maybe you are a stay at home mom or a part time work from home mom but you’d love to eventually have your own business… Maybe you are ok with your current situation but just something tugging at your heart telling...
In this episode, Host Paola Soares speaks with financial coach, author and trainer Michelle Velasquez, to discuss how to confidently leave your 9-5 job and take control of your finances. Michelle shares invaluable insights on making more money, building financial confidence, and becoming a financial powerhouse—both as an individual and as a couple. If you're thinking of taking the leap into full-time entrepreneurship o...
In this episode, host Paola Soares breaks down 6 powerful strategies to help you set and crush your quarterly goals like a true boss. Whether you're looking to supercharge your career, business, or personal life, these actionable tips will give you the framework to plan, execute, and stay on track every quarter. Tune in to learn how to stay focused, stay motivated, and make meaningful progress toward your big dreams!
<...In this episode, host Paola Soares 5 powerful steps to help you supercharge your year and set yourself up for success. From goal-setting strategies to staying focused and motivated, you’ll learn actionable tips to take control of your time, productivity, and personal growth. Whether you're aiming for big career moves, personal development, or simply a more organized year, this episode has everything you need to start s...
In this episode, host Paola Soares opens up about her time away from the podcast over the past year. It hasn’t been a break, but a period of growth, healing, and deep reflection. From navigating the challenges of maternity leave and expanding her family, to evolving as a wife, mother, and woman. She’s grown in ways she never expected, and is sharing what she learned, how she changed, and what she’s been working on behi...
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