Will people still like me? Will I be boring? Will I be left out? We’ve been there, and today our team joins us to share the real story of how friendships shift… and why the changes are ultimately a beautiful blessing.You’ll hear honest fears, surprising blessings, and practical ways to navigate social life alcohol-free, without losing yourself (or your true people).📘 What you’ll learn in this episode:
- From fear to freedom: The most common friendship worries (being “boring,” losing invites, not fitting in) and what actually happened.
- Practicing new social firsts: Weddings, themed parties, girls’ nights, how repetition makes it normal (and fun) to show up sober.
- Quality over quantity: Redefining friendship from “people I drink with” to mutual care, honesty, and presence.
- Vulnerability vs. lowered inhibitions: Why real connection requires trust, not cocktails, and how to build it.
- The ripple effect: How your “no” can give someone else permission to skip the drink too.
- Loosening your grip: Offering up friendships you’re clinging to and watching God bring better-than-expected community.
🕊️ Scripture woven through:
- Romans 12:2 — Don’t conform; be transformed.
- Ephesians 3:16–20 — God does immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine.
- Genesis 22 — Trusting God with what you love (Abraham & Isaac).
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