Chat & Bother

Chat & Bother

Are you tired of no one responding to your Tweets, Facebook posts, WhatsApp, or group chat messages? Do you start your day by chatting with friends on social media or checking the group chat for a great discussion? Eva does. Every morning she wakes up her husband Don (much too early for his liking) with pop culture, internet drama, nostalgia, and what's new, next, and "nah." Each week on Chat & Bother, Black, Gen X husband and wife conversation starters, Don and Eva discuss a question or topic that people are asking each other online. It could be something that you and your friends are already talking about, or it could be something that you should be talking about. Ready to start all the best conversations? Start right here with us on Chat & Bother.

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December 29, 2025 17 mins

Remember when the news only came on at 6 and 11—and one scandal could completely dominate the country for months? In this episode, we take a deep (and sometimes hilarious) dive into the most unforgettable scandals of the 1980s and 1990s, back when tabloids ruled, celebrity justice looked very different, and America watched history unfold in real time. We talk about how news spread before 24-hour cable, social media, and citizen jou...

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If you were alive in the 90s, you felt these moments — even if you didn't fully understand them at the time. In this episode of Chat and Bother, we revisit three explosive news stories that stopped classrooms, dominated dinner-table conversations, and reshaped how a generation consumed the news.

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This week on Chat and Bother, we're rewinding to a time when the news didn't just break—it spilled, fell apart, and in one case… got cut short.

We're unpacking three of the most can-you-believe-this-was-real stories from the 80s and 90s:

- the Exxon Valdez oil spill, when corporate responsibility ran aground and cleanup plans clearly weren't shipshape;

- Milli Vanilli, who taught us that sometimes the music hits… but the truth skip...

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Do you remember the Tylenol Murders (now a Netflix movie!)? Where were you when the Space Shuttle Challenger exploded? What do you remember about the most famous 80s televangelists? Welcome to the season premiere of the Chat and Bother Podcast!

We are kicking off this season with some of the news that Gen Xers remember. Back when news came on at 6 and 11, and the TV went off at the end of the day, remember that? Weigh in and tell u...

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Thirteen tapes for a penny from Columbia House? Win a million dollars if you order some magazines from Publisher's Clearing House? PART of a complete breakfast? Learning to break dance from Alfonso Ribero's BOO...

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For this special Q&A Sunday during Black History Month, we're discussing the unforgettable Black movies that shaped our childhoods and helped define a generation.

Fr...

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This Black History Month, let's take it back to the Gen X era! In this special Q&A Sunday episode, Don and Eva answer questions about the impact of Black culture from the '70s through the early 2000s. From the ...

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This Q&A Sunday, we're talking about what it takes to have a successful marriage! From communication and trust to navigating challenges together, we're sharing our thoughts on making relationships last. Follow ...

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Did Baby Boomers create the perfect storm for Gen X anxiety? Or did they accidentally raise the most resilient (and hilariously unbothered) generation ever? In this episode, Eva and Don break down the chaos of ...

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This week, we need you to tell us - Is she the a-hole? Here's the dilema.

"I'm a 49-year-old woman dating a great 52-year-old man, but he has a massive figurine coll...

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Did you ever dream of cruising the neighborhood on a Big Wheel, baking tiny cakes in an Easy-Bake ...

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This week, Don and Eva tackle a heated AITA post that's sparking plenty of opinions. A mother is thinking about taking her ex-husband to court to help pay for their child's private school tuition after discover...

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December 23, 2024 16 mins

In this episode, Don and Eva respond to comedian Steve Brown's viral reel from the Smitty and Dee Podcast, where he goes off about people wearing pajamas, bonnets, and carrying pillows in the airport—and young ...

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In this episode of Chat and Bother, Eva and Don discuss that time when gospel legend Marvin Sapp made headlines for telling ushers to lock the church doors until everyone gave $20. Was it bold faith or financial pressure? A holy hustle or just poor judgment?

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What would you do if you saw your friend's spouse on a dating app? In this episode, Eva and Don react to a viral AITA post where a recently divorced man spots his close friend's wife on a dating profile. Should he tell his friend and risk drama, or stay silent and let it play out?

Let's talk about friendship, loyalty, and the messy reality of secrets in relations...

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In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva discuss  the lasting influence of high school coaches and the powerful impact they have on shaping our character and future. Whether you were an athlete, mathlete...

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In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva discuss their recent experience of moving kids into their college dorms and how it's changed over the years. They'll compare the practical, no-frills dorm decorat...

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In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva discuss the evolution of college move-in day and how it has drastically changed from Generation X to Generation Z. From the days of landlines and Mapquest to the ...

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What do you do when your spouse wakes you up and asks you to install the ESPN app on her iPad? You install it - no questions asked. Unless you don't want to watch a documentary at 5 am and discuss it. Then you ask as many questions ...

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Richard Simmons, Shannen Doherty, Dr. Ruth Westheimer... and more celebrities from our youth passed away in the last few days. What does that say about us? Are we not long for this world? 

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