Conduct Unbecoming: A Military True Crime Podcast
This podcast analyzes the crimes committed by US military personnel - the very people who swore to protect the United States against all enemies foreign and domestic, only to become the sort of monsters we fear.
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If you were hoping I'd kick season 4 off with a bang, I'll instead start us off with a reference to Firework, the musical masterpiece from Katy Perry. I have no casual transition to tell you that the song is FIFTEEN YEARS OLD, and that its age makes me feel personally attacked. Apparently, there's a not insignificant portion of servicemembers that DO feel like a plastic bag drifting through the wind wanting t...
During sorority rush, we came up with quiet signals to communicate without having to out ourselves out to prospective new members. When things were going south during a conversation, we'd make eye contact with another sister and play with our hair - a bat signal asking for help. Naturally, this bled into the rest of our lives. If we were out and got bad vibes, we'd make eye contact with a sister and play with...
I don't know if we even consider it an unwritten code that you don't date your ex's friends or your friend's exes. I feel like that's probably actually written somewhere when it comes to explaining to people how they should behave. We give high school students a little bit of a pass because their social circles are small and it's kind of low stakes in most high school relationships. But when the world opens up to you, I think we ca...
When we moved back from Japan to the United States, we encountered an ever tightening noose of gun violence. It was an abrupt reintegration to the American fascination with firearms. I don't know if the socialization of young boys to idolize and play with guns has anything to do with the prevalence of violence, and without CDC research into the gun violence that plagues this country, it's unlikely we'll have r...
I think the worst phone call I've had to make to my dad is when I was fresh out of college and working in Tennessee. I got cut off on an exit ramp and didn't have enough space to stop, so I ended up in a fender bender. Well, my fenders, bumper, hood and headlights all needed a makeover, but the Honda CRV that darted in front of me bore only a scratch from my license plate screw. The person I dreaded calling mo...
I remember the first time I went out to socialize after learning I passed the Bar exam. I'd graduated in May, studied for months, took the test, and waited until late November for results. The wait was brutal – I lost about a third of my hair volume from the stress that comes with spending tens of thousands of dollars on an education that I really, really hoped would result in a Bar license on the first try. ...
I'd like to say that I don't spend a lot of time thinking about what I'm going to share, but we're two and a half years deep on this podcast, so we all know the truth. When you think about it, the lifestyle cultivated by military moves is actually kind of ideal for those drawn to murder. Take the Navy, for instance. Many of their warm water duty stations are popular vacation spots drawing tourists - looking specifically to Hawaii, ...
Prior to recent legally dubious phone searches at border crossings, I have never had occasion to sweat giving someone access to my phone. Now, I fear my pure sass would have me, a U.S. citizen, extradited to a country I have no ties to. I suppose we are all fortunate that I squeaked back into the country when I did. At least now we know that, should I vacation abroad, I'll take a prepaid phone without my usual...
In the aftermath of a sexual assault, one young Marine struggled to cope with what happened, and with her underlying health conditions. It seemed for her that each place she turned, she was met with either unwillingness or inability to help. She continued to spiral until someone ended up in custody… not her assailant, but her.
Sometimes when I need to compose a challenging message, I rely on a council of women. It's always women because I have many years of Taboo board game experience and a team of women will win every time.
My first council of women messaging meeting followed a weird twenty first birthday in which the young man I was dating ignored all of my friends and criticized me for...
The last two times I reported for jury duty, I got kicked by the parties using peremptory challenges. The first time, I was working on post conviction record relief and it was a criminal case--a prosecutor's least favorite kind of juror. The second time, I held a more general legal position and it was a civil case. I think both times I got kicked it was because I'm an attorney and, well, attorneys think other ...
My freshman year of college, I spent a lot of time out of my dorm room. Which, given the size of the room I shared with two other women, was objectively the correct choice. My primary motivation for avoiding the room my parents lovingly and generously paid for was a roommate that was… very friendly… with members of the opposite sex. I didn't want to sit in awkward tension while my roommate waited for me to lea...
Just before last call in a beachfront party area, two sets of men observed a woman that was a little too drunk. What they chose to do, having realized she was so vulnerable, proved the litmus test for them. The events of December 1, 2019 stand to show that it's perhaps not all men that would assault women when given the opportunity, but certainly Lance Corporal Swisher.
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A few years back, we were at a holiday party when the host grabbed my butt. I turned in horror and he observed to his friend that what he did was "probably not good." I scooped up my spouse, explained that I wouldn't be in the same room with that man again, and I'm happy to report to you all my life has been blissfully unwanted buttgrab free.
The most ideal situati...
It's been my experience that women and girls receive a lot of messaging around domestic violence. We're coached to recognize warning signs and to get out. In hushed conferences, we advise each other to set aside a little money, just in case. We tentatively poke at the edges of relationships to try and discern whether our friends are safe. I don't offer this to suggest that men cannot or do not suffer from domestic violence, but to ...
There are parts of the drive up to the national park atop Haleakala that start to feel a little otherworldly. You're angled up and climbing quickly, and you can lose sight of the horizon before you crest a hill and reacquaint yourself accordingly. The effects of altitude can be potent, and they can come on quickly. Best practice is, of course, to stop and park to avoid driving unsafely.
For Lieutenant Alkonis, pulling over simply ...
This case has a lot of moving parts, but in trying to write this introduction, I found I kept distilling it to the same point. Viewed through a relationships lens, this case highlights how far two women would go for the men they loved. One woman, grieving the loss of her beloved, vowed to work towards a more effective military justice system. The other helped hide her fugitive boyfriend and, after his arrest, ...
I have a pretty serious food allergy - one I feel compelled to share with restaurant staff and friends we visit with. It's deeply unfun, but the alternative is, you know, anaphylaxis. The silver lining I've been able to identify is that it shows me how fiercely I'm loved by family and friends, who generously announce to others at parties that they, too, are responsible for not murdering me. For my servicemember spouse, I am equall...
Eight young men started the night at various happy events, celebrating the end of an arduous week of work. Then, they clashed in an unplanned roadside encounter. Although they'd been at parties, they had at least a combined four knives between them, some brandished, some reserved. The two groups struggled to find common ground in what had become a racially charged atmosphere. Fortunately, they found their common thread and the tens...
There's been a lot of discussion in the legal community about the culpability of those whose brains have not yet fully developed. I think that's why college has such a deserved reputation for being formative. Your brain is still developing and you're processing new experiences and shaping your worldview, giving you the chance to outgrow your high school, hometown self. The military offers many of America's you...
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