Why are we so stressed & overwhelmed? Why do we have clear & compelling goals but fail to reach them? How can we want to change so desperately yet make choices that keep us from that change? Because we keep focusing on the habits we want instead of building the skill of consistency that allows us to achieve them. Consistency is a skill. It's a superpower. It isn't one-size-fits all. It unlocks any door and makes every goal achievable. A more effective, realistic approach starts here.
You know the feeling. What's wrong with me? I just can't. I don't know how. I've tried everything and nothing works for me. It feels like there's no way through.
This week I'm walking you through three things that get you through, every single time. Creativity, specificity, and persistence. I'll show you exactly how they work using three real client conversations: a woman who asked the wrong question about her health while waiting ...
If you've ever watched someone make clean eating look effortless and quietly assumed they were just born with more discipline than you, this episode is going to reframe the whole thing.
Because easier was never about having more willpower. It was about needing it less of...
This week I did something I'd been telling myself for over a year I couldn't do. Not wouldn't. Couldn't. It was too complicated, I didn't know where to start, I didn't have time, and the first time I asked, I got told no.
And then I finally did it. In a matter of weeks.
...Somebody has a million dollars to bet on one person, not the most talented, the most relentless. The one who doesn't quit, who's scrappy, who finds a way when the odds are ugly. They don't get to interview you. They get to watch how you actually live. Would they bet on you?
You're trying to lose weight and the scale has barely moved. You're building something and a year in, it's still not where you need it to be. You're waiting on a hard season to lift, a relationship to heal, a prayer to be answered.
That's waiting. And almost all of us ar...
My husband once told me all the things that irritate him about how I communicate. Too long, wrong topic, bad timing, telling him something he already knows. One day I stopped and said: you've left me no room to succeed. There's no path that works.
Then I realized —...
This might be a bad choice. Might be a great one. Not really sure, but listen either way.
What if the real enemy to your progress isn't your motivation, your plan, or how busy you are — but self-sufficiency? The belief that you should be able to handle this yourself.
In this episode, I name the four disguises self-sufficiency wears in our lives, and wha...
A client walked into Boston with a sentence she was certain was the real story. Aside from my weight, I'm healthy. It wasn't a lie. It was the answer that made every other question stop being a question.
The most tragic conversations I have are with people who believe it's not possible for them.
You already know all-or-nothing thinking is a problem. You've heard it called perfectionism. You've heard "progress not perfection." None of that has stopped it from walloping you year after year.
That's because recognizing the pattern doesn't defend against the pattern....
"I don't have time to take care of myself. I'm taking care of everyone else."
It's the most socially acceptable excuse in the world. Nobody pushes back on it. Nobody questions it. And that's exactly why it's been running your life — and why a part of you already knows it isn't fully true.
In this episode, Elizabeth surgically takes apart the excuse that's been protected by everyone in yo...
If you're constantly saying "I'm too tired" and watching your follow-through fall apart because of it, this episode is for you.
Every decision in your life is being routed through a decision tree — and for most of us, the very first checkpoint on that tree is "Am I tired?" When the answer is yes, the path is predetermined: skip, defer, abandon, indulge. It's not a discipline problem. It's an architec...
This episode is not really about bees.
Yes, Elizabeth got bees. Yes, she went to bee school. Yes, she is still very much afraid of anything that can fly and sting her. But one month into beekeeping, the lessons are already showing up everywhere — in fear, mistakes, motherhood, stress, support, and the pursuit of a life that feels more alive.
What if the thing you keep calling rest is actually part of the reason you feel so tired?
In today's episode, Elizabeth shares a powerful reframe that might change the way you look at your mornings, your workday, your home, your overwhelm, and the tiny choices that either create relief or create more pressure later.
This isn't hu...
A lot of people are more discouraged than they need to be.
Not because their goals don't matter.
Not because change is easy.
But because they are discouraged by problems they haven't fully worked.
In this episode, Elizabeth shares a real conversation from DEFENSE Foundations about w...
If you've been telling yourself that your circumstances are the reason you keep falling off track, this episode is for you.
Because stress isn't the decision.
Being tired isn't the decision.
The hard day isn't the decision.
Those things are the
What happens when you spend more time consuming fear than creating hope?
In this throwback revisited episode, Elizabeth updates an older conversation with a fresh perspective: people are more stressed, more anxious, more negative, and more emotionally flat than ever — and one big reason is that too many people are informed, but not inspired.
Tiny choices become heavy chains.
In this episode, Elizabeth unpacks one of the most expensive stories we tell ourselves: this one thing won't hurt. Whether it's the cookie, the skipped workout, the impulse buy, the snoozed alarm, or the task you swear you'll do tomorrow, the issue usually isn't the isolated choice. The issue is the pattern.
This episode is ...
If overwhelm is a repeat problem in your life, it deserves a strategy.
Too many people treat overwhelm like weather. It shows up, wrecks the day, and they just try to get through it. But if overwhelm keeps happening, there is a reason. And if there is a reason, there is something to solve.
In this throwback-inspired episode, Eli...
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Hey Jonas! The official Jonas Brothers podcast. Hosted by Kevin, Joe, and Nick Jonas. It’s the Jonas Brothers you know... musicians, actors, and well, yes, brothers. Now, they’re sharing another side of themselves in the playful, intimate, and irreverent way only they can. Spend time with the Jonas Brothers here and stay a little bit longer for deep conversations like never before.
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by Audiochuck Media Company.
Building on the belief that a deeper understanding of the natural world enriches all of our lives, host Steven Rinella brings an in-depth and relevant look at all outdoor topics including hunting, fishing, nature, conservation, and wild foods. Filled with humor, irreverence, and things that will surprise the hell out of you, each episode welcomes a diverse group of guests who add their own expertise to the vast world of the outdoors. Part of The MeatEater Podcast Network.
Where the world and America meet, with episodes each weekday. The world is changing. Decisions made in the US and by the second Trump administration are accelerating that change. But they are also a symptom of it. With Asma Khalid in DC, Tristan Redman in London, and the backing of the BBC’s international newsroom, The Global Story brings clarity to politics, business and foreign policy in a time of connection and disruption. Come and join us our live event. You can register for Castfest tickets here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/showsandtours/shows/castfest-2026