3819 Rest Does Your Heart Good

When you’re sprinting through life’s endless to-do list, hopping from one task to the next, your brain turns into a cluttered mess. Forget keeping everything straight — even keeping love alive for your spouse can feel like a heavy lift. It’s no surprise emotions run high, patience runs low, and connection takes a hit. So here’s a truth that might sound too simple but can change everything: rest does your heart good.

Imagine being so rested that your emotions don’t hijack you.

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You catch yourself before frustration spirals. You can listen without tuning out. You can love freely without the weight of exhaustion clouding your judgment.

Sound like a dream?

It’s entirely possible if you prioritize rest, not just as a luxury, but as a foundational practice.

Rest isn’t just about shutting your eyes at night (though sleep is a huge piece of the puzzle).

Rest is giving yourself permission to pause, recharge, and reclaim your emotional bandwidth. It’s stepping off the treadmill long enough to see the whole picture — to notice your spouse in all their complexities without the fog of fatigue.

This becomes even more critical for couples. When one or both partners are running on empty, misunderstandings multiply, small annoyances feel like major battles, and love seems to dwindle under the pressure. Sometimes the best way forward is to stop pushing so hard. Sometimes what your marriage needs most is lots of rest.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Rest!

It's one word - REST!!! How well are you doing this in your marriage?

So what does resting look like for a spouse who wants to love better and live with more emotional clarity? Here are three game-changing moves:

1. Create Intentional Quiet Time Alone
   Ignore the noise from devices, work, and family obligations for even just 15-30 minutes daily. Use this time to breathe, journal, meditate, or simply stare out a window thinking about nothing but the present moment. This mental break lowers stress hormones, resets emotional reactivity, and allows your heart to slow down.

2. Prioritize Quality Sleep as a Non-Negotiable
   No excuses. Set a bedtime that lets you get deep, uninterrupted rest. Better sleep improves mood regulation, decision-making, and intimacy. It’s common sense but shockingly underrated. Rested people handle conflict with grace — tired people do not.

3. Set Boundaries Around “Busy” and Learn to Say No
   Your worth isn’t tied to how many things you check off your list. Stop saying yes to everything that pulls your attention and energy away from your relationship. Rest includes guarding your calendar fiercely so you can show up fully for your spouse, rather than as a distracted, worn-out version of yourself.

If your heart feels weighed down, look first to rest. It’s not a sign of weakness or laziness. It’s a strategic move if you want to love fiercely, clearly, and well. Put rest front and center and watch how it changes the way you see your spouse—and how you love them.

You’ll find holding space for rest isn’t just good for your heart—it’s good for your whole life.

"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"

 

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