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It’s easy to scroll through social media and feel like everyone else’s life is perfect, exciting, or somehow “better” than yours.
But here’s the truth: the highlight reels you see aren’t the whole story, they’re curated snippets, edited for likes, comments, and applause.
In this episode, we talk about why the quiet, ordinary moments matter more than the flashy ones. Your life isn’t meant to be a highlight reel, it’s meant to be liv...
We live in a world that tells us “faster is better,” whether it’s losing weight, improving our relationships, or hitting career goals. But the pressure to rush often comes from fear—and it can disconnect us from the very process that brings results.
In this episode, I talk about tearing down the timeline. When you slow down...
Sometimes, the most healing thing you can do… is say “no” to what doesn’t serve you. In this episode, I talk about healthy rebellion, not the wild, reckless kind, but the kind that helps you reclaim your life, your voice, and your peace of mind.
You’ll hear why you don’t owe anyone an explanation for your boundaries, your needs...
Ever feel like you’re living by an invisible rulebook? The one that says be nice, don’t rock the boat, say yes even when you’re screaming no inside? That’s the “Good Girl” trap—and it comes at a cost.
In this episode, we’re breaking down what it really means to abandon yourself in the name of people-pleasing and perfectionism. ...
In this episode of Creating Her Best Life, we’re tackling a big myth: the idea that you need more motivation to get things done. Here’s the hard truth—waiting around for motivation to hit might actually be the thing that’s keeping you stuck.
We all know how it feels to wait for that burst of energy to get started, but here’s the c...
I keep meeting incredible women who look at themselves like they're broken puzzles missing pieces. Like they're somehow behind in this imaginary race we're all supposedly running. And honestly? It breaks my heart because I see you – and you are NOT a problem that needs solving.
In today's episode, we're diving deep into that question that might just change everything: "Who am I when I stop trying to fix myself?" Because here's what...
In this episode, we tackle the tricky topic of expectations. Ever catch yourself expecting someone to just know what you want, only to be disappointed when they don’t? I dive into how holding onto these unspoken scripts can not only set others up to fail, but it also blinds us to the real beauty of who they truly are. The key? Sharing our expectations, so we can stop hoping they’ll just guess. Tu...
If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling behind in life, this episode is your reminder: you’re not behind— you’re in the process. I'm breaking down the lies that come up when you start comparing your timeline to someone else’s highlight reel or some imaginary version of where you "should" be. That mindset only robs you of joy and either pushes you into burnout or holds you in place.
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In this episode, I'm diving into the subtle, silent habits that quietly sabotage your progress—the ones that don’t always look like self-sabotage on the surface. From overcommitting and procrastinating to doubting your own voice, these patterns keep you stuck in cycles that feel productive but lead nowhere. You’ll learn how to recognize the hidden ways you block your own breakthroughs, and what it r...
I used to think my relationship would get better if only my partner would change, be more present, more affectionate, more anything. But what I’ve learned is that real change started when I stopped focusing on what he wasn’t doing and started looking at how I was showing up.
In this episode, I’m sharing what it means to shift a relationship by shifting yourself. Not by shrinking or people-pleasing, but by growing, owning your part,...
Today’s episode is a little something special as we approach our 300th episode! The producers of Creating Her Best Life podcast have taken over the podcast this week and have handpicked a few of the most powerful, eye-opening moments from our last 100 episodes to share with you—moments that we know will give you the encouragement you need to keep moving forward, no matter where you’re at ...
Ever feel like you’re stuck in a rut, like no matter what you do, the next step just feels impossible? I think we’ve all been there. But here's the thing: there's this quiet force called hope that has a way of sneaking in when we need it most. It’s not loud or in-your-face, but it’s powerful enough to keep us moving forward, even when we’re ready to throw in the towel.
In this episode, I'm diving into how hope works, and how it get...
Sometimes life feels slow, like you’re stuck or falling behind. But this episode is a reminder: good things take time. The growth you can’t see—the deep, unseen work—is often the most important part. You’re not behind; you’re growing roots. And roots matter. Flowers don’t last without them. It’s easy to get caught up waiting for the visible bloom, but real strength and lasting change are built underground, in the quiet seasons. Tru...
Ever wake up one day and wonder, “Where did I go?” You’re checking boxes, showing up for everyone, juggling roles like mom, wife, boss, caregiver, friend… and somewhere in the shuffle, you got lost. This episode is a heart-to-heart for every woman who's ever felt like she disappeared behind the roles she plays.
Ever wake up and think, “Okay… what can I do today to just feel better?”
In this episode, we’re getting real about those blah days—the ones where you’re running on fumes, your to-do list is giving you side-eye, and you’re just trying to make it to bedtime without losing it. We’re unpacking simple, doable ways to lift your mood, protect your peace, and maybe even make yourself smile a little.
Welcome to a special episode of Creating Your Best Life, where I’m giving you an exclusive sneak peek into my Year of You program when I taught the power of Delaying Your Gratification from my March Workshop.
Join me as I share how delaying instant rewards can lead to greater long-term success and fulfillment in life. This isn't just about saying "no" to now; i...
Tired of waiting to “feel” confident before you finally go for it? Yeah… that’s not how it works. Confidence doesn’t come first—it’s the result of taking action, messing up, learning, and doing it anyway. This episode is your reminder to stop letting self-doubt drive the bus. You’ll learn how to turn down the volume on that inner critic and grow real, earned confidence—one brave step at a time. N...
We all have dreams—those big, exciting, deep-in-your-soul desires. But if that’s true, why do so many of us stay stuck, watching from the sidelines instead of going after what we really want? In this episode, we’re getting real about what’s actually holding you back (hint: it’s probably not what you think).
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Ever feel like you’re living on autopilot, checking all the right boxes, keeping everyone else happy—but somehow, you’re the one running on empty? You’re not alone. So many of us get stuck in the cycle of people-pleasing, saying yes when we mean no, and shaping our lives around what others expect instead of what actually makes us happy.
Ever felt like you’re doing something wrong because you’re not happy all the time? But what if feeling all the emotions—good, bad, and everything in between—is actually the whole point? In this episode, I'm unpacking why negative emotions aren’t problems to fix but part of the deal. Life is a mix, not a constant high, and that’s okay. Let’s talk about it.
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