dear bianca, LGBTQ+ Sex, Love, Relationships

This episode means so to me. But before you hit play, do yourself a favor—grab a box of tissues, because I cannot keep it together.

Today, February 21st, is my best friend Shannon’s birthday. She should be here celebrating, but instead, I’m honoring her memory. Shannon passed away at just 28 years old due to alcohol addiction, w...

Hi lovers! Friendships in your 30s are definitely a whole vibe—some stick, some fade, and some just look totally different. In this episode, I’m chatting about why friendships change as you grow and how to navigate those shifts without losing your mind (or your squad). Plus, I’ll mention that I’m getting yoga certified—because let’s be real, a little zen goes a long way when you're juggling it all....

Happy New Year, babes! We’re kicking off 2025 with a little self-love because what’s a new year without some fresh goals, a little therapy chat, and of course, queer vibes all around? In this episode, I’m diving into the wild world of therapist hunting (trust me, it’s a journey), what I look for in a therapist and why insurance makes it feel like we’re just trying to survive the system. Plus, I’ll share the deets on how I’m startin...

Ever noticed how the vibe can suddenly shift when a guy finds out you're gay? On this episode of Dear Bianca, I'm diving deep into the "Straight Guy Shuffle" – that awkward dance they do when their initial interest takes an unexpected turn. From the subtle cues to the more obvious changes, I'm sharing my candid observations on how some men react when their attraction goes from "interested" to "uh oh" j...

🎥 First Video Episode Alert! (Apologies for the focus issues on this one—I promise, we're getting it together!) ANYWAY - let's get the fuck into it:

"The egg donor is a lesbian. I am a lesbian. They're gay. And the first woman that I slept with in that threesome...she's delivering the baby." | Lindsay Perrin returns to the show! Since her last appearance, Lindsay's been traveling the world, job-hunting (and avoiding OnlyFans), an...

"This is a new light, a new energy, a new chapter" | Bianca is back bitches, and Season 2 of Dear Bianca is about to take you on another wild ride! In this premiere, Bianca dives into the jaw-dropping scandal involving college basketball player Sedona Prince and her tangled mess of exes, flings, and everyone in between. Alex Cooper’s new SiriusXM deal for Call Her Daddy - insane. But that's not all—Bianca shares her rollercoaster o...

Living with an Ex - Lesbian Edition. "How the fuck is everybody doing?" - Join me on a whirlwind emotional journey in this short, but special episode. Living through the aftermath of a breakup while sharing space with your ex can be tumultuous, but here I am diving deep into my feelings, giving you an intimate peek into where my soul is at.

I bare it all, expressing the exhaustion and hope coexisting within me. In this quick check-...

"I feel like I've lived a million lives and this is my last life to just do it all" | In this episode, we get up close and personal with  sensational queer singer/songwriter, Lauren Sanderson as she takes us behind the scenes of her electrifying tour, the 'IDC AT ALL Tour'.

Hailing from the Midwest, now capturing hearts worldwide with her music journey that began on YouTube. Fast forward to today, and she's not just selling out sho...

"To us, traveling is about learning someone else's culture, not imposing ours on them" | We're BACK in the Dear Bianca studio - fuck, I missed you all. Kirstie and Christine, the dynamic duo behind @OnAirplaneMode__ take us on a journey through their extraordinary world of LGBTQ travel influencing. Listen to how they transformed their passion into a profession and learn the insider secrets to turning wanderlust into a thriving care...

"With straight women, there's no committment" | We have a very special guest joining us on the show - Sara, my childhood friend and the only lesbian friend from my hometown. We go way back to our travel softball days when we were kids. 

Sara and I take a trip down memory lane as we recall the moment we realized we were attracted to women. It's fascinating to explore how we navigated those feelings as commitment, trying to make sen...

"I'm in love with a girl who likes to play with my emotions, what's your advice?" | Taylor Swift, Noah Beck, Relationship Mind Games, and The Importance of Kissing - let's dive TF in. Bianca takes the hot seat this week for a solo episode as she answers questions submitted by her followers on Instagram. 

With Pride Month wrapped up, Bianca also reflects on her experience celebrating pride in New York City this year. 

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"I can help people facilitate their awakenings with psychedelics" | Bianca is in Los Angeles this episode to connect with beautiful soul, Iris Dailey. Known for her unique perspective on life and the profound impact of psychedelics, Iris takes us on a deeply personal journey of self-discovery and healing.

In this candid and vulnerable conversation, Iris shares never-before-told stories of the emotional and mental abuse she endured ...

"I fucking ripped apart every single letter that she ever wrote me" | Get ready, folks, because Bianca is back and she's bringing the heat in this one! Today, she's diving headfirst into a topic that's sure to stir up some controversy: should you keep gifts and letters from your ex? Should you hold on to those sentimental trinkets that remind you of a past love, or is it time to get that shit out of your life? 

Bianca also takes a ...

"I would have lived what I thought was the perfect American dream because I cared so much about what other people thought about me." | Well-known in the queer TikTok world for her "Are You Gay?" videos, Lindsay Perrin shares her journey as a gay woman who was married to a man for nine years. She opens up about the challenges of living a life that didn't feel true to herself, and how coming out and divorcing her husband allowed her ...

"And at that moment, I did not want to fuck Harry Styles" | She's insanely funny, fashion-forward, and newly single - it's MF, Georgia Bridgers. Georgia started her social media journey as quite the YouTube star, but has also recently become a TikTok sensation. On this episode of Dear Bianca, Georgia shares the moment she realized she was no longer bisexual + never-shared details about her recent breakup, and so much more. This is ...

"I will address this here once and for all, so everybody can calm the fuck down" | Do you think posting your significant other on social media validates your relationship? Does your boyfriend or girlfriend get upset if you don't post them? + Bianca addresses questions that have been thrown at her recently, providing the clarity these people may need to carry on. Let's get into it, welcome to Dear Bianca .

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"Get out of your comfort zone" | Happy MF Valentine's Day, bitches. In this week's episode we talk a whole lot about sex. I sit down with Alice Derock - founder of the queer sex toy company, Wet For Her. Alice sheds light on many thought-about, but rarely spoken about topics. Sit back, relax and listen tf in.

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