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February 25, 2025 28 mins

On the show this week Ang is tackling a subject that is very close to her heart, and one she has first hand experience of - representing yourself in court during a custody battle. When Ang found herself unexpectedly thrust into the position of representing herself in court she had to learn fast or face losing custody of her children. And learn fast she did. In this episode Ang is going to impart all her knowledge to you from a McKenzie friend to the importance of preparation and controlling your emotions to the role of self care, so that you can fight the best fight possible for your future and your children. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • There are many reasons you may decide, or even be forced to, represent yourself in court during a custody hearing. Ang breaks down the various scenarios and shares the details on how she found herself in this position. 
  • Representing yourself in court isn’t like the movies. There are rules and procedures. Sharing a story of how she learnt this lesson, Ang gives an overview on how and why you should be prepared. 
  • Going through this process can be anxiety inducing and create feelings of self doubt. Ang recounts some of the many emotions she experienced throughout her time and court and how she dealt with them.
  • Preparation is everything when you find yourself in this fight. Ang gives a comprehensive overview of the many areas you should prepare for and how best to organise your case. 

BEST MOMENTS

“Not only can you do this, if you do, you’ll come out stronger, wiser and more in control than ever before.”

“It can be hard, but try to avoid the drama and focus on the reason you are there…your children.”

“If you are fighting for your children, make sure you can clearly state why your children will benefit from being with you.”

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