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Dating coach and "Ultimate Wing Girl" Marni Kinrys joins us to share real-world advice for men trying to date with purpose in today’s complex dating landscape. From mastering dating apps to breaking out of the friend zone, Marni offers sharp, practical tips for building confidence, leading with authenticity, and attracting the kind of relationship you actually want.
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In this episode we discuss...
00:00 – Intro: Who is Marni Kinrys?
01:16 – How dating apps have changed everything
02:08 – Why people use apps incorrectly
05:15 – The illusion of choice and dating fatigue
07:34 – Too many options = analysis paralysis
09:37 – Should you give someone a chance if there’s no spark?
10:49 – How to shift energy on a “dud” date
12:48 – Why practicing dates helps you improve
14:13 – Can a woman become more attracted over time?
16:09 – Friend zone recovery: how distance + change works
20:34 – How men can friend-zone women to shift the dynamic
24:46 – Why women compete for validation even without interest
26:08 – Crazy Stupid Love: the psychology of indirect attraction
27:14 – Should men go out with other women publicly?
29:53 – Is pickup artistry dead? (and what remains useful)
33:09 – Confidence vs Cockiness: how to walk the line
36:32 – The #1 way guys accidentally come off arrogant
38:22 – Insecurity disguised as ego: conversation pitfalls
41:24 – Are people dating for fun or a soulmate today?
43:18 – How to date casually the right way
46:20 – What women do on dates that turn men off
48:17 – How bold honesty can change the dating dynamic
50:59 – Not everyone can handle directness — ease into it
52:15 – Nightlife is dead? How to meet people now
54:26 – Creating your own dating/social opportunities
56:01 – Why effort in relationships matters more than ever
58:41 – Breakups: How to rebuild the “I” before dating again
01:01:44 – Should you get back with your ex?
01:04:32 – Can relationships survive cheating?
01:07:32 – Self-awareness and emotional honesty in recovery
01:10:53 – What women actually want: Turn-ons decoded
01:16:31 – Red flags: Rudeness, inconsistency, emotional unavailability
01:21:13 – How to talk about your past without scaring her off
01:24:03 – What “Ever Forward” means to Marni Kinrys
01:26:06 – Get Marni’s free dating course
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