It’s tempting to tell a lie—especially when it makes life easier, avoids conflict, or earns approval. But what happens when we allow small lies to become habits in our families? In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deeper look at the ninth commandment: “You shall not bear false witness.”
They share personal stories of "white lies," explore how environments normalize deceit, and offer biblical encouragement for parenting kids who lie. From fake IDs to fudging a child’s age for a discount, this conversation uncovers how truth-telling is foundational to trust and love in the home.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why lying is often motivated by fear, shame, or the desire for approval
- How “small” lies can create lasting damage in relationships
- Parenting strategies to lovingly confront dishonesty without shame
- Why full confession—not partial—is the only way to rebuild trust
- How to keep communication open and be a “safe place” for truth
Featured Resources:
Visionary Family Events — Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/events
Visionary Family Community — Connect with families around the world committed to passing faith to the next generation. Join us here: https://visionaryfam.com/community
Dominican Republic Mission Trip — Support the Rienow family's July 5–11 mission trip with Filter of Hope. Help bring clean water and the hope of the Gospel to families in need. Learn more and give: https://visionaryfam.com
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