Do not lie. It’s the ninth of the 10 Commandments—but how do we teach this principle to our children in a world where lying is often celebrated? In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow share biblical principles and even humorous stories about honesty, confession, and the battle for truth in our culture and in our homes.
We’ll unpack what it means to bear false witness, how even small acts of deceit impact our relationships, and why truth-telling is a spiritual battle rooted in the very nature of God. From playful games like “two truths and a lie” to microwave deception and missing candy, this conversation gets honest about lying—and how to raise a family that values truth.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why lying is more than just telling a falsehood—it’s about deceit, omission, and distortion
- How our culture normalizes and rewards dishonesty, and what to do about it as Christian parents
- The biblical roots of truth-telling and how it reflects the character of God
- Why Jesus calls Satan “the father of lies”—and how lies keep us captive
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Next week, we’ll continue our conversation on the Ninth Commandment and get practical. How do you deal with lying in your kids? How can you create a home where truth is expected, lived, and celebrated? Join us for Part 2 of “Do Not Lie.”
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