In this deeply powerful episode of the Finding Purpose Podcast, Adam sits down with Ronek Patel, a first-time author whose book, I Am Not Your Boy, is making waves for its raw and unfiltered take on identity, self-acceptance, and overcoming societal expectations.
Ronek’s story is one of resilience, navigating the challenges of growing up in a traditional Indian household, grappling with his HIV diagnosis at just 19, and redefining his own self-worth in a world that often demands conformity. He shares how his family dynamic—marked by his parents’ arranged marriage, his father’s struggles with validation, and the absence of healthy relationship role models—shaped his views on love, self-worth, and belonging.
For three years, Ronek kept his diagnosis a secret, fearing the stigma and rejection. Through deep self-work, therapy, and an unwavering commitment to self-acceptance, he transformed his pain into purpose. His book serves as a guide for others struggling with identity, trauma, and relationships—showing that true love and belonging start from within.
This episode is a raw and necessary conversation about resilience, self-forgiveness, and the courage to own your story.
🔑 Key Takeaways:
✅ Your past doesn’t define you—Ronek’s journey proves that healing is possible, no matter the obstacles.
✅ Secrets create isolation—keeping struggles to yourself can be more damaging than the truth itself.
✅ Love starts from within—understanding self-worth is the foundation for healthy relationships.
✅ Breaking generational cycles—Ronek’s experience highlights the importance of unlearning inherited patterns.
✅ Owning your narrative—writing his book helped Ronek turn pain into purpose, inspiring others to do the same.
🔗 Connect with Ronek & Purchase I Am Not Your Boy
📖 Buy Ronek's Book: I Am Not Your Boy
📸 Instagram: @theronekpatel
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