Money clashes, mismatched spending styles, and prenup pressure—when couples don't talk about finances, things can get messy fast. This episode tackles one of the most overlooked (and awkward!) relationship issues: how to talk about money without ruining the romance. Whether you're dating, getting married for the second time, or trying to merge financial lives, skipping these conversations can cost more than just cash.
Special guest Aleeza Ben Shalom—Netflix star of Jewish Matchmaking, relationship coach, and host of the Matchmaker, Matchmaker podcast—joins us to unpack what financial intimacy really means. She shares real-world insights from hundreds of couples, including why generosity reveals more about people than their cash flow, how to start the money conversation without triggering alarm bells, and why love alone isn't a financial plan.
Key takeaways:
- Talking about money early helps couples avoid future conflict and build true financial intimacy
- Generosity, risk tolerance, and money habits say more about a person than a dating profile ever could
- Second marriages and blended families need proactive planning to protect assets and preserve trust
Want help starting the conversation? Sign up at www.financialdate.com to get your deck of Financial Date conversation cards—perfect for sparking meaningful money talks with your partner.
For more information on Aleeza Ben Shalom visit her website at marriagemindedmentor.com.
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