43. Unexpected Travels, Turning 36, and Happy 3rd Book Birthday!

In this heartfelt episode recorded from Heidelberg, Germany, Melyssa reflects on her 36th birthday, her book's 3rd anniversary, and the challenging year that 2025 has been. She shares about an unexpected trip with her mom, the struggles she's faced in business and life, and introduces her three guiding words for the year ahead: consistency, bold action, and intentionality.

Melyssa opens up about feeling stuck in a rut, battling self-doubt, and the loneliness that's crept in this year. She emphasizes the importance of asking for support, sitting in the discomfort without getting stuck, and remembering that we all have the strength to get through tough times. She also shares practical examples of how she's working to overcome self-consciousness and show up more boldly for her business and audience.

This episode is a raw, real conversation about navigating life's challenges, maintaining hope, and taking action even when it feels uncomfortable. If you're going through something difficult right now, this episode will remind you that you're not alone—and that you have what it takes to keep going.

Key Takeaways:

• Sit in the suck, don't get stuck – It's okay to acknowledge when things are hard, but don't let yourself stay there
• Three words for 36 – Consistency, bold action, and intentionality as guiding principles for growth
• Bold action means doing it anyway – Push through self-doubt and fear of judgment to show up for your goals
• Asking for help is strength – Connecting with support systems is essential for getting through tough times
• You are strong enough – Even when you don't feel it, you have the resilience to face what life throws at you

TIMESTAMPS

• 00:00 – Introduction and welcome to Season 3
• 02:15 – Unexpected trip to Germany and birthday reflections
• 06:30 – The challenging year of 2025: feeling stuck and knocked down
• 10:45 – Birthday theme for 36: Consistency, bold action, and intentionality
• 15:20 – Overcoming self-doubt and not caring what others think
• 18:00 – Book sales reflection and commitment to bold promotion
• 22:30 – The importance of intentionality in relationships and friendships
• 27:00 – Finding a sense of belonging and connection
• 30:15 – Asking for support and celebrating small wins
• 35:00 – Big hairy audacious goal: Changing a million lives
• 38:45 – Getting through the tough stuff and growing through what you go through
• 42:00 – Closing thoughts and book promotion

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• Join the Change Maker Collective group coaching membership to receive support, accountability, and coaching from Melyssa to achieve your lifestyle change goals!
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