As we conclude the school year, parents are turning their sights to summer and the much-anticipated family vacation. We bear such hope for rest and connection on these trips—but we can too easily end up chasing a bucket-list.
Head of Mentoring Joe Cardenas offers a timely intervention for our vacation planning, reminding us to plan for people before places. Bringing his own family traditions and Crescite Week experiences to the question, he offers a new set of questions to help us plan and enjoy a truly transformative, restorative vacation for all members of the family.
Chapters:
00:02:57 The anti-bucket list approach
00:08:23 “You need a change of soul”
00:10:11 Rest
00:13:46 Linger at table
00:15:18 Soak in a limited itinerary
00:17:10 Build in time for reflection
00:19:53 Better vacation planning questions
00:23:27 See it as a pilgrimage
00:28:33 Plan for people before places
00:34:55 Naturally layer in meaning, traditions
00:42:08 Share the highs and lows
00:45:12 The key: to plan ahead of time
Also on the Forum:
Three Components of a “Great” Summer featuring Colin Gleason
Taking Advantage of Summer (for the Non-Working Boy) by Elias Naegele
A Summer Fully Alive by Nate Gadiano
Mentoring Sons to a Successful Summer featuring Joe Cardenas
Four Ways to Have an Incredible Summer by Tom Steenson
Featured opportunities:
Teaching Essentials Workshop at The Heights School (June 16-20, 2025)
Convivium for Teaching Men at The Heights School (November 13-15, 2025)
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