When you look at your closet, do your clothes reflect the life you're living right now… or the one you picture in your head?
For many women, this is where things start to break down.We buy the sequin dress for 'someday,' the heels that sit on the shelf gathering dust, the fancy blouse that feels great on the hanger but awkward on a Tuesday Zoom call. And then, we wonder why we're constantly frustrated, standing in front of a full closet, saying we have nothing to wear.
Fantasy shopping is one of the biggest confidence drains in a wardrobe. It leaves us surrounded by things that don't fit our actual lives, so when it's time to get dressed, we feel disconnected from ourselves. But when you learn to shop for the life you actually lead—the meetings, the errands, the coffee dates, the family get-togethers—you build a wardrobe that supports you, builds confidence, and helps you show up as the woman you already are.
That's what I want to talk about with you today: how to shift from shopping for the fantasy to shopping for reality, and why this single change can transform the way you feel in your clothes.
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