HIM.

HIM.

A Weekly Podcast hosted by four black gay men discussing their lives, love life, what affects them & the Black LGBTQIA Community, against the backdrop of New York City.

Episodes

June 17, 2022 71 mins

On this week's episode the guys discuss transparency with a confession from Stevie. We congratulate Saucy Santana's rise to fame & get into the tweets he made about Blue Ivy Carter. We also dive into women's harsh comments about bisexual/gay men & it plays into relationships.

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On this week’s episode, the men of HIM chat with the MOBI team about the importance of safe spaces for queer folx, MOBiFest 2022, & their favorite moments at Pride. 

 

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May 27, 2022 78 mins

On this week's episode the men of HIM discuss the qualities that make a good friend. We tackle the topic the heartbreaking mass shooting, in Uvalde Texas. Lastly, we finally got some ask HIM questions, and we get into two of them! 

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May 20, 2022 114 mins

On this week’s episode the guys discuss the last time they were too hard on themselves, the new season of “Legendary”, & the mass shooting in Buffalo. 

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May 13, 2022 96 mins
On this week’s episode the guys discuss the kindest compliment they’ve received this week, Kehlani’s radio interview + respecting pronouns, and supporting your partner during challenging times.
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May 6, 2022 107 mins

On this week’s episode the guys have an extensive check-in session, discuss friends that flake,the supreme court trying to overturn the Roe v. Wade case, and this year’s Met Gala.

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April 8, 2022 76 mins

On this episode, the guys discuss what’s currently bringing them happiness, the best advice their therapist has given them, how essential rest is, the Grammys, + Chloe Bailey’s new song “Treat Me”.

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April 1, 2022 88 mins

Updated caption: On this week’s episode the guys discuss if they would have sex with themselves if they could, Will Smith slapping Chris Rock at the Oscars, and their thoughts on the “Don’t Say Gay” bill that affects LGBTQ+ youth. 

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March 25, 2022 96 mins

On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys talk unusual habits, dating people in between jobs, and splitting rent and utilities with roommates and live in boyfriends/girlfriends. 

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March 11, 2022 84 mins

On this week’s episode the guys have a conversation about code switching in the work place, friend’s dating friend’s exes, dating people something with a huge social media following, and insecurities in relationships.

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March 5, 2022 50 mins

On this week’s episode the guys have a conversation about their thoughts on stealing, the war with Ukraine & Russia + how racism is occurring, + speak on how mask mandates are coming to an end. 

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February 25, 2022 64 mins

On this week’s episode the guys discuss highlights from the Coldest Winter Ever Ball, businesses denying LGBTQ+ service, + the new “Don’t Say Gay” bill that will affect LGBTQ+ youth. 

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February 4, 2022 68 mins

On this week’s episode the guys have a lengthy check-in discussing the difference of setting boundaries with friend vs the workplace,handling rejection, + the importance of showing friends affection.

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January 28, 2022 88 mins

On this week’s episode the guys discuss a year or age in their lives they wish they could revisit, if homophobia existed in their household as children, + talk about a few highlights in their week.

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January 21, 2022 80 mins

On this week’s episode the guys discuss lies they’ve told, identifying personal growth + supporting one another, the importance of life insurance, and Steve Harvey’s comments about art being silenced. 

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January 14, 2022 102 mins

On This Week’s Episode, the guys discuss their self-love, self-care tips, the importance of body image, and MJ Rodriguez’s Golden Globe win.

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January 7, 2022 64 mins
On This Week’s Episode the guys discuss their holiday plans + personal goals for the New Year, and tackle a quote from Will Smith’s new memoir.
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December 10, 2021 71 mins
On This Week’s Episode the guys discuss their holiday plans, give some advice to the listeners from two ASK HIM questions, and give their opinions on the whole Jussie Smollett trial + the final verdict.
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December 3, 2021 76 mins
On This Week’s Episode Of HIM Podcast, the guys talk about growth for the new year, DaBaby failing to keep his word on donating to LGBTQ+ organizations, and their thoughts on the new film B-Boy Blues.
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November 19, 2021 70 mins

On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss what new shows they’re watching, sex with friends and the possibility of leading friends on, hookups overstaying their welcome + their Thanksgiving plans.

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