D'ffecult and D'manding

D'ffecult and D'manding

My podcast focuses on bold and risqué topics. I dive deep into the dark shadow side of human nature. I will discuss your sense of self-identity, self-worth, security issues including inner security, communication and being understood, loneliness and hopelessness, rejection, self-consciousness and judgement, losing yourself in relationships, fear and control, your belief systems, disillusionment, recognition, respect, conformity, rebelliousness, and mental/spiritual bondage. I will focus on the things everyone wants to hide, deny, or are shunned for. I also give explicit truth and real wisdom about relationships and life. Let's get to know and grow from our inner demons. Come into my world and take a 'Walk on the Dark Side'.

Episodes

April 23, 2021 33 min

Alert: New Episode hiatus until further notice.   

Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Why does our judgement become severely impaired when we are infatuated with a romantic interest?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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  • Is passion really dangerous?  How do we harness the full potency of passionate energy? Why do we mislabel toxic relationships or behaviors as passionate? Does having a fiery personality mean you are great sexually?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of hones...

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 138 from ‘Your Dark Side Mistress’ is the week of April 12, 2021. 

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  • Why is it that what we think and how we feel doesn’t matter? 
  • Why are we expected to be people pleasers? 
  • How do we learn how to say NO and mean it?
  • Why are people pleasers overlooked?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into m...

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 137 from ‘Your Dark Side Mistress’ is the week of April 5, 2021. 

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  • How do you handle the betrayal and the sabotage by a person closest to you?  Why does it take you so long to figure out the betrayal is happening before your own eyes?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enj...

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 136 from ‘Your Dark Side Mistress’ is the week of March 29, 2021. 

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  • Why do we choose to be in a state of bitterness and bad blood after a relationship ends badly? Why can’t we see the liberating opportunity to have better people in our lives?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world...

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 135 from ‘Your Dark Side Mistress’ is the week of March 22, 2021. 

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  • How do we fully embrace our sexual presence?  Why we should share our most secretive sexual desires?  Why our romantic partner should devour our sexual body?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the en...

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 134 from ‘Your Dark Side Mistress’ is the week of March 15, 2021. 

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  • How do we stop people from negatively impacting our lives with so-called ‘feedback and criticism’?  How do we learn who and what we should allow into our lives?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the...

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 133 from ‘Your Dark Side Mistress’ is the week of March 8, 2021. 

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  • Who or what determines your worthiness in life?  Are you deserving of love, success and happiness?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    February 26, 2021 35 min

    ALERT: The release date for Episode 132 from ‘Your Dark Side Mistress’ is the week of March 1, 2021. 

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  • Why do we get jealous in our romantic relationships and how do we get our thoughts, emotions and actions under control?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY o...

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 131 from ‘Your Dark Side Mistress’ is the week of February 22, 2021. 

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  • Why are we so bothered/concerned with the hateful comments left by others and the negative actions of others on social media (cyberbullying)?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, be...

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 130 is the week of February 15, 2021. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Why do people feel compelled to gossip and how do you handle people gossiping about you?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 129 is the week of February 8, 2021. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Why does your dream life and your actual life do not match?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 128 is the week of February 1, 2021. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Does breaking up and getting back together with a person erase your problems as a couple?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 127 is the week of January 25, 2021. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Why do we punish our current lover for the hurt caused by our ex-lover?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 126 is the week of January 18, 2021. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Are you able to list without hesitation what you need, how you need it, and when you need it?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 125 is the week of January 11, 2021. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Would you like to know why someone is missing out on a once in a lifetime opportunity when they reject you?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 124 is the week of January 4, 2021. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Should a man/woman be tamed or appeased in a relationship?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 123 is the week of December 28, 2020. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Why can’t you have what you want, when you want it, and how you want it?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 122 is the week of December 21, 2020. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • How do you determine if you are sexually mismatched?  
  • What should you do about a sexual misalignment?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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    ALERT: The release date for Episode 121 is the week of December 14, 2020. 

    Here is this episode's Real Talk Highlight:

  • Is the ‘grass greener on the other side’? Can the other side be much better for you?
  • NOW, as always, I am keeping it authentic, intriguing, and provocative.  So, I want you to come into my world and enjoy the entire show, because I am giving PLENTY of honesty!

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