Not Just a Bad Boss: The Hidden Skill to Thrive in Change

Not Just a Bad Boss: The Hidden Skill to Thrive in Change

Have you ever left a meeting with your boss feeling like you're walking on eggshells, doubting your abilities, or wondering if leaving is your only option?

Maybe you're second-guessing every move, replaying conversations in your head, or secretly googling "how to deal with a difficult boss" at 2am. You wake up dreading one-on-ones because no matter how much you prepare, it feels like you can't win.

The problem isn't just one bad boss. 

This is about building career resilience for what's coming next.

In this episode, you'll learn why dealing with a difficult boss isn't a one-time challenge. You'll also discover the hidden skills that help leaders thrive through any leadership change without burning out or constantly job-hopping.

 

Episode Highlights

 

Navigating Leadership Changes at Work

 [00:45] - Why leadership will change again & what that means for you 

[01:15] - Leadership turnover hits record highs: 15% of S&P 500 CEOs replaced in 2025 

[01:35] - Global CEO tenure drops to under seven years

 

The Emotional Toll of Working for a Toxic Boss

 [02:25] - What it really feels like: walking on eggshells & second-guessing decisions 

[02:55] - When confidence erodes & stress skyrockets 

[03:15] - How your reputation takes a hit (even when you're capable)

 

Why Most Strategies Fail 

[02:05] - The three things high achievers do

[03:45] - "I used to feel capable & confident" — the misalignment trap

 

Building Career Resilience: The Hidden Skill Gap

 [04:15] - It's not about working harder or proving yourself 

[04:45] - What leaders who thrive long-term actually do differently 

[05:15] - From reactive to unshakable: the mindset shift that changes everything

 

Your Bad Boss Survival Guide

[05:45] - Understand their motivations: pressure you don't see 

[06:15] - Document & clarify: how to protect your reputation at work 

[06:45] - Set boundaries that build respect, not resistance 

[07:15] - Reframe from pleasing to leading

 

Powerful Quotes

"Dealing with a difficult boss isn't about working harder, pleasing more, or proving yourself. It's about learning the skills to protect your confidence, your reputation and your career, no matter who's in charge." -Blake Schofield

"When you shift from seeing this as their problem to understanding it's your opportunity to build skills, you stop feeling reactive, you stop feeling a victim to your circumstances, and you start becoming unshakable." -Blake Schofield

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