You didn’t lose her when she pulled away—you lost her when you started shrinking to keep her.
Every boundary you bent… every “yes” you didn’t mean… you called it love. But it was self-abandonment—and she felt it. This episode exposes the truth most men never hear:
You trained her to stop respecting you.
And the only way back isn’t more giving—it’s reclaiming the man she can follow, or fearlessly walking away. Listen now—before you lose yourself trying to keep someone who stopped seeing you as a man.
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