In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, I have an insightful conversation with activist and author Dean Spade about his extensive work in movements for queer and trans liberation, anti-militarism, and the abolition of police and prisons.
Dean and I discuss his new book titled 'Love in a Fucked Up World: How to Build Relationships, Hook Up, and Raise Hell Together,' covering topics such as mindful practices for managing stress, the evolution of his book over nine years, and personal growth in relationships.
We also delve into the romance myth, decentralizing romantic relationships, and the importance of community support. Dean shares valuable insights and practices for generating internal safety and the importance of collective care in social movements.
This episode is an enriching dialogue aimed at anyone interested in social justice, personal growth, and transformative community practices.
Show Notes:
00:00 Introduction and Course Announcement
00:55 Introducing Dean Spade
02:01 Dean Spade's Book Journey
02:28 Healing Modalities and Personal Growth
03:05 Non-Monogamous Relationships
03:34 Challenges in Writing the Book
05:15 Self-Help Literature Critique
06:45 Emotional Awareness in Movements
15:27 Decentralizing Romantic Relationships
23:49 Self-Generated Safety and Belonging
31:40 Therapy Misconceptions and Realities
32:38 The Overuse of Pathologizing Language
33:23 Forgiveness and Self-Inquiry in Relationships
36:05 The Impact of Alcoholism on Relationships
37:28 The Process of Forgiveness and Healing
41:34 Sexual Trauma and Cultural Narratives
44:18 Transformative Justice and Community Response
49:52 Decentralizing Romantic Relationships
You can watch this episode on my YouTube channel, just search LaidOPEN. Plus, I have free guided visualizations and a host of other tools and resources available to you there and on my website at CharnaCassell.com.
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