535: Unbreakable Spirit: The Inspiring Journey of Martial Arts Grandmaster Lawrence Stone

What could you achieve if you let go of all excuses and limiting beliefs?

In this deeply motivational episode, Nicole Jansen welcomes Lawrence “Stoney” Stone—a remarkable martial arts grandmaster, published author, stunt coordinator, rock band singer, and cancer survivor whose life story is anything but ordinary.

Born with congenital hip problem, later with CMT (Charcot-Marie-Tooth Neuropathy) a degenerative nerve disease, Stoney has faced significant physical challenges since birth, yet has refused to let them define or limit him. From building future champions in his dojo to serving as an executive protection consultant, Stoney’s impact ripples across countless lives and disciplines.

Join us as Stoney opens up about the powerful lessons learned from his “spanking grandma,” and his real-life journey of overcoming adversity with purpose, faith, and fierce love. He shares how mentorship, tough love, a sense of responsibility, and unwavering honesty have fueled his legacy—prompting us all to step up, stop making excuses, and love with conviction.

Whether you’re searching for inspiration, seeking actionable leadership insights, or grappling with challenges of your own, this conversation will leave you empowered and ready to tackle whatever comes next.

What We Discuss in This Episode

• How did Stoney overcome significant physical limitations to become a martial arts grandmaster and mentor to champions?
• What role did family and “tough love” play in shaping his unstoppable mindset?
• How do you guide others—especially young people—out of victimhood and toward responsibility and growth?
• What does it mean to “not own” your challenges or diagnoses?
• How can leaders and mentors balance empathy with calling others to greatness?
• Why is authenticity and emotional expression crucial for true leadership?
• What does it look like to surrender to purpose and let go of micromanaging your life’s plan?
• How do faith and spirituality underpin resilience and transformation?
• What lasting advice does Stoney offer for living a meaningful, impactful life?

10 Key Takeaways

1. Lead by Example: Young people and mentees learn most from who you are and what you do—not just what you say or teach.
2. Tough Love Builds Resilience: Support combined with high expectations (“spanking grandma”) pushes us to unprecedented growth.
3. Refuse to “Own” Limitations: Don’t take on negative identities around illness or labels—claim victory and move forward.
4. Surround Yourself with Greatness: Your environment and your circle shape your possibilities and dete