Life After Divorce Coaching

In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss the Fresh Start Effect. It’s that Intrinsic power of starting over and fresh. There are moments that promote this like a birthday, the New year and even a divorce. This is why so many people experience this start fresh mind set throughout even other milestones and other times, like a new semester in school, a new sports season (elaborate on…) , a new job, the birth of a child, a wedding, or e...

Divorce is often perceived as a culmination of failure, marked by heartache and loss. Yet, beneath the surface of this challenging experience lies a powerful journey of vulnerability and courage. Embracing vulnerability allows individuals to confront their deepest fears, express their emotions, and acknowledge their struggles. This raw openness can lead to profound personal growth and healing. At the same time, courage plays a cruc...

Divorce can significantly impact children's well-being, affecting their emotional, social, and academic development. It is a difficult period for all family members, necessitating understanding and support to navigate the transition effectively. The effects vary depending on the child's age, temperament, and the support system available.

In this episode Jeff and Doreen explore the issues with parents and their children after divorc...

Jeff and Doreen discuss “Learning to let go of the things that don’t matter”, being inspired by Mark Manson’s incredible book, *The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***. 
 
Divorce can leave you carrying a heavy load—expectations, regrets, and societal judgments—but today, we’re going to explore how to choose where to invest your energy and focus on what truly brings value to your life.

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The holidays are here once again and if you’re not feeling the warm and fuzzies we understand. The holidays can bring up some memories that can be both good and bad. TV commercials, social media or just people in general are telling you to be thankful, merry and joyful. Easier said than done! In episode 173 Jeff and Doreen discuss some tips to help you make it through the holidays.

Remember the fairy tales we read as children? Snow White? Cinderella? Beauty and the Beast? Each ended with one version or another of “…and they lived happily ever after.”

In this episode, Jeff and Doreen discuss how the idea of "They lived happily ever after" is not possible because life is 50/50. Imperfect and full of trials and disappointments. This story book phrase is a romantic illusi...

Can a Marriage Survive Adultery? Yes, many marriages do survive infidelity. For thousands of couples, working through the pain and betrayal, learning to forgive, and establishing firm boundaries to prevent future issues have all helped them to rebuild their relationships. With commitment, a renewed focus on growth, and the actions that make love deepen, some marriages even become stronger than they were before. It’s essential to re...

During a divorce, you’re surrounded by a sea of information—but not all sources are equally reliable. With just a few taps on your phone, you can access an entire library of legal documents, guides, and more. Alongside what’s online, you’ll likely receive advice from friends, family, and acquaintances, many of whom may have their own experiences to share (or at least think they do). In this whirlwind of input, it can be challenging...

One of the lessons that we have teach often is how to recognize the 50-50 good/bad of the world. And a big part of that is learning how to accept pain and to develop the capacity to feel. In the episode Doreen and Jeff discuss the benefits of excepting your feelings and working through the emotions you will experience in marriage, during divorce and after divorce.

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Running away from emotions and the feelings you’re experiencing before, during and after divorce is often a coping mechanism that can make your problems harder to deal with in the long run. In this episode Doreen and Jeff talk about getting unstuck during your marriage, divorce and afterwards. They discuss that getting unstuck doesn’t mean that you will suddenly going to have clarity about what the rest of your journey will look li...

In this episode Doreen and Jeff give you more clarity on when it’s time to divorce. If you are in any stage of confusion, this episode is a must listen to. They discuss the warning signs that just might give you the ah ha you need to make the co...

In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss different ways to speed up the divorce process. They will give up ways to speed up the process and will not only save you time, but it may also save you money, emotion, and stress. The less confrontational the divorce, generally, the less time it will take.

We are talking about the big things, little things. We are talking about daily things, talking about hourly things, and lifelong things. Today in episode 165, we are talking about honoring your own wants. We think it’s impossible to live the fullest expression of yourself if you don’t honor your own wants. There are a lot of people either accepting, “I don’t know” and not caring enough about what they want, or denying what they wan...

Regret is typically not a very useful emotion. It has us worrying and stressed. It’s usually over something that’s happened or been done. It’s like a missed opportunity or a failed event is kind of how I think about it. And the feeling is this intense disappointment over having made the “wrong” decision.

In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss how regret will not serve your wants or your go...

In this exciting episode you’ll find out how Doreen Yaffa, a high power Board Certified Family Attorney of almost 30 years and her husband, 4th degree Black Belt, Sensei Jeff Wilson both became Life Coaches and started their business Life After Divorce Coaching in Boca Raton, Florida.

This episode will also appear for the first time on YouTube. So, hear or see them explain their motivation and love for helping others before, during...