Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Have you ever created an entire relationship in your head before going on a date with someone? Perhaps you've been texting with them for weeks and have already deduced they could be "The One," or maybe you live for the two minutes of conversation you have with them before spin class.

Unfortunately, living in our heads in this way can turn into obsessing, and render us incapable of feeling excited about anything other than seeing or...

Have you ever wondered why so many relationships seem to fizzle out around the three-month mark?

In this week's episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen tackle the infamous "three-month curse" in dating. They explore why this milestone often becomes a breaking point, the hidden dynamics that lead to early breakups, and how unspoken needs or mismatched intentions can derail even the most promising connections. Plus, they share actiona...

What if the way you view your past is quietly shaping your present in ways you don't even realize? In this week's video, I explore a book that has completely shifted how I think about dating and life. It challenges some deeply-held beliefs and the stories we tell ourselves.

This video also uncovers how hidden goals might be influencing your choices, and shares the key to unlocking a more fulfilling love life. This one ...

Picture this. A guy sends you a sexual text. How do you respond in a way that gets him to slow down without sending him running away?

Check out this ONE ridiculously simple but powerful text to deal with the situation. And be sure to watch until the end.

-- 

►►  Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com

What if the things you've been blaming for where you are in life—your past, your heartbreaks, your fears—aren't actually what's holding you back?

In this week's episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen explore a bold idea from Adlerian psychology: that your life isn't determined as much by your trauma as by the goals you've set for yourself. The Love Life Podcast crew breaks down how this flips the script on ...

What do you do when you love someone deeply, but something still feels off in the relationship? In this week's episode, I sit down with TV and podcast host Kamie Crawford to tackle one of the hardest situations in love: how to walk away from a relationship that's full of love but missing the compatibility needed to really thrive.

We break down why love—while powerful—isn't always enough to sustain a happy, fulfilling partnership. ...

So, I want to know what flirting means to you. Does it mean seductively glancing over the bar whilst caressing a cocktail glass? Does it mean subtly leaning over so that he smells your perfume? Or does it mean asking him where the bathroom is, sheepishly turning away, and then walking off to the other side of the room and hoping he just "gets" that you like him?

I've noticed that when it comes to flirting: everyone has a different ...

Do you find yourself constantly worrying about what others think? Whether it's overanalyzing a text, fearing confrontation, or people-pleasing to avoid being disliked, this episode is for you. Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen unpack the fear of being disliked and reveal why embracing it can actually make you more attractive.

If you've ever felt trapped by the need for approval or struggled to assert yourself i...

What makes a relationship truly great? Does it have to be hard to be meaningful? In today's video, I speak with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast, to find answers.

We talk about the difference between the kind of "hard" that strengthens a relationship and the kind that drains it. From navigating challenges as a team to recognizing when effort becomes s...

When you're in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it's natural for your brain to go into panic mode.

Why are they doing this? How can I be the person they want me to be? What can I say to get them back?

If you allow these swirling thoughts to take over, you'll only end up pushing...

Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it's overthinking a text or worrying about someone's shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over?

In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal as they unpack how anxiety sabotages relationships, from early dating to long-term connections. They explore the roots of anxious attachm...

Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it's in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. In this epsiode, we break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the "pen pal phase" to the "relationship drift," and show you how to navigate each one with confidence.

If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking someone's inconsistent behavior, this video...

In this episode, you will see that the ability to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential will save you a lot of grief and time. It will also give you tools to help you clearly see and navigate around any red flags that may appear on your path.

--

►►  Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com

There's a lot of talk in modern dating of red flags, but what if you just disagree early on, and don't know if this is a sign of doom ahead, or simply a chance to communicate and accept your differences? Maybe you have different ideas about where you want to live or the lifestyle you want . . . or your personalities just occasionally clash.

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey talk about signs of ...

What if the key to making love last isn't a grand romantic gesture or constant excitement . . . but learning how to fight the right enemy? In this powerful conversation with Anas Bukhash, we talk about what it really means to be a team in a relationship, where the problem is the enemy, not each other.

If you've ever wondered how to sustain your connection in spite of life's challenges, this episode offers practical ins...

Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship.

But since science isn't quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn't burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff?

In today's Rewind episo...