Episode 295 is about surviving the dark hole in pursuit of our true purpose and happiness.
Sometimes when things are going so perfectly in our life, that’s the exact moment we feel lost. We get consumed by fame, power and money, thinking all of it should be enough, that it is all that we need — that we forget what it truly feels to LIVE. We start asking ourselves, is this all life has to offer?
Today, a former MLB baseball player and MLB all star, Shea Hillenbrand gets to share with us his journey towards the pursuit of his true purpose and happiness. He hid all of his childhood dreams and then realized that none of them were his actual dreams, that all he was doing was chasing the money, fame and the identity of his popularity to appease his ego. So in this episode, we are going to dig deep into our childhood traumas, face our fears, and surpass all the hurdles we thought only the grand things could solve, and we are going to do this together.
As Shea says, “Don’t miss the meat of the method: POWER and PERSPECTIVE,” so rediscover yourself with us. We provide support for men in all walks of life. Follow us at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/.
Quick Timestamps
00:04:43 IAN GOLD Shedding the Identity
00:06:25 Shea’s Back Story
00:07:26 Finding Your Safe Space
00:08:43 Creating My Story from What Happened
00:13:34 The Pain That Stays After the Achievement
00:16:05 Is This All Life Has to Offer?
00:16:42 Having Everything Except Fulfillment
00:17:57 Leaving All Behind
00:20:44 When You Are Empty Inside
00:21:11 Ego Can’t Bring Sustainable Success
00:23:03 Using Drugs and Alcohol to Numb and Run
00:23:29 The Aha Moment
00:24:18 You Must Rescue Yourself
00:25:09 3 Most Powerful Decisions in Life
00:25:48 Getting Started
00:27:00 The Need to Go Back to Level 1
00:28:26 Who Will Stand Guard for Your Mind
00:30:45 The Anger Resentment Story
00:32:21 Only Reaching a Fraction of Your Potential
00:32:44 The Emotions of Our Stories
00:34:54 Pain Not Transformed Is Transmitted
36:48-37:31 IAN GOLD I
00:38:03 Why Parents Must Communicate With Their Kids
00:42:38 Vulnerability & Sharing Powerfully
00:46:24 Fear of Past Self
00:46:53 3 Pillars of Life: Personal, Private & Professional
00:48:41 Not Present So We Buy Presents
00:49:41 How Do You Act On the Results You Have
55:19-55:57 IAN GOLD II
00:58:09 Serve From Your Heart Not Your Ego
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