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March 14, 2023 69 mins

Episode 305 examines the choice between victimhood and taking ownership of your life, and how it impacts your success.

In this episode, Raylen Davis from the Elevated Coaches Academy joins us to discuss the power of leaning into discomfort to achieve success. We explore the importance of focusing on the emotional and inner self, and how mentorship can be a powerful tool for growth.

We also discuss the detrimental effects of creating meaning around things and the steps to take in turning your life around. Raylen shares insights on choosing between victimhood and letting go of it, and decoding the formula for success. Taking full ownership and responsibility of your life and marriage is essential to finding fulfillment, as is being present and understanding your authentic desires. We delve into how to access the power that is already within you, the benefits of slowing down to speed up, and how a serving mindset and language can transform your life.

As Raylen says, "purpose comes from pain." Join us as we explore this concept and gain valuable insights on how to live a more purposeful life. Listen to the episode and learn more from https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/.


Quick Timestamps 

00:04:47 Raylen Story About Programming

00:06:47 Leaning Into Two Things for Success

00:07:46 Focusing on the Emotional Side (the inner self)

8:27-9:56 IAN GOLD

00:09:58 Power of Mentorship

00:12:06 Creating Meaning Around Things

00:12:59 Raylen’s Defining Moment

00:16:10 Creating Meaning Around Things

00:16:34 Decoding the Victim and Success Formula

16:59-18:15 IAN GOLD

00:18:55 Taking Full Ownership and Responsibility

19:41-20:52 IAN GOLD

21:34-23:46 IAN GOLD: Ball Off the Foot

00:23:57 Taking Responsibility

00:25:55 Being Present

00:31:04 Understanding What You Want

31:56-36:50 IAN GOLD: Defining Success

00:37:14 Self-Mastery by Robert Green

00:38:00 Power vs. Force

00:38:39 How to Access the Power That Is Already in You

42:57-44:19 IAN GOLD: Slowing Down

45:22 - 47:36 Should & Could Mindset

00:47:38 Power of Cold Plunge

00:49:07 Serving or Not Serving

01:00:00 Purpose Comes From Pain


Books or Articles mentioned: Self-Mastery by Robert Green & Power vs. Force by David Hawking


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