Ep. 108: E.P.I.C. Life Dreams and Unicorn Teams with Jen Kem

Hello and Welcome to Season Ten of the Mother’s Quest Podcast.

It’s hard to believe it’s been nearly a decade since I first opened the metaphorical door to Mother’s Quest—sparked by the day two birds got trapped in my house and helped me realize it was time to stop staying stuck; it was time to say “yes” to Mother’s Quest. 

As I reflect on all I’ve built and the new E.P.I.C. dreams I want to bring to life, I’ve been thinking about the who behind our what—the people who support us, complement our strengths, and help us realize our biggest visions.

That’s why it felt so aligned to start this season in conversation with Jen Kem—a values-driven mother and entrepreneur who models strategic leadership and collaboration, masterfully gathering the right people—who she calls unicorns—to help her reach her ambitious goals, all while being deeply present for her family.

Named a top brand strategist by Forbes, Jen specializes in launching innovative ideas with high-performing teams. Her Unicorn Innovation Model™ has supported brands like the Oprah Winfrey Network, Blue Cross Blue Shield, and Oracle, as well as New York Times bestselling authors and visionary entrepreneurs.

In her newly released book, Unicorn Team: The Nine Leadership Types You Need to Launch Your Big Ideas with Speed and Success, Jen shares an innovation playbook for building collaborative, values-aligned teams. It’s a book meant not just to be read, but used—again and again—as a practical guide to help you stop building alone and start bringing your dream to life with the right support.

In this episode, Jen shares what it means to move through life and leadership in creationship—to surround ourselves with people who not only help you build, but help you become. Through stories of growing up in Hawaii alongside her Filipina matriarchs, to the wisdom she’s integrating in what she calls her “5.0 upgrade,” Jen invites us into a conversation about identity, intention, and interdependence. She shares the power of returning to the most essential parts of ourselves, of navigating what she calls ever-present “pressure, friction, and noise,” and of focusing our creative energy on the right hard things.

Through it all, she reminds us that our authentic presence is a powerful form of leadership—and that our boldest, most E.P.I.C. dreams are meant to be realized together. 

 

---

Topics Discussed in This Episode:

• Jen’s upbringing in a multi-generational Filipino family in Hawaii and how it shaped her values, identity, and entrepreneurial path

• How she’s reconnecting with the bold, curious spirit she embodied at age 9—and why her “5.0 upgrade” is about honoring that essence

• The idea of exfoliation—removing layers that no longer serve us to return to our true selves

• Jen’s definition of creationship—a fusion of creativity and meaningful, values-driven relationships

• Insights into her Unicorn Innovation Model™—and how it helps bring bold ideas to life with the right people at the right time

• Why the who matters more than the how or what—and how to build a Unicorn Team that aligns with your dream

• A framework for navigating “pressure, friction, and noise” and learning to focus on the right hard things

• How presence—not perfection—guides Jen’s a