Summary
In this episode of Mum's True Tea, host Kendall Lasha engages in a deep conversation with therapist Jeff James about the complex dynamics between black mothers and their sons. They explore the societal and systemic issues that contribute to the challenges faced by black families, the historical context of family structures, and the emotional responsibilities placed on children. The discussion also touches on the importance of accountability in relationships and the impact of parenting styles on the emotional health of children. In this conversation, Kendall Lasha and Jeffre James explore the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the expectations individuals bring into them, the consequences of choices made, and the importance of communication. They discuss the roles of men and women, the impact of cultural dynamics, and the need for self-reflection and healing in order to break generational cycles. The conversation emphasizes the importance of building bridges rather than walls in relationships and the necessity of accountability and growth for both parents and children.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to the Conversation
02:21 Exploring the Blame on Black Moms
05:51 Systemic Issues Affecting Black Families
11:00 Historical Context of Black Family Dynamics
20:06 Consequences of Social Changes on Family Structure
22:18 Accountability in Relationships
25:09 The Impact of Parenting Styles
29:25 The Role of Fathers in Child Development
31:13 Understanding Relationship Dynamics
34:23 Consequences of Relationship Choices
39:25 The Importance of Fighting for Family
45:38 The Quest for Peace and Healing
48:31 Breaking Cycles: Generational Patterns
51:11 Cultural Reflections: Movies and Lessons
54:20 Understanding Consequences: Parenting and Feedback
01:01:21 Self-Reflection and Growth in Motherhood
01:05:24 Building Bridges: The Path to Healing
KEEP UP WITH MUM'S TRUE TEA:
WEBSITE: MumsTrueTea.com
INSTAGRAM: @MumsTrueTea
FACEBOOK: @MumsTrueTea
TikTok: @MumsTrueTeaPodcast
Join my Patreon for exclusives
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR LISTENING!
Popular Podcasts
CrimeLess: Hillbilly Heist
It’s 1996 in rural North Carolina, and an oddball crew makes history when they pull off America’s third largest cash heist. But it’s all downhill from there. Join host Johnny Knoxville as he unspools a wild and woolly tale about a group of regular ‘ol folks who risked it all for a chance at a better life. CrimeLess: Hillbilly Heist answers the question: what would you do with 17.3 million dollars? The answer includes diamond rings, mansions, velvet Elvis paintings, plus a run for the border, murder-for-hire-plots, and FBI busts.
Crime Junkie
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.