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August 26, 2025 8 mins

In this episode of Next Level Leadership , titled "It Is Not About You," I delve into a crucial aspect of effective leadership that often gets overlooked: the importance of understanding that leadership is not solely about the individual leader. Drawing inspiration from Rick Warren's book, The Purpose Driven Life , I emphasize the foundational truth that "it is not about you."

I begin by reflecting on the common misconception that all responsibilities and challenges in leadership rest on the shoulders of the leader. This unrealistic expectation can lead to burnout, as I personally experienced during my first year as a principal. I share my journey of feeling overwhelmed and the pivotal moment when I realized that leadership is a collective effort, not a solo endeavor.

Throughout the episode, I highlight the significance of building a team of leaders who can share the load and contribute to problem-solving. I reference the idea of "one band, one sound" from the movie Drumline and the phrase "one team, one dream" to illustrate the essence of collaborative leadership. True leadership, I argue, is about coming together to work towards a common goal, recognizing that problems often stem from larger issues rather than individual failings.

I also address the importance of personal development for leaders, noting that while we must work on ourselves, we cannot internalize every issue that arises. I encourage listeners to take off their "superhero capes" and understand that they are not the intended targets of criticism or challenges. Instead, I stress the need to empower team members to lead, listen, and problem-solve, as they often have insights that leaders may overlook.

As I conclude the episode, I remind my audience that relinquishing control is essential for fostering a productive and purposeful team environment. I urge leaders to reflect before taking on additional burdens and to remember that, ultimately, it is not about them. I leave my listeners with the encouragement to be easy on themselves as they navigate the complexities of leadership, reinforcing the idea that effective leadership is a shared journey.

Join me next week for more insights on elevating your leadership to the next level!

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