Nothing In Common

Nothing In Common

Soon2BeCatLady, Conal, and BenJamin discuss dating, online dating, relationships, etc. and answer listener questions every Monday. Soon2BeCatLady is best known for her online dating blog: soon2becatlady.com Conal lives in Philadelphia. Benjamin Kruse is the co-host of Minnesota’s morning podcast Up and at ’Em.

Episodes

December 14, 2020 30 mins

CatLady chats with Matthew Phifer on narcissism - what it is, and what to look out for.

Matthew Phifer, M.Ed., is a therapist, speaker, trainer, and toxic relationship, narcissism, trauma, and emotional abuse expert.

Visit him at https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/

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Does CatLady know the alleged new "covid dating terms" that Conal found on the internet?

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November 29, 2020 21 mins

CatLady is very protective of her brand is not okay people mistaking her for Conal.

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November 9, 2020 17 mins

CatLady updates Conal (with facts and figures!) on how voice memo-ing on Bumble is going.

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November 3, 2020 5 mins

After we stopped recording, another message came through from CatLady's future husband, and Conal comes to a terrible realization.

With special guest, Conal's girlfriend Beth.

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November 2, 2020 20 mins

Conal gives us an update on how Tinder is going

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October 26, 2020 24 mins

CatLady accepted Suborno's challenge from 2 weeks ago and redownloaded Bumble and used only voice memos.

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October 19, 2020 22 mins

CatLady helps Conal get set up on Tinder to swipe for her.  

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October 12, 2020 46 mins

CatLady and Conal talk with Suborno (Brown Bear) from the Online Dating Laid Bear podcast about his dating experiences over in the UK.   

Check out his podcast at:  https://www.onlinedatinglaidbear.com/podcast/

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October 5, 2020 17 mins

One of us has tips on how to date on the road.

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September 28, 2020 18 mins

You'd think it would go without saying..

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July 29, 2020 6 mins

On Monday, we didn't know Conal's girlfriend was secretly listening in and taking the quiz herself.  She came in after the fact and had a few things to say about it.

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July 27, 2020 32 mins

CatLady and Conal take a very official Buzzfeed quiz to find out if they are actually any good at dating.

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July 13, 2020 31 mins
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July 6, 2020 23 mins

CatLady and Conal talk about made up holidays and Hamilton.

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June 29, 2020 31 mins

CatLady and Conal discuss online dating safety!

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CatLady and Conal are once again joined by Brian Belefant to talk about rules of real estate that apply to dating as well!

http://spousehunting.net

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CatLady explains how to get a guest spot on her show after getting an email from Brian Belefant, author of "Spouse Hunting:  How To Use the Rules of Real Estate to Find the Love of Your Life".

Brian tells us how dating is like buying a house.

Buy the book on Amazon - or at spousehunting.net! 

Part 1 of 2.

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Another week, another show!

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June 1, 2020 25 mins

CatLady and Conal talk about when it's appropriate to acknowledge a female has chesticles, double standards, among other things.

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