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October 14, 2025 22 mins

In this episode we talk about how Letting go of control, comfort, and old coping patterns isn’t easy. Change asks us to allow, to trust, and to let in — all things that can feel terrifying if we’ve spent years surviving by keeping walls up.

In this episode, we talk about how to know when it’s time to loosen control, why “fine” isn’t the same as fulfilled, and what helps us feel safe enough to soften. Because true courage isn’t about forcing change — it’s about allowing growth to happen where safety and honesty meet.

 THREE TAKEAWAYS

1. Letting go isn’t giving up — it’s trusting yourself enough to stop forcing outcomes.

2. Safety comes from consistency, empathy, and ownership — not control.

3. Real courage begins when we allow vulnerability to meet safety.

 

                   The courage to stop

managing everything

begins with one brave thought:

maybe I’m safe enough

now to let go.

 

 

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