June 13, 2024 • 63 mins
In this episode, we interview special guest @sheisatang, The Facial Queen, a sex worker who started her career on OnlyFans. They discuss her journey into the sex work industry, the importance of authenticity and having a niche, and the challenges and rewards of being a creator. Tang shares her love for facials and blowjobs, and the satisfaction she gets from making her partners come. She also talks about the importance of mental health and self-care in the industry, and the need for thick skin to handle negative comments and criticism. In this conversation, Tang and I discuss the risks and challenges of being a sex worker, including online harassment, scams, and content theft. We also talk about the importance of maintaining personal privacy and the power of leverage. Tang shares her experience of working at music festivals and her love for weightlifting and fitness. We emphasize the mental and physical benefits of working out and the empowerment that comes from creating the life you want.
SHEISATANG is on OnlyFans, X, reddit, ManyVids, SextPanther, and Instagram.
Key Takeaways
-Authenticity and having a niche are key to standing out in the saturated sex work industry. -Being a sex worker requires dedication, hard work, and good time management skills. -Thick skin is necessary to handle negative comments and criticism. -Mental health and self-care are important for sex workers. -Sex work is not just about sex, but also about providing emotional support and connection to fans. -Having a supportive community of fellow sex workers i
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This is the PantyNectar Podcast episode 89with your host PantyNectar and Mr.
P.
And today joining us is a very specialguest.
So please welcome.
@sheisatang Thank you so much for joiningus today.
We are so excited.
Yes, we're so excited to have you.
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You are someone that I have been followingon everything for quite a while now and
very inspired by how you just
kick ass and do your thing and you are youand it is, I just think the greatest thing
in the whole world, honestly.
That is a very nice compliment.
Thank you very much.
Cause I have definitely been following yousince I started my OnlyFans, which was in
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2020.
So I think just we were on the same subsand I saw you too.
So that's very nice to hear.
Thank you.
course, of course.
No, it's definitely been interestingnavigating Reddit world and then
navigating X world.
And now we've moved on to all theseplatforms.
And I know you're on several moreplatforms.
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I see you post like Sext Panther, thingslike that.
So it's really awesome to see you all overthe place.
It's good to see creators, genuinecreators in this space that are.
wanting to be authentic and do not have ascarcity mindset and are all in for
everyone.
And I think that's definitely what yourepresent.
So very excited.
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So I guess we'd like to know, you've kindof said when you started OnlyFans, what
year was that again, you said?
I started in July of 2020, so just acouple months after the pandemic happened.
So yeah, that's when I, but I had beenposting nudes on Reddit and FetLife before
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that, so.
Right, right, that's awesome.
So what made you kind of like want to diveinto more of the sex work world or when we
always talk about it, I'm like, what do weeven call ourselves?
Because I think it's just like acombination of all kinds of things that we
do.
You can't really pinpoint it down to onething because I think we do give a lot to
our fans and being genuine and authentic.
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That does require giving a lot to yourfans.
I think what we do is a whole lot morethan that.
But what was it that kind of likemotivated you to get started in that?
so I had always like really liked facialsand then, I was posting them online.
We love facials.
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so I started dating my ex in November of2019.
And then throughout the beginning of ourrelationship, we had.
I told him I like posting nudes and stufflike that.
He's like, we should make porn.
I was like, okay.
So that's just kind of how it happened.
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And obviously the pandemic, I actually hadthree jobs during the pandemic, including
my OnlyFans.
So like, I just added that onto it.
It just kind of happened and it reallywent places I did not imagine.
Isn't that crazy?
I think we that's exactly how you knowthat things got started for us the
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pandemic.
I was working in a gym at the time.
So you know how that went all gyms wereclosed.
And so it was fun to post and all of asudden like we were getting tons of views
and I'm like, I cannot believe that thismany people are sitting here watching.
I think one of them was like a blowjob ora facial or something like that as well.
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that did so good, that's so wild thinkingthat people, because we just feel like
it's just like a regular video to us, likeit's just a regular video with our
partner.
We don't expect a lot of people to be asinto it.
I guess in my mind at the time I didn't,so.
and I started advertising on Instagrambecause I had like I only had like maybe
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5000 followers and like I was alreadyposting sexy pictures on there and I got
like my first 100 subs from Instagram andthen I had to figure out how to navigate
Reddit.
And my.
to figure out.
Yeah.
I'm still, which I can get into laterabout the Paul, the politics of Reddit
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specifically.
but yeah.
And then I got my first like viral post oncum sluts.
It was just a facial picture and it got somuch traction.
And then I was like, okay, I think I I'mfiguring it out.
And so I just kept hitting it and I wasgoing hard the first year with advertising
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on Reddit.
or just posting and that was what made meexcel for my OnlyFans.
Right.
That's awesome.
So Tang, was the first time you createdthe she is a Tang account, was that on
Reddit?
Or was that kind kind the time debut ofshe is a Tang?
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Yeah, it was, I made my OnlyFans and thenI made the She Is A Tang handle for
Reddit.
So, and I had facial pictures on there onmy ex's account and I had to text him and
be like, take my facial pictures downbecause I'm gonna have my own account now.
So people had already seen me before myOnlyFans because the photos my ex would,
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But, before I did my only plans that X he,one of our pictures went completely insane
on there, like 14 ,000 up votes.
And that was before I even consideredmaking porn.
That was like two years before that.
So, so I was already up there.
And that photo is one of my most stolenphotos of all time.
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Like.
crazy.
day, I'll still see it.
But anyways, so yeah, that's how she as aTang started.
I just was like, my nickname was alreadyTang, but I was like, this is an
interesting handle.
And then that's...
on Reddit or somewhere, I had asked youthat like, where does that name come from?
Like it's a very unique, interesting name.
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And I think you told me that you're like,my friends just kind of called me Tang
already.
So it was just natural to add that to thehandle.
And I think she is a Tang is like such aunique, fun, what I think it makes people
wonder like, what does that mean?
What does that mean?
It's awesome.
So you were saying that you went through abreakup and that was something that I
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definitely noticed.
I think on X you kind of shared with a lotof your followers on there, the personal
things you were kind of going through andI really admired you being so vulnerable
because you really don't see that with alot of creators.
There are several creators that I knowthat like their fans don't even know about
their lives or what's going on in theirlives.
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And I think that was very honorable andlike very vulnerable.
you to share with your fans like whatyou're going through and you know that
kind of transition that you were goingthrough because I think it's just
important for other people to see thatlike we're humans too like as much as we
love taking facials all the time we'realso humans and we go through stuff and
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fucking life hits us sometimes and I thinkone thing that was really cool was to see
you like
totally go from like, where do I go fromhere to like, now all you all I see all
the time is like you killing it.
You're always doing.
I know recently I saw some of yourthreesome stuff and the facials obviously
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is a big thing.
And I just think it's so cool that, youknow, you were able to come through
something like that because a lot of myfans, they message and they're like, I'm
single.
I'm never gonna have fun.
I'm never gonna live this kind of lifethat.
you or these other creators that I see areliving and I think you're a great example
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of like, no, you can do whatever the fuckyou want in life.
Like just got to do it.
Yeah, and honestly, that was was the pastsix months has been some of the hardest
times I've had just just being completelyhonest, like mentally after that breakup,
because I started my only fans with my exand I grew it with him.
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And he was the person I did that with.
And some of my best content that Ibelieve.
But I think that's coming from a place ofstill dealing with that breakup.
like some of my favorite content is withhim, some of my biggest facials and like
part of me misses so much about that, butI didn't have a choice.
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I started this career and I wasn't goingto stop.
So I had to find other penises.
There was a threesome, a facial threesomethat you did with this couple and she was
a beautiful girl.
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She had curly curly hair.
I don't remember what her name was.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
So that, yes, that, that, you know,interaction that you had with them.
That was so awesome to see.
I think that was like such a fun thing.
Such a fun video.
I watched those videos.
That couple looked like a really awesomecouple.
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So I think that was really cool sharingthat.
Yeah, I've done three videos with them andthen I've worked separately with Daddy
Lemonade like four times.
So he reached out to me to work with meback when I was still with my ex.
I was doing collabs when I was with my exstill.
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That was what we had to do.
And Daddy Lemonade reached out to me and Iwas like, sure, if you go get a full test.
full panel, sign all the paperwork andgive me copies of your ID, we'll do it.
And they already had an OnlyFans, but it,you know, they were a little bit smaller.
And then they were like, you were ourfirst collab we've ever done.
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That was in like 2022 or something or2021.
So I have a very close relationship withthem.
So it's, it's really nice to work withcouples because I'm a good addition to add
in there.
And it's fun for everyone.
Yeah, I was gonna say your genuineinteraction during that, like you could
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tell you guys were all having so much fun.
And I think that's so important to see inour space because a lot of the times we
just see people like, you know, Kate onhere told a story about how like this girl
did a video with her and like she was kindof really into the girl and then come to
find out the girl was like, I just wantedto make this video.
Like, let's just do these videos and like.
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That is such a, that was such a turn offfor her.
And I can imagine like kind of beingattracted to someone and like wanting it
to be natural and wanting it to flow.
And then all of a sudden they're justdoing it for content.
So that definitely showed through y 'all'svideo.
It looked like you guys had an awesometime and that you actually are kind of
like a friendship, like a connection.
It definitely showed through the video.
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Yeah, and it's actually incredibly hard tohave friendships in this industry if
you're not like part of a clique.
And like, so it's, you know, I callFreckle Lemonade when I'm having a hard
time as a sex worker.
I'm like, girl, I need advice.
Like you are one of my very, I have liketwo girlfriends who are sex workers that I
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can call anytime.
So it's really important to me for thepeople I do work with if it's not just a
one -off.
that I have some sort of friendship withthem because otherwise it's just, what's
the point for me?
Like.
Yeah.
right.
So what is one thing that you kind of lookfor when you are wanting to collab or make
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content with somebody?
What is something that you kind of lookfor?
Is there certain markers you kind of tryto meet?
Are you looking for people that you'reattracted to?
Do most of these people come to you?
We don't do a whole lot of collabs, soit's nice to kind of hear details a little
bit about how people go about that.
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So for me, some people have reached out tome and I've reached out to others.
But if I'm reaching out, it's because theyhave big loads and I see that.
And that's just, I honestly don'tnecessarily care what they look like
because it's POV.
And so like, and I'm just, I'm just tryingto get the facial.
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Like that's just, but you know, I workwith.
wondering how big their load is, you know.
I have to be pretty like specific, like Ineed you to withhold.
If you're going to shoot with me, it hasto be like three to four days.
Like this is my main point of focus and mycontent.
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And if they're already a creator that haslarge loads and they understand, I also do
work with non -creators who maybe they'llmessage me on Twitter or FetLife.
Those are two places I have found peopleto work with that are not creators at all.
They don't have platforms.
And if I'm attracted to them and we have avideo call and I, you know, maybe they
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have some videos already on their pagesjust for fun.
And I can see they have a nice stick.
They have big loads.
Can they stay hard?
and I've had some success with non-creators.
It's not something I like to do very oftenbecause of who I am and it can be, you
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know, a safety issue.
but I just am like, will you get tested?
Will you sign the paperwork?
Great.
Let's do this.
I'll be in your town at this time.
Come to my Airbnb.
So.
that's definitely, I think people wondertoo, like, I know we see it in the space,
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obviously, but like testing is a big dealand making sure that you're clean for the
people or person that you're gonna bewith.
Huge deal, I think maybe sometimes people,especially in my personal life, they're
like, y 'all are just having orgy partiesall the time and inviting whoever and just
like, you know, what like this nastystuff.
And it's like, no, people in this spacegenuinely care about health, sexual
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health.
And they get tested, they make sure thatthey're protecting others and protecting
themselves.
And I think that's a really importantthing to do and to share awareness of in
this space, you know.
And let me tell you dating at who I likebeing who I am and being in the industry
and trying to date like civilian peopleand having to explain to them.
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I need you to get tested before we hookup.
I have a job also just for our safety.
I need you to go get tested and I'll gettested too.
I I'll go every two weeks.
Sometimes I'll go weekly if I'm doing alot of shoots like this is just what I
have to do.
So.
Yeah.
Tang, so I know there's guys listeningright now and they're thinking to
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themselves, man, my girlfriend or my wife,she freaking hates facials.
Like why, how did somebody get so lucky tobe with a woman that loves facials?
So what, you know, from, of course, guys,I think most of us, we really enjoy giving
facials, but what is it for you that,what's, what's the allure to facial for
you?
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I just think it's so aestheticallypleasing seeing it on my face.
And I guess the act of knowing I made thatperson come on my face and how, it's
weird, I get asked that all the time andI'm like, I don't know, I just come on my
face.
I think it's hot and it's fun to takepictures of and all the partners I've had,
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they love giving facials.
So like.
you.
just been this way now.
I saw a post you posted on X recentlywithin the past day or two or three.
I don't know.
It was like a POV.
You were doing a selfie video and you justhad like cum on your face and you're just
wiping it all over your face.
I was like, yeah, I was like, look, she'sreally fucking into this.
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This is amazing.
Yeah, it's great.
Yeah, I just think it looks really hot.
And at this point, I'm like, that's justmy thing.
So thank you.
definitely think there's something, youknow, when it comes to blow jobs, I think
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that's something that people comment a loton on my videos.
Also is like, dang, you look like you'rereally enjoying it.
And like, I genuinely do enjoy it.
I like what you said, the feeling of likeknowing that you're making them come.
That is like a hot thing.
That's like, okay, goal, make them come.
So do, do what you gotta do.
And it's not to me turns me on.
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I love like blow jobs all day long becauseof that reason.
Same.
I mean, obviously a lot of my content isstrictly blowjobs and I do do titty
fucking a lot too, but blowjobs has beenit's like common blowjobs are my main
fetish and you know, I I just love suckingdick.
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I just genuinely enjoy it and I havealways enjoyed it since the beginning of
my sexual exploration in life.
Yeah.
But when I turned 27, that's when mysexual liberation was.
And when I finally was coming into my own,and I was like, I love this.
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This is like, I love this so much.
And I've gained so many skills with mymouth.
So.
see the talent.
That's great.
So do you find that people are more intothe facials than they are the titty
fucking?
Is that something that you find?
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at this point it's kind of split now forme on my only fans and my pages, you know,
if I'm going off, say Reddit, the tittyfucking is doing way better than the
facials.
if I go off, yeah, it's actually kind ofcrazy, but I think that also has to do
with the saturation on Reddit.
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and then.
My only fans, I mean people like both.
They want both things.
They want the titty, they want the blowjob, titty fucking, and the facial in the
end.
They want all of it.
I think especially cause you do the POV.
So it's kind of nice to like picture thatthey're the one that's sitting there
giving you that big load.
So I think that's what people find taughta lot of the times too.
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I had a guy schedule a video call with metoday and he's like, I'm a tick guy.
And I'm like, well, wrong creator.
He was like, no, it's okay.
Work with what you got.
I was like, okay, as long as you're okaywith that, but definitely not your girl.
sorry.
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So, you know, she mentioned that, thatpeople think that, you know, oftentimes
that we're just out doing all this crazystuff.
And like the reality is, and this isnothing against people that are doing, you
know, having, doing whatever, havingorgies, whatever each to their own, but
that's just not what we do.
And, and so, but.
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A lot of people don't really understandwhat we do, you know, and I think this may
pertain to you and most of the people inour space, you know, it's like, you know,
part of it's like the part sex worker andpart putting that sexy stuff out there,
but, but, you know, as, as good asanybody, I'm sure that oftentimes you have
fans that just want to vent to yousometimes and tell you about their, about
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their day.
And you know, that something may have gonebad and, and sometimes you play a part
-time therapist or.
you know, we do and trying to help peoplethrough whatever situation it may be.
And so what's one thing that people wouldmaybe find surprising that you do in this
space that isn't seen every day?
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Is there something that would come tomind?
I mean, it's similar that I have fans thatI talk to regularly that just want to talk
to me.
They don't even really want pictures oranything.
And I do that off of my OnlyFans too.
Like, I have a fan on Instagram.
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He doesn't even really subscribe to myOnlyFans anymore, but he likes every
single one of my pictures.
He comments on everything on Instagram.
Like he's always telling me I'm beautiful.
He's like, I need a hug.
And I'll just like talk to him and chatwith him.
You know, and he doesn't necessarilyalways pay me for my time, but because
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it's been like three years of like on andoff him on my only fans.
Sometimes he Venmo's me like a little bitof money.
Just he's like, I like you so much.
You're such a goddess.
Like.
I'm like, OK.
And he sends me pictures of his dogs.
And I'm like, OK, this is nice.
So yeah, I do also do a bit of the peoplevent to me on OnlyFans too, like my
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girlfriend doesn't like this.
What should I do?
Or.
I've had people be like, you really helpedme through a hard time when I was in the
hospital or when I was really down.
On the holidays, I'll put a post on myOnlyFans like, you're welcome to message
me.
You don't have to pay.
Like I'll respond to you.
Cause I don't make my fans pay to messageme on OnlyFans.
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So they can message me anytime.
I'm, you know, I might not always answerright away, but you know, I still take the
time to respond to everyone and I don'ttry and get every last penny out of them.
Sure.
because sometimes they just want someoneto talk to.
There is, you know, we've seen a, I'veseen a creator before.
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A lot of people don't know there is asetting on OnlyFans where you can turn it
on and it's a, somebody has to have tippedat least a dollar to have messaged you.
And then I've seen more creators have thaton and then.
the creator that does have it on will say,my messages, I don't know if they're
working.
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Like, can you please message me?
And I'm like, dang, that was a problem.
Because there are creators like you, likeus, like many others we know in this
space, that will talk to you and likeyou're saying, not try to sit here and
suck you dry for every last dollar.
Like we are doing this because for mepersonally, I love the interaction.
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I...
A lot of people think that like, you know,as much as our fans are helping us grow
and it helps us out.
I also think when I first started this,like it was almost a confident booster for
me because one thing that we don't do islike, we don't do negativity.
You will not see, you will not see us goback and forth with anyone on either of
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our platforms.
You will not see.
us sit here and try, we won't do any ofthat.
We just want positivity.
We just want happiness.
We just want love.
That's it.
And so I think, you know, that's one thingabout us that you'll notice is like, it's,
it's a confident booster.
It's a confidence booster for everyonewhen there's no negativity and there's
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nothing but positivity and the commentsunder Reddit or the comments under X and
it's just a really good feeling to.
when you feel good and when they feelgood, like everyone wins.
Why would you not want that?
You know?
Yeah, I can definitely resonate with likewhen I started just posting nudes online
for free before OnlyFans and then OnlyFansis that I felt like my body was really
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accepted because like I gained a lot ofweight like over a few like seven year
period and I was bigger than I'd ever beenand like starting this journey of like
posting online I was like, okay, my body'sfully accepted and then now that I'm fully
in it like in the industry and
You know, I've gone to events where I seewomen who are my size or bigger and
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they're so confident and everyone lovesthem.
And I'm like, okay, this is like the placewhere I feel really good.
so that's been huge for me.
and especially when I'm feeling sad, just,you know, in other parts of my life,
dating or relationships.
And I'm like, okay, you know what?
I am very hot and 150 ,000 followers onTwitter.
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Thanks.
I wish I totally wish that that messageget out more to people because even not
even with girls or with sex workers likewith the everyday person to like a lot of
guys that message me don't have that sameconfidence either and I'm like, people
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like everything there is not like a boxthat that only people like if you're
blonde, if you're platinum blonde and yougot nice tits and you have this kind of
body like that is not the case at all.
That is a complete facade in the industry.
There go on Reddit and Google look up someof the most random subreddits Reddit and I
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promise you there is there are people thatlike everything.
Everybody likes something.
Yeah.
And it's not there yet.
Yeah, exactly.
I think I had, we've talked about thisbefore, but I literally, I think I was,
what, eight months pregnant and this dudewanted me to sit naked with my big old
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pregnant belly and eat powdered donuts.
And it was like, I was like, someone wantsto pay to see me do this, this is insane.
And I ate those donuts like the sexiestbitch ever too, it was so much fun too.
Just laughing the whole time.
I was, I was cracking up because I couldnot believe, I'm like, this is like my.
my wet dream right here, eating powdereddonuts.
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It was great.
It was so much fun.
Ting, I know a lot of people, I thinkthere's a misconception as well in this
space that because people see, you know,successful people in the space who have,
you know, done it for a few years and workreally hard and they get to a certain
level.
And I think that some people who are maybeon the outside,
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looking in and some people maybe eventhinking about becoming creators have the
misconception that it's easy.
And it's like, and it's not right.
And I think that, you know, oftentimes we,you know, it's like, we'll work 12, 16
hours a day, you know, just responding anddoing, making content and posting and
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answering DMs and so forth.
What would you give any, do you have anyadvice that maybe you'd give some creators
that are just wanting to get started?
Because I think that, that people need tounderstand that like, yes, this is one of
those things that anybody can do, youknow, anybody do it, but, but it does take
a certain level of dedication.
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Yeah, so first, if they were starting itnow, I would be like, it is very
oversaturated.
And you really got to have a niche.
You can't just be like fucking on camera.
Like you have to have something that youdo and you do best.
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Like that's why I like facials.
That is my niche.
Titty fucking is my niche now.
Like don't.
I could fuck on camera and nobody, nobodycares because like I have a niche.
And so that is so important to makeyourself stand out from all the other
women or in men that are out there.
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like you have to stand out now and youknow,
and taking the time to seeing and alsoseeing what's popular right now and what,
what you could do to be part of that.
but yeah, like right now the industry isso saturated and like, you gotta really
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stand out.
Like, and if we're talking from a pro pornstance, you gotta be a team.
Yeah.
Yeah.
so it's, and it's taking the time toreally put yourself out there and realize
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you're going to have to put your face allover the internet.
Like, or your body.
I mean, there's definitely lots offaceless creators, but you have to get on
every platform and start hustling.
And you got to hustle.
Like the first two years I did this, I washustling.
I have definitely slowed down a lot andthat has to do with like mental health
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stuff and whatnot.
But like, you know, even now, like I makesure to take at least an hour a day.
I'm like, all right, I gotta make theseclips, gotta edit this, gotta put the
watermark on it, gotta get in thesesubreddits, gotta get on Twitter.
Now I'm, you know, on Sex Panther and onInstagram and like, I have like eight
platforms.
So.
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You have to have good time managementskills.
You have to be able to focus and like takethe time to make something quality and
something that's really going to show whoyou are.
Right.
I definitely agree.
We've talked about those things a fewtimes and those are a lot of the pinpoints
that we hit.
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You have to be authentic.
You've got to be willing to grind.
A lot of people think that they can justpost and that will get them the views and
the likes.
And it is like, I actually had a friendthat started out doing this.
And after she saw what I was doing and thepodcast and things like that.
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And after a little while, she was justlike, man, I just can't.
I'm not cut out for this.
I'm just not.
And I think that's something that a lot ofpeople don't realize is that they think
it's like you were saying.
It's very easy.
And it does.
very thick skinned.
You have to be able to, I have had some ofthe worst comments about my body on
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Reddit, on Twitter and like, and even onmy OnlyFans.
Like, why did you pay me to harass me?
Like it's like, yeah, why did you?
And then they, and then they charge backfor $8.
I'm like, get out of here.
But yeah, you have to be able to.
Be like, okay, this is just one person'sopinion.
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I don't need them to like me.
I have all this other great positivevalidation.
And if you don't have that thick skin,it's not gonna happen for you.
It's not gonna work.
here's the thing, everyone's gonna say,there is always going to be someone saying
something negative.
That's just the truth.
There is so much hurt around the worldthat those kind of people are looking to
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hurt others because they're hurting.
That is just something that I've come torealize and you see it when you see an
ugly comment on Reddit, you go throughthat person's thing and they've made posts
about like just things happening in theirlives.
And you're like, this is why, becauseyou're hurting.
Okay, move on.
I think another thing to touch on is theno face thing.
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I think about to bring that up.
Were you, I think that's very interestingbecause, you, like you said, you have to
be very open to your face being on theinternet because here's my take on, I
think doing anonymous, faceless stuff isif that's where you're comfortable
staying, then absolutely be in that zone,but do not expect.
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someone to not come along and know who youare and try to use that against you.
I think that that's something that whenyou, you know, with us, one thing that we
did is like, you know, we did faceless fora while and we still had people in our
personal lives try to use that against uswhen they knew who we were.
And that was when we were finally like,fuck this, like, we're just gonna put our
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face, our name, I don't care.
Like, this is who I am, this is what I do.
And when you take away that leverage, whenthat person no longer has that leverage of
like, I know who you are, I'm gonna emailyour boss and your family and you know,
the fuck that emailed or typed up, theytyped up a letter to my mom and put one of
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my nudes and literally mailed it to heraddress.
Several letters actually.
But that's a...
rude.
Isn't that crazy?
And this is when I was 23 years old andthey were mailing these things.
This was someone we knew in our personallife that obviously hated us for obvious
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reasons.
But you know, that is the risk that youtake when you do things faceless.
And when you take that power away fromthose people.
And I actually remember this is a storythat I don't think I've told ever
actually.
When I first started doing this, there wasa guy.
that had, I don't even know how we hadconnected, maybe Reddit or something like
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that.
And he was willing, he was saying he waswilling to pay big money to be able to
chat with me.
And I just thought that was the bestthing.
I was like, wow, like this dude's gonnaspend, we're talking money, money.
And long story short, this dude ended upbeing a scammer.
And...
He didn't scam me in any way, but when Ilooked up his Snapchat name, and I forget
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what else, I think like WhatsApp, theWhatsApp or something was what I was using
to communicate with him at the time, a fewyears back.
When I looked up his username, this personhad actually tried to converse with other
people, and then what he would do is hewould take their photos that they would
send him.
And he would say, okay, now I have yourphotos.
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So if you don't keep in contact with me,I'm gonna message so and so, or if you
don't send me money, I'm gonna send thisto whoever.
And he didn't do that to me because myface was out there and I didn't give a
fuck.
So I think maybe he realized the juicewasn't worth the squeeze.
But what you realized was that this personwas trying to use this leverage.
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and had actually scammed other people.
Other people online had said like theyended up paying bribe money because they
said he was gonna send it to their familyand I'm like.
Well and he'd even produce like receiptsshowing because he was his thing was that
he was gonna pay PayPal and so he wouldsay I sent it and produce like a.
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like a screenshot of what looked to be alegit payment with email and transaction
number and everything.
And not just a screenshot, like a pictureof him holding a sticky note to the
computer screen that had the PayPal thingon it.
So like this dude was very elaborate,very, very elaborate.
But that just goes to show when you givethose people that leverage, that's what
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they can do.
Someone recently, one of my friends, this
random ass guy, I don't even know how buthe ended up messaging her work.
Luckily, her work said we don't reallygive a shit.
But and then she's like, my mom was aslut.
So she shouldn't be surprised that I'm onetoo.
And we were laughing about it.
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But but it's just one of those things likewhen you do anonymous, that's the risk
that you take people now have leverageover you.
Yeah.
And also the threatening period.
I mean, even though my face is all overthere, I get people try and threaten me
online with like, I have 90 gigabytes ofall your stolen content.
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If you don't do this thing, I want you to,I'm in a, I'm not going to tell you where
it is.
I'm like, okay, little, do you know, Iliterally have a hacker who removes all my
stuff for me.
And so I'll just, I'll just screenshot hisstuff.
I'll send it to the dude and the dude willget him banned from everywhere.
Like, don't mess with me either.
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Like.
I'm going to continue to making content.
So go ahead and keep it if you want.
Like, that's crazy.
just the nature of this business too, isthat your stuff is going to get stolen.
It's just, I have services I pay a bunchof money for to remove my content, but
there's always people who don't comply.
So like, yeah, every, I'm sure there'splaces, but you know what?
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Those people are never going to pay forcontent.
So it's like, I don't care.
That's exactly right.
That kind of brings up a point that I wasgoing to ask you, you know, how does that,
how does that work for you?
I mean, how do you, obviously you feel,you know, that it's doing you a good
service to have the content removed, but,but we don't do that.
And it's not that it's not frustrating.
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It's not that we don't feel like it'stheft of, you know, and all that kinds of
stuff.
But, but in the back of my mind, it'slike, these people aren't even want to go
here anyways, you know?
So it's kind of,
But at the same time, you know, probablymore to your point is like these people
run whole websites based off of scoring.
Yes.
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Yes.
Yes.
And so.
it is quite concerning that, you know, somany, and it's so easy to still content
too.
I mean, there was someone on, I think whenI was, I don't use Instagram much just
because they, they just like hit me somany times.
I'm just like, okay, it's not worth mytime.
But when I was using it, there would bemultiple accounts that would pop up.
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And the thing that, you know, I didn'twant to happen was my,
I would go and see my followers were allfollowing these pages.
So I'm like, no, you guys, no, no, no.
I don't have any of these accounts.
This is the one account that I have.
And the same person that had created aInstagram, an alt Instagram account with
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my name, Panty Nectar, they then went onFacebook and used my photos under an
account name like Janika something.
I don't even remember.
You look like a Janika.
Do I, right?
but they, I have like reported the page somany times and Facebook was like, no, we
don't see anything wrong with it.
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We don't see anything.
But these people were literally every postwas asking for money.
buy me this.
hey, look this.
Hey, look this.
I'm like, man, you're scamming people.
Like that is what I'm not okay with is thescamming people.
I've had somebody stole my pictures andwas messaging other creators and I had
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Luna I Can't remember her full name.
She's another cum slut.
She messaged me.
She's like is this your account?
I'm like no and then they She's like,yeah, they're trying to talk to me as if
they're you and trying to like work withme I'm like that ain't me and I had the
account removed through my
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my service that I do, but I actuallyhaven't had a lot of fake accounts made of
me on Instagram or anywhere else.
So I'm, I think the service is working.
Yeah, right.
You should probably look into it.
That's it.
Yeah.
Ha ha ha.
I remember being so frustrated, especiallywhen I went from a free OnlyFans to my
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paid OnlyFans and I found on some jankwebsite, but some, one of my subscribers
had actually been taking all of my stuffand been sharing it in folders on this
website.
And I remember like being so upset andlike so defeated.
Like I worked so hard.
I, you know, like people think that wejust post an upload and like sometimes
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it's watermarking and clipping and makesure it looks
making sure it looks attractive and doingthings like this.
And you, you put a lot of time and effortinto that stuff all for like someone to
just upload it and put it on a random asspage for people to look at.
Like it, I don't know.
And it's not just that.
I mean, it's like, you know, just likeTang, like you put a lot of most of the
stuff out for free anyways.
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It's like, are you not putting enough freestuff out there for you're doing it all
day?
So, and then you reserve.
a fit.
Like, there's like, my Red Gifts hashundreds of clips on it.
That's at least two hours worth ofcontent.
You could just go there and masturbateonto my clips.
Like.
is a great tip secret.
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There's a lot of good content that's easyto scroll through right there on RedGift.
it's inevitable and it's something I justhad to when people threaten me like if you
don't do this thing, I'm not going to.
I'm like OK bye like I don't care.
I'm not going to.
It couldn't be me like goodbye.
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think back to what you were saying aboutthe faceless stuff one good point to that
is don't put your nudes on the interneteven if you you know or
blurring your face out or not evenincluding your face.
And it's just, you know, neck down stuff.
Don't put it on the internet if you don'twant someone to find out who you are.
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I think that's just a good premise, youknow?
And it's like, and the reality is, is it'sfunny because in this space, you know,
there's a lot of judgment that comestowards us and that's okay.
You know, like you said, we decided to dothis and we understand that and not upset
at all.
But when you, when you start talking topeople that are not in this space and you
talk to them one -on -one and you tellthem what you do, you're like, they're
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like, that's cool.
You know, that's pretty cool.
It's like, like, so I think like, I'm notgoing to say most people have posted their
nudes on the internet, but I think there'sa heck of a lot more people that have
posted their nudes on the internet,especially anonymously that don't talk
about it, you know, and it's like, it'seven, even people that don't post their
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nudes on the internet, it's like, well,let me go through your cell phone then.
You know, I'm gonna go through your cameraroll.
Yeah.
lot of people, you know, it's like, no,you don't want to start with me.
We were laughing today because you know,ex just today decided to make everyone's
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likes private.
So now you can no longer see what peopleare liking.
And I was telling you today that.
This is gonna open up a lot because now itgives people the ability to go like stuff
that they, in human nature.
It is absolutely human nature for this tohappen.
And it's gonna be really interesting tosee the next few weeks, the next few
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months, how that kind of changes becausenow people are given privacy a little bit
and people act differently in private thanthey do in public, that's for sure.
tell you how old I am.
I am this many years old where I rememberwhen Instagram used to show you what
people liked.
That's what we were just, you were justmentioning that today.
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That's so funny.
How long ago was that?
That was a while ago.
I was a long time ago, but like I rememberthat and I was like that was the way I was
able to stalk people I was trying to date.
Now what and now I can't do now I can't dothat on Twitter.
What the hell?
The world's going to shit.
That's so funny.
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So we talked a lot about the sex stuff andthe sex work which is important to us.
Let's do.
But what is what's something that youenjoy doing in your personal life?
Is there something you know, like for me,I play music, I play guitar, I love it,
you know, is there something that thatkind of you take that you can take your
mind off of and do to relax?
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So right now, I work out like six days aweek.
I like weightlifting a lot.
I also, before I did sex work, I worked atmusic festivals.
So yes, I used to work for a clothingbrand.
I still work for the clothing brand.
And I used to travel to 25, 30 festivals ayear.
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And I would sell clothes at musicfestivals.
So that was my life for a long time.
Bye.
it's still part of my life, but as I'vegotten older and partying is, I don't know
if you know what it's like to be hungoverin your thirties, but it's terrible.
And then working 12 hours at a musicfestival with very high and drunk people.
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So anyways, I love going dancing.
I also travel a lot.
I recently got a cat.
So there.
nice.
know, the past six months, my life haschanged a lot and I've definitely slowed
down a lot.
So I'm just right now what's taking mymind off things is focusing on my health
and my body.
I want to be stronger.
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I want to have more endurance, especiallyfor titty fucking, cause my back be
hurting.
I'm like, this is why I started liftingweights and like working out five to six
days a week.
So I was like, I need to be able to ridedick and titty fuck like my back hurts.
Like,
And like I was just in Europe for threeweeks.
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And so that was amazing.
So traveling is another thing I like to dowith some of the free time I have.
I just started gardening.
So my lemon cucumbers are popping, but mytomatoes are not.
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great.
That's great.
You know, life for us recently, we wentfrom living in an apartment in downtown
Austin, which was wild.
to now we have goats and chickens andwe've got dogs.
And so like we dove head first into thisspace.
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But one thing that's really important tous is, living the most natural life that
we can and eating well.
And so, that's one thing that's beenreally fun for us.
We've not, I have not dove into thegardening yet.
I'm a little intimidated by it.
I need to just dive into it.
I was saying that the other day, but.
Right now we've just got the goats that welove.
We love milking the goats and
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I love that a lot.
It's so it is so amazing.
It really is.
It surprised me how much like when we gotthe milk.
So we have we have a mama milk goat andthen she had triplets but one of them was
a little buckling a boy and then the othertwo are girls but they're not old enough
yet.
So but the mama she's still milking and wehad bought her from somebody.
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I found her on like Facebook.
Somewhere in East Texas somewhere and sothey brought the goats down.
And we had never milked goats.
We had never done anything like that.
We didn't have like a stand so we had tobuild one.
And when we started doing that, it waslike, man, there was like such a
connection to like, almost like aspiritual connection in a sense of like,
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not like, my God, I'm going to heaven oranything like that.
But it's like, man, like this is the way Ithink we're kind of supposed to be, you
know, connected with earth type thing, youknow, and they're providing for us.
And then in turn, we take care of theseanimals very well and they love us.
And it.
And it's a symbiotic relationship, youknow, that everybody benefits.
Plus the milk's fucking amazing.
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my dream eventually is I'd like to havesome sort of small piece of land or
something.
I live in California, it is very expensivehere.
So I don't know if it's gonna happen here,but I've always wanted to have a little
farm and chickens and things.
So I love that for you guys.
That's like, it's like the best part ofthe morning when you go to let, we have a
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cage that's for our, a big pen that's forour bigger chickens, which I think we
probably have like, we have 17 of them.
Cause we count them every evening to makesure nothing gets up.
And then we have nine baby chicks that weactually bought as babies and have raised
up a little bit.
And so when you open their gates in themorning and they just flood out into the
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yard.
It's like it is literally the best thingin the world.
And when we get eggs, we're like, thankyou chickens.
Thank you so much.
So it is really great.
We went from getting like 12 to 14 eggs aday to now like two to four, because the
chickens are laying, you know, not intheir lay boxes.
And who knows, you just let them run free.
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Yeah, and people probably think I'm realsexy out there, but I'm in like boots,
I've got sweatpants, I'm searching for anest of eggs somewhere.
It is, it's crazy.
Tang, so what, the, the music, youmentioned music festivals, like what, were
they a specific type like EDM or countryor rock, or was it just kind of
everything?
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Or did you?
EDM festivals and some festivals that haveEDM and jam bands and mainstream bands.
Like we've done Bonnaroo, Electric Forest,EDC Vegas.
I actually did a show in Austin a coupleof years ago.
I can't remember what it was called.
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Illfest.
and then yeah, a lot of EDM.
They're like,
three to six day festivals, like how longwe're there.
So yeah, that was my life.
And before that I worked at a veterinaryhospital.
So I've had many jobs.
I bet people would love if you put yourvet outfit on and start.
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I bet that is such like a niche thing.
People are all going to their vets nextappointment thinking of shoes.
Music festivals were wonderful and I missmy community so much like that that's
where all my friends are and it's Now thatI'm mostly home all the time now unless
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I'm going to collab I spend a lot of timealone and
you know, that's another part of sex workthat some people might not realize is that
we, if we're single, like we do spend alot of time alone.
Like if we're not collabing, like, and, orI might go on dates, but you know, but
anyways, so I'm going to a festival nextweek, actually electric forest.
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I'm going to be working from Wednesday toMonday at the festival and I'll get to see
all my friends.
I haven't seen in like almost a year.
That's awesome.
So it's, I'm excited and nervous and, butI'm feeling real sexy.
I lost 15 pounds.
My titties are popping.
I'm tan as fuck.
I'm ready to go.
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They're taking up the entire screen.
awesome though.
That's really awesome.
What made you like I know that you said,you know, obviously holding up the titties
you got to work out but like was there aone thing for me specifically before I did
a lot of the sex work my community was youknow,
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my fitness, it is something that I haddone since I was 18.
It's something that's very important tome.
My parents went through a really uglydivorce.
And so being at the gym and like workingout for me was something that like meant a
lot to me.
And I built my friends there in mycommunity there.
And that is something that I miss a wholelot now.
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I miss my my group of friends, mycommunity, people that just want to like
lift and get it with you and.
Yeah.
about growth and I'm grateful that allthese platforms, X, Reddit, OnlyFans,
yada, yada, yada, they've all given me aawesome platform to be able to put the
information that I know out there, so I'mgrateful.
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But I do miss that.
Was there something that made you get intoworking out other than that stuff?
Was there a friend that maybe motivatedyou or a place that maybe caught your eye
that you were like, damn, I wanna work outthere?
I mean, I've been like working out andwith personal trainers since I was like
14, but this is like the most consistentI've ever worked out.
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it was simply just the drive to change mylife because I was in a not great place in
November and I was like, I have to change.
I gained weight.
I wasn't feeling good.
Like I was just like, I, I need, I justwant to feel better and I want to be
strong.
Like I want to look good.
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I want my thighs not to rub together.
You know, and as I'm getting older, like Ihave back problems, I got knee problems, I
got hip problems, neck stuff, shoulderstuff.
So like, I just want my body to be thebest it can.
And I'm so grateful I have the time.
Like having an OnlyFans and that being myjob working from home, I have the time to
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work on my body.
And that's something I'm forever gratefulfor because not everyone.
can do that.
They can't make the time to care aboutthemselves.
So I have to be super grateful that I cando this.
And I post like my little journeys onInstagram and people like, I'll see some
of my friends in person, they're like,Christine, you're such a good motivation.
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Like you're at the gym every day.
I'm like, yes, I am.
Yes, I am.
That's really awesome.
And you mentioned the mental health, youknow, and the, the, you talk about last
November, apparently that was a tough timefor you.
And it's, it's important to know everybodylistening, you know, everybody goes
through tough times.
It does not matter who you are.
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Right.
And oftentimes it's, it's a struggle topull yourself back up out of wherever that
is and get back on track.
But, but I know from personal experiencethat one of the best
ways to do that is through physicalactivity.
Have you noticed an improvement in yourmental health as you become more
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consistent with your working out?
Yes, I and some other factors, but yes,the working out has definitely helped and
it is a goal for me now.
And like, it makes me realize I can doanything.
Like, so I, it has improved getting thecat also helped too.
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And reducing like the amount of partying Ido.
And, you know, like I said, I had to makea major shift in the working out was like,
is the main catalyst.
Like if I drink and go to the gym the nextday, my trainer's like, were you drinking
last night?
Because your breathing is different.
I'm like, she knows, she knows.
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And then she's yelling at me when I'mcrying.
She's like, you want a fat ass?
You better stop complaining.
So yeah.
What type of training have you been doinglike weight training?
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Is that you?
do weight training.
So I lift weights at least.
I don't know.
I'll do a little bit of cardio and I liftweights for like an hour.
mostly working on my glutes right now andmy chest.
but yeah, I've seen since I startedworking out very consistently with a
trainer and a plan since February, I lostthe 15 pounds.
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My, my thighs are smaller, my arms arethinner and like more toned and like my
legs are just.
Amazing.
So it's.
that I think a lot of people like they'relike, if I lift weights, I'm going to look
like a dude.
And I'm like, that is so far from thetruth.
Like you, it does something to you thatjust makes you feel so powerful and so
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strong, like just so incredible.
It's been amazing for me.
Like I've just seeing myself be able tolift heavier and heavier.
And that is also spiritual experience forme when I'm in that gym and I'm lifting
with my music in my ears and I'm standing,there's a bunch of men standing around me.
I'm like, I don't care.
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I'm lifting these 15 pound weights.
I don't care.
Like.
No, it's awesome.
It's something that, you know, is there.
I always notice a shift in my, like mymood and my daily everything.
I'm less motivated and I'll always telllike, I'm like, okay, I got to get my shit
together and start being more consistentand go to the gym because it is the only
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thing.
It's just something that I'm very thankfulat a younger age.
I realized how important lifting was.
and, and you know, it's different forevery,
but like lifting for me was so importantbecause I had just always been so, I was a
runner.
So I was always so tiny and like so, youknow, always had these injuries and like
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lifting was something that made me feellike a badass.
And like, and then like you're saying, youjust put some music, jam some music in
your ear and then every week you'relifting heavier and heavier and you're
like.
I am literally a super person.
I don't even know what's going on, but itmakes you feel super human.
So if that's one thing that I coulddefinitely push to anyone listening, like
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if you are struggling somewhere in yourlife, like go lift some weights.
Now don't go crazy and hurt yourself, butlike get a routine, get a plan and go lift
some weights, progressive overloading.
So just focus each week on getting heavierat those things if that's your goal.
And man, it's just, to me, it was alifesaver to me.
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It is definitely something that changedthe trajectory of my life.
I definitely think with my upbringing andwith things like that, it would have been
very easy for me to just dive into alcoholand drugs and get lost in that stuff.
And fitness and lifting put me on thatdifferent path.
And I'm very grateful for that.
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Yeah, it's wonderful.
Yeah, you're an entirely different personwhen you do and don't.
When she's not in or out of the gymroutine.
It's like it's like it's like it becauseshe goes early in the morning, you know,
she'll go like 5am or something.
And so it like sets the tone for the dayfor her, you know, and it's like I'm not
like pointing blame.
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I'm a shithead all day.
So it's like whether I do what I just sayin your case is like you're working out.
It's like everything is it's you're justfucking rolling.
It really does something to my like, myhead space too.
I feel like it'll be easier for me to getfrustrated if I'm not in the gym.
It's harder for me to work things out andto like plan out and you know, I'm a huge
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procrastinator.
So lifting early gets my ass going.
And so it makes me not be aprocrastinator.
And so it's definitely something that notjust physically because I like the way it
makes me look.
I like.
everyone on Reddit, it's so funny when I'mnot lifting, I lose so much weight because
what's on me is muscle.
And when I don't have that, I just don'thold on to anything.
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It's not cause I'm not like I'm trying to,I don't try to.
It's just people, people talk, you know,like the comments, you know, like skinny
bitch or something like that.
Like eat a cheeseburger.
I'm like, first off, if y 'all saw what Iate during the day, there's literally
Oreos next to my butt.
Thank you.
But, but it, it's seriously,
I will see a shift in everything and thenpeople notice it and it's so funny.
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It's like, I'll try to be like, you guys,it's cause I'm not lifting.
That's why you're not seeing that.
It's cause I'm not lifting, but it doeseverything to me physically and mentally.
It definitely helps me mentally for surethough.
love it so much.
Yeah.
Thanks.
So before you get out of here, what'swhat's what's what is your only fans?
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What's your Reddit?
@sheisatang, right?
Yeah, that's my name on all of myplatforms, Reddit, Twitter, OnlyFans.
I was like, what am I saying?
Reddit, Twitter, OnlyFans, Fansly,ManyVids, and then my Instagram is chris
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.tang27.
But yeah, she is a Tang, that's me.
is a ting.
T -A -N -G.
And she takes fantastic facials all thetime.
She is a facial queen.
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my god.
Someone came to my house at 930 thismorning to shoot with me.
15 minutes out the door.
Tomorrow someone's coming to fuck me, giveme a facial and then fuck me again with
the facial and camera.
So.
so awesome.
That's so cool that we get to just likecreate the life that we want and do
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whatever we want.
I think that's such an empowering thing.
And I think it's important to recognizetoo that that everybody's different,
right?
Like just because we do this just becausewe're comfortable doing this doesn't mean
that it's something that everybody shouldbe doing.
And we're not suggesting everybody do itright?
Like we're not like, you're a fuckingprude.
You should be taking facials and post themon.
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No, it's like, just live your life andwe'll live our life.
Exactly.
I'll live my cum loving life over here.
I'm just fine.
Yes.
Yes.
Well, Tang, thank you so much for joiningus for an episode of the Painting Next
Podcast.
We had a blast.
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And remember, you guys can look her up onanything.
@sheisatang.
I'm sure if you Google it, all your stuffpops up as well.
So you can find her anywhere.
And if not, definitely reach out to us,and we will help guide you that way.
And we will put it in the show notes aswell.
So she is a Tang.
Awesome.
Well, thank you.
and we will see you guys for anotherepisode very soon.
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Thank you, Tang.
Thanks for coming on the show.
We appreciate it.
Bye.
Bye.
See ya.
This is the PantyNectar Podcast episode 89with your host PantyNectar and Mr.
P.
And today joining us is a very specialguest.
So please welcome.
@sheisatang Thank you so much for joiningus today.
We are so excited.
Yes, we're so excited to have you.
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You are someone that I have been followingon everything for quite a while now and
very inspired by how you just
kick ass and do your thing and you are youand it is, I just think the greatest thing
in the whole world, honestly.
That is a very nice compliment.
Thank you very much.
Cause I have definitely been following yousince I started my OnlyFans, which was in
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2020.
So I think just we were on the same subsand I saw you too.
So that's very nice to hear.
Thank you.
course, of course.
No, it's definitely been interestingnavigating Reddit world and then
navigating X world.
And now we've moved on to all theseplatforms.
And I know you're on several moreplatforms.
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I see you post like Sext Panther, thingslike that.
So it's really awesome to see you all overthe place.
It's good to see creators, genuinecreators in this space that are.
wanting to be authentic and do not have ascarcity mindset and are all in for
everyone.
And I think that's definitely what yourepresent.
So very excited.
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So I guess we'd like to know, you've kindof said when you started OnlyFans, what
year was that again, you said?
I started in July of 2020, so just acouple months after the pandemic happened.
So yeah, that's when I, but I had beenposting nudes on Reddit and FetLife before
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that, so.
Right, right, that's awesome.
So what made you kind of like want to diveinto more of the sex work world or when we
always talk about it, I'm like, what do weeven call ourselves?
Because I think it's just like acombination of all kinds of things that we
do.
You can't really pinpoint it down to onething because I think we do give a lot to
our fans and being genuine and authentic.
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That does require giving a lot to yourfans.
I think what we do is a whole lot morethan that.
But what was it that kind of likemotivated you to get started in that?
so I had always like really liked facialsand then, I was posting them online.
We love facials.
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so I started dating my ex in November of2019.
And then throughout the beginning of ourrelationship, we had.
I told him I like posting nudes and stufflike that.
He's like, we should make porn.
I was like, okay.
So that's just kind of how it happened.
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And obviously the pandemic, I actually hadthree jobs during the pandemic, including
my OnlyFans.
So like, I just added that onto it.
It just kind of happened and it reallywent places I did not imagine.
Isn't that crazy?
I think we that's exactly how you knowthat things got started for us the
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pandemic.
I was working in a gym at the time.
So you know how that went all gyms wereclosed.
And so it was fun to post and all of asudden like we were getting tons of views
and I'm like, I cannot believe that thismany people are sitting here watching.
I think one of them was like a blowjob ora facial or something like that as well.
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that did so good, that's so wild thinkingthat people, because we just feel like
it's just like a regular video to us, likeit's just a regular video with our
partner.
We don't expect a lot of people to be asinto it.
I guess in my mind at the time I didn't,so.
and I started advertising on Instagrambecause I had like I only had like maybe
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5000 followers and like I was alreadyposting sexy pictures on there and I got
like my first 100 subs from Instagram andthen I had to figure out how to navigate
Reddit.
And my.
to figure out.
Yeah.
I'm still, which I can get into laterabout the Paul, the politics of Reddit
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specifically.
but yeah.
And then I got my first like viral post oncum sluts.
It was just a facial picture and it got somuch traction.
And then I was like, okay, I think I I'mfiguring it out.
And so I just kept hitting it and I wasgoing hard the first year with advertising
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on Reddit.
or just posting and that was what made meexcel for my OnlyFans.
Right.
That's awesome.
So Tang, was the first time you createdthe she is a Tang account, was that on
Reddit?
Or was that kind kind the time debut ofshe is a Tang?
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Yeah, it was, I made my OnlyFans and thenI made the She Is A Tang handle for
Reddit.
So, and I had facial pictures on there onmy ex's account and I had to text him and
be like, take my facial pictures downbecause I'm gonna have my own account now.
So people had already seen me before myOnlyFans because the photos my ex would,
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But, before I did my only plans that X he,one of our pictures went completely insane
on there, like 14 ,000 up votes.
And that was before I even consideredmaking porn.
That was like two years before that.
So, so I was already up there.
And that photo is one of my most stolenphotos of all time.
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Like.
crazy.
day, I'll still see it.
But anyways, so yeah, that's how she as aTang started.
I just was like, my nickname was alreadyTang, but I was like, this is an
interesting handle.
And then that's...
on Reddit or somewhere, I had asked youthat like, where does that name come from?
Like it's a very unique, interesting name.
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And I think you told me that you're like,my friends just kind of called me Tang
already.
So it was just natural to add that to thehandle.
And I think she is a Tang is like such aunique, fun, what I think it makes people
wonder like, what does that mean?
What does that mean?
It's awesome.
So you were saying that you went through abreakup and that was something that I
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definitely noticed.
I think on X you kind of shared with a lotof your followers on there, the personal
things you were kind of going through andI really admired you being so vulnerable
because you really don't see that with alot of creators.
There are several creators that I knowthat like their fans don't even know about
their lives or what's going on in theirlives.
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And I think that was very honorable andlike very vulnerable.
you to share with your fans like whatyou're going through and you know that
kind of transition that you were goingthrough because I think it's just
important for other people to see thatlike we're humans too like as much as we
love taking facials all the time we'realso humans and we go through stuff and
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fucking life hits us sometimes and I thinkone thing that was really cool was to see
you like
totally go from like, where do I go fromhere to like, now all you all I see all
the time is like you killing it.
You're always doing.
I know recently I saw some of yourthreesome stuff and the facials obviously
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is a big thing.
And I just think it's so cool that, youknow, you were able to come through
something like that because a lot of myfans, they message and they're like, I'm
single.
I'm never gonna have fun.
I'm never gonna live this kind of lifethat.
you or these other creators that I see areliving and I think you're a great example
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of like, no, you can do whatever the fuckyou want in life.
Like just got to do it.
Yeah, and honestly, that was was the pastsix months has been some of the hardest
times I've had just just being completelyhonest, like mentally after that breakup,
because I started my only fans with my exand I grew it with him.
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And he was the person I did that with.
And some of my best content that Ibelieve.
But I think that's coming from a place ofstill dealing with that breakup.
like some of my favorite content is withhim, some of my biggest facials and like
part of me misses so much about that, butI didn't have a choice.
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I started this career and I wasn't goingto stop.
So I had to find other penises.
There was a threesome, a facial threesomethat you did with this couple and she was
a beautiful girl.
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She had curly curly hair.
I don't remember what her name was.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
So that, yes, that, that, you know,interaction that you had with them.
That was so awesome to see.
I think that was like such a fun thing.
Such a fun video.
I watched those videos.
That couple looked like a really awesomecouple.
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So I think that was really cool sharingthat.
Yeah, I've done three videos with them andthen I've worked separately with Daddy
Lemonade like four times.
So he reached out to me to work with meback when I was still with my ex.
I was doing collabs when I was with my exstill.
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That was what we had to do.
And Daddy Lemonade reached out to me and Iwas like, sure, if you go get a full test.
full panel, sign all the paperwork andgive me copies of your ID, we'll do it.
And they already had an OnlyFans, but it,you know, they were a little bit smaller.
And then they were like, you were ourfirst collab we've ever done.
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That was in like 2022 or something or2021.
So I have a very close relationship withthem.
So it's, it's really nice to work withcouples because I'm a good addition to add
in there.
And it's fun for everyone.
Yeah, I was gonna say your genuineinteraction during that, like you could
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tell you guys were all having so much fun.
And I think that's so important to see inour space because a lot of the times we
just see people like, you know, Kate onhere told a story about how like this girl
did a video with her and like she was kindof really into the girl and then come to
find out the girl was like, I just wantedto make this video.
Like, let's just do these videos and like.
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That is such a, that was such a turn offfor her.
And I can imagine like kind of beingattracted to someone and like wanting it
to be natural and wanting it to flow.
And then all of a sudden they're justdoing it for content.
So that definitely showed through y 'all'svideo.
It looked like you guys had an awesometime and that you actually are kind of
like a friendship, like a connection.
It definitely showed through the video.
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Yeah, and it's actually incredibly hard tohave friendships in this industry if
you're not like part of a clique.
And like, so it's, you know, I callFreckle Lemonade when I'm having a hard
time as a sex worker.
I'm like, girl, I need advice.
Like you are one of my very, I have liketwo girlfriends who are sex workers that I
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can call anytime.
So it's really important to me for thepeople I do work with if it's not just a
one -off.
that I have some sort of friendship withthem because otherwise it's just, what's
the point for me?
Like.
Yeah.
right.
So what is one thing that you kind of lookfor when you are wanting to collab or make
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content with somebody?
What is something that you kind of lookfor?
Is there certain markers you kind of tryto meet?
Are you looking for people that you'reattracted to?
Do most of these people come to you?
We don't do a whole lot of collabs, soit's nice to kind of hear details a little
bit about how people go about that.
(12:38):
So for me, some people have reached out tome and I've reached out to others.
But if I'm reaching out, it's because theyhave big loads and I see that.
And that's just, I honestly don'tnecessarily care what they look like
because it's POV.
And so like, and I'm just, I'm just tryingto get the facial.
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Like that's just, but you know, I workwith.
wondering how big their load is, you know.
I have to be pretty like specific, like Ineed you to withhold.
If you're going to shoot with me, it hasto be like three to four days.
Like this is my main point of focus and mycontent.
(13:23):
And if they're already a creator that haslarge loads and they understand, I also do
work with non -creators who maybe they'llmessage me on Twitter or FetLife.
Those are two places I have found peopleto work with that are not creators at all.
They don't have platforms.
And if I'm attracted to them and we have avideo call and I, you know, maybe they
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have some videos already on their pagesjust for fun.
And I can see they have a nice stick.
They have big loads.
Can they stay hard?
and I've had some success with non-creators.
It's not something I like to do very oftenbecause of who I am and it can be, you
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know, a safety issue.
but I just am like, will you get tested?
Will you sign the paperwork?
Great.
Let's do this.
I'll be in your town at this time.
Come to my Airbnb.
So.
that's definitely, I think people wondertoo, like, I know we see it in the space,
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obviously, but like testing is a big dealand making sure that you're clean for the
people or person that you're gonna bewith.
Huge deal, I think maybe sometimes people,especially in my personal life, they're
like, y 'all are just having orgy partiesall the time and inviting whoever and just
like, you know, what like this nastystuff.
And it's like, no, people in this spacegenuinely care about health, sexual
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health.
And they get tested, they make sure thatthey're protecting others and protecting
themselves.
And I think that's a really importantthing to do and to share awareness of in
this space, you know.
And let me tell you dating at who I likebeing who I am and being in the industry
and trying to date like civilian peopleand having to explain to them.
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I need you to get tested before we hookup.
I have a job also just for our safety.
I need you to go get tested and I'll gettested too.
I I'll go every two weeks.
Sometimes I'll go weekly if I'm doing alot of shoots like this is just what I
have to do.
So.
Yeah.
Tang, so I know there's guys listeningright now and they're thinking to
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themselves, man, my girlfriend or my wife,she freaking hates facials.
Like why, how did somebody get so lucky tobe with a woman that loves facials?
So what, you know, from, of course, guys,I think most of us, we really enjoy giving
facials, but what is it for you that,what's, what's the allure to facial for
you?
(15:55):
I just think it's so aestheticallypleasing seeing it on my face.
And I guess the act of knowing I made thatperson come on my face and how, it's
weird, I get asked that all the time andI'm like, I don't know, I just come on my
face.
I think it's hot and it's fun to takepictures of and all the partners I've had,
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they love giving facials.
So like.
you.
just been this way now.
I saw a post you posted on X recentlywithin the past day or two or three.
I don't know.
It was like a POV.
You were doing a selfie video and you justhad like cum on your face and you're just
wiping it all over your face.
I was like, yeah, I was like, look, she'sreally fucking into this.
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This is amazing.
Yeah, it's great.
Yeah, I just think it looks really hot.
And at this point, I'm like, that's justmy thing.
So thank you.
definitely think there's something, youknow, when it comes to blow jobs, I think
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that's something that people comment a loton on my videos.
Also is like, dang, you look like you'rereally enjoying it.
And like, I genuinely do enjoy it.
I like what you said, the feeling of likeknowing that you're making them come.
That is like a hot thing.
That's like, okay, goal, make them come.
So do, do what you gotta do.
And it's not to me turns me on.
(17:28):
I love like blow jobs all day long becauseof that reason.
Same.
I mean, obviously a lot of my content isstrictly blowjobs and I do do titty
fucking a lot too, but blowjobs has beenit's like common blowjobs are my main
fetish and you know, I I just love suckingdick.
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I just genuinely enjoy it and I havealways enjoyed it since the beginning of
my sexual exploration in life.
Yeah.
But when I turned 27, that's when mysexual liberation was.
And when I finally was coming into my own,and I was like, I love this.
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This is like, I love this so much.
And I've gained so many skills with mymouth.
So.
see the talent.
That's great.
So do you find that people are more intothe facials than they are the titty
fucking?
Is that something that you find?
(18:34):
at this point it's kind of split now forme on my only fans and my pages, you know,
if I'm going off, say Reddit, the tittyfucking is doing way better than the
facials.
if I go off, yeah, it's actually kind ofcrazy, but I think that also has to do
with the saturation on Reddit.
(18:58):
and then.
My only fans, I mean people like both.
They want both things.
They want the titty, they want the blowjob, titty fucking, and the facial in the
end.
They want all of it.
I think especially cause you do the POV.
So it's kind of nice to like picture thatthey're the one that's sitting there
giving you that big load.
So I think that's what people find taughta lot of the times too.
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I had a guy schedule a video call with metoday and he's like, I'm a tick guy.
And I'm like, well, wrong creator.
He was like, no, it's okay.
Work with what you got.
I was like, okay, as long as you're okaywith that, but definitely not your girl.
sorry.
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So, you know, she mentioned that, thatpeople think that, you know, oftentimes
that we're just out doing all this crazystuff.
And like the reality is, and this isnothing against people that are doing, you
know, having, doing whatever, havingorgies, whatever each to their own, but
that's just not what we do.
And, and so, but.
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A lot of people don't really understandwhat we do, you know, and I think this may
pertain to you and most of the people inour space, you know, it's like, you know,
part of it's like the part sex worker andpart putting that sexy stuff out there,
but, but, you know, as, as good asanybody, I'm sure that oftentimes you have
fans that just want to vent to yousometimes and tell you about their, about
(20:24):
their day.
And you know, that something may have gonebad and, and sometimes you play a part
-time therapist or.
you know, we do and trying to help peoplethrough whatever situation it may be.
And so what's one thing that people wouldmaybe find surprising that you do in this
space that isn't seen every day?
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Is there something that would come tomind?
I mean, it's similar that I have fans thatI talk to regularly that just want to talk
to me.
They don't even really want pictures oranything.
And I do that off of my OnlyFans too.
Like, I have a fan on Instagram.
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He doesn't even really subscribe to myOnlyFans anymore, but he likes every
single one of my pictures.
He comments on everything on Instagram.
Like he's always telling me I'm beautiful.
He's like, I need a hug.
And I'll just like talk to him and chatwith him.
You know, and he doesn't necessarilyalways pay me for my time, but because
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it's been like three years of like on andoff him on my only fans.
Sometimes he Venmo's me like a little bitof money.
Just he's like, I like you so much.
You're such a goddess.
Like.
I'm like, OK.
And he sends me pictures of his dogs.
And I'm like, OK, this is nice.
So yeah, I do also do a bit of the peoplevent to me on OnlyFans too, like my
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girlfriend doesn't like this.
What should I do?
Or.
I've had people be like, you really helpedme through a hard time when I was in the
hospital or when I was really down.
On the holidays, I'll put a post on myOnlyFans like, you're welcome to message
me.
You don't have to pay.
Like I'll respond to you.
Cause I don't make my fans pay to messageme on OnlyFans.
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So they can message me anytime.
I'm, you know, I might not always answerright away, but you know, I still take the
time to respond to everyone and I don'ttry and get every last penny out of them.
Sure.
because sometimes they just want someoneto talk to.
There is, you know, we've seen a, I'veseen a creator before.
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A lot of people don't know there is asetting on OnlyFans where you can turn it
on and it's a, somebody has to have tippedat least a dollar to have messaged you.
And then I've seen more creators have thaton and then.
the creator that does have it on will say,my messages, I don't know if they're
working.
(23:06):
Like, can you please message me?
And I'm like, dang, that was a problem.
Because there are creators like you, likeus, like many others we know in this
space, that will talk to you and likeyou're saying, not try to sit here and
suck you dry for every last dollar.
Like we are doing this because for mepersonally, I love the interaction.
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I...
A lot of people think that like, you know,as much as our fans are helping us grow
and it helps us out.
I also think when I first started this,like it was almost a confident booster for
me because one thing that we don't do islike, we don't do negativity.
You will not see, you will not see us goback and forth with anyone on either of
(23:49):
our platforms.
You will not see.
us sit here and try, we won't do any ofthat.
We just want positivity.
We just want happiness.
We just want love.
That's it.
And so I think, you know, that's one thingabout us that you'll notice is like, it's,
it's a confident booster.
It's a confidence booster for everyonewhen there's no negativity and there's
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nothing but positivity and the commentsunder Reddit or the comments under X and
it's just a really good feeling to.
when you feel good and when they feelgood, like everyone wins.
Why would you not want that?
You know?
Yeah, I can definitely resonate with likewhen I started just posting nudes online
for free before OnlyFans and then OnlyFansis that I felt like my body was really
(24:33):
accepted because like I gained a lot ofweight like over a few like seven year
period and I was bigger than I'd ever beenand like starting this journey of like
posting online I was like, okay, my body'sfully accepted and then now that I'm fully
in it like in the industry and
You know, I've gone to events where I seewomen who are my size or bigger and
(24:57):
they're so confident and everyone lovesthem.
And I'm like, okay, this is like the placewhere I feel really good.
so that's been huge for me.
and especially when I'm feeling sad, just,you know, in other parts of my life,
dating or relationships.
And I'm like, okay, you know what?
I am very hot and 150 ,000 followers onTwitter.
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Thanks.
I wish I totally wish that that messageget out more to people because even not
even with girls or with sex workers likewith the everyday person to like a lot of
guys that message me don't have that sameconfidence either and I'm like, people
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like everything there is not like a boxthat that only people like if you're
blonde, if you're platinum blonde and yougot nice tits and you have this kind of
body like that is not the case at all.
That is a complete facade in the industry.
There go on Reddit and Google look up someof the most random subreddits Reddit and I
(26:06):
promise you there is there are people thatlike everything.
Everybody likes something.
Yeah.
And it's not there yet.
Yeah, exactly.
I think I had, we've talked about thisbefore, but I literally, I think I was,
what, eight months pregnant and this dudewanted me to sit naked with my big old
(26:27):
pregnant belly and eat powdered donuts.
And it was like, I was like, someone wantsto pay to see me do this, this is insane.
And I ate those donuts like the sexiestbitch ever too, it was so much fun too.
Just laughing the whole time.
I was, I was cracking up because I couldnot believe, I'm like, this is like my.
my wet dream right here, eating powdereddonuts.
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It was great.
It was so much fun.
Ting, I know a lot of people, I thinkthere's a misconception as well in this
space that because people see, you know,successful people in the space who have,
you know, done it for a few years and workreally hard and they get to a certain
level.
And I think that some people who are maybeon the outside,
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looking in and some people maybe eventhinking about becoming creators have the
misconception that it's easy.
And it's like, and it's not right.
And I think that, you know, oftentimes we,you know, it's like, we'll work 12, 16
hours a day, you know, just responding anddoing, making content and posting and
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answering DMs and so forth.
What would you give any, do you have anyadvice that maybe you'd give some creators
that are just wanting to get started?
Because I think that, that people need tounderstand that like, yes, this is one of
those things that anybody can do, youknow, anybody do it, but, but it does take
a certain level of dedication.
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Yeah, so first, if they were starting itnow, I would be like, it is very
oversaturated.
And you really got to have a niche.
You can't just be like fucking on camera.
Like you have to have something that youdo and you do best.
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Like that's why I like facials.
That is my niche.
Titty fucking is my niche now.
Like don't.
I could fuck on camera and nobody, nobodycares because like I have a niche.
And so that is so important to makeyourself stand out from all the other
women or in men that are out there.
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like you have to stand out now and youknow,
and taking the time to seeing and alsoseeing what's popular right now and what,
what you could do to be part of that.
but yeah, like right now the industry isso saturated and like, you gotta really
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stand out.
Like, and if we're talking from a pro pornstance, you gotta be a team.
Yeah.
Yeah.
so it's, and it's taking the time toreally put yourself out there and realize
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you're going to have to put your face allover the internet.
Like, or your body.
I mean, there's definitely lots offaceless creators, but you have to get on
every platform and start hustling.
And you got to hustle.
Like the first two years I did this, I washustling.
I have definitely slowed down a lot andthat has to do with like mental health
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stuff and whatnot.
But like, you know, even now, like I makesure to take at least an hour a day.
I'm like, all right, I gotta make theseclips, gotta edit this, gotta put the
watermark on it, gotta get in thesesubreddits, gotta get on Twitter.
Now I'm, you know, on Sex Panther and onInstagram and like, I have like eight
platforms.
So.
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You have to have good time managementskills.
You have to be able to focus and like takethe time to make something quality and
something that's really going to show whoyou are.
Right.
I definitely agree.
We've talked about those things a fewtimes and those are a lot of the pinpoints
that we hit.
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You have to be authentic.
You've got to be willing to grind.
A lot of people think that they can justpost and that will get them the views and
the likes.
And it is like, I actually had a friendthat started out doing this.
And after she saw what I was doing and thepodcast and things like that.
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And after a little while, she was justlike, man, I just can't.
I'm not cut out for this.
I'm just not.
And I think that's something that a lot ofpeople don't realize is that they think
it's like you were saying.
It's very easy.
And it does.
very thick skinned.
You have to be able to, I have had some ofthe worst comments about my body on
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Reddit, on Twitter and like, and even onmy OnlyFans.
Like, why did you pay me to harass me?
Like it's like, yeah, why did you?
And then they, and then they charge backfor $8.
I'm like, get out of here.
But yeah, you have to be able to.
Be like, okay, this is just one person'sopinion.
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I don't need them to like me.
I have all this other great positivevalidation.
And if you don't have that thick skin,it's not gonna happen for you.
It's not gonna work.
here's the thing, everyone's gonna say,there is always going to be someone saying
something negative.
That's just the truth.
There is so much hurt around the worldthat those kind of people are looking to
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hurt others because they're hurting.
That is just something that I've come torealize and you see it when you see an
ugly comment on Reddit, you go throughthat person's thing and they've made posts
about like just things happening in theirlives.
And you're like, this is why, becauseyou're hurting.
Okay, move on.
I think another thing to touch on is theno face thing.
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I think about to bring that up.
Were you, I think that's very interestingbecause, you, like you said, you have to
be very open to your face being on theinternet because here's my take on, I
think doing anonymous, faceless stuff isif that's where you're comfortable
staying, then absolutely be in that zone,but do not expect.
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someone to not come along and know who youare and try to use that against you.
I think that that's something that whenyou, you know, with us, one thing that we
did is like, you know, we did faceless fora while and we still had people in our
personal lives try to use that against uswhen they knew who we were.
And that was when we were finally like,fuck this, like, we're just gonna put our
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face, our name, I don't care.
Like, this is who I am, this is what I do.
And when you take away that leverage, whenthat person no longer has that leverage of
like, I know who you are, I'm gonna emailyour boss and your family and you know,
the fuck that emailed or typed up, theytyped up a letter to my mom and put one of
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my nudes and literally mailed it to heraddress.
Several letters actually.
But that's a...
rude.
Isn't that crazy?
And this is when I was 23 years old andthey were mailing these things.
This was someone we knew in our personallife that obviously hated us for obvious
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reasons.
But you know, that is the risk that youtake when you do things faceless.
And when you take that power away fromthose people.
And I actually remember this is a storythat I don't think I've told ever
actually.
When I first started doing this, there wasa guy.
that had, I don't even know how we hadconnected, maybe Reddit or something like
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that.
And he was willing, he was saying he waswilling to pay big money to be able to
chat with me.
And I just thought that was the bestthing.
I was like, wow, like this dude's gonnaspend, we're talking money, money.
And long story short, this dude ended upbeing a scammer.
And...
He didn't scam me in any way, but when Ilooked up his Snapchat name, and I forget
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what else, I think like WhatsApp, theWhatsApp or something was what I was using
to communicate with him at the time, a fewyears back.
When I looked up his username, this personhad actually tried to converse with other
people, and then what he would do is hewould take their photos that they would
send him.
And he would say, okay, now I have yourphotos.
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So if you don't keep in contact with me,I'm gonna message so and so, or if you
don't send me money, I'm gonna send thisto whoever.
And he didn't do that to me because myface was out there and I didn't give a
fuck.
So I think maybe he realized the juicewasn't worth the squeeze.
But what you realized was that this personwas trying to use this leverage.
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and had actually scammed other people.
Other people online had said like theyended up paying bribe money because they
said he was gonna send it to their familyand I'm like.
Well and he'd even produce like receiptsshowing because he was his thing was that
he was gonna pay PayPal and so he wouldsay I sent it and produce like a.
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like a screenshot of what looked to be alegit payment with email and transaction
number and everything.
And not just a screenshot, like a pictureof him holding a sticky note to the
computer screen that had the PayPal thingon it.
So like this dude was very elaborate,very, very elaborate.
But that just goes to show when you givethose people that leverage, that's what
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they can do.
Someone recently, one of my friends, this
random ass guy, I don't even know how buthe ended up messaging her work.
Luckily, her work said we don't reallygive a shit.
But and then she's like, my mom was aslut.
So she shouldn't be surprised that I'm onetoo.
And we were laughing about it.
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But but it's just one of those things likewhen you do anonymous, that's the risk
that you take people now have leverageover you.
Yeah.
And also the threatening period.
I mean, even though my face is all overthere, I get people try and threaten me
online with like, I have 90 gigabytes ofall your stolen content.
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If you don't do this thing, I want you to,I'm in a, I'm not going to tell you where
it is.
I'm like, okay, little, do you know, Iliterally have a hacker who removes all my
stuff for me.
And so I'll just, I'll just screenshot hisstuff.
I'll send it to the dude and the dude willget him banned from everywhere.
Like, don't mess with me either.
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Like.
I'm going to continue to making content.
So go ahead and keep it if you want.
Like, that's crazy.
just the nature of this business too, isthat your stuff is going to get stolen.
It's just, I have services I pay a bunchof money for to remove my content, but
there's always people who don't comply.
So like, yeah, every, I'm sure there'splaces, but you know what?
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Those people are never going to pay forcontent.
So it's like, I don't care.
That's exactly right.
That kind of brings up a point that I wasgoing to ask you, you know, how does that,
how does that work for you?
I mean, how do you, obviously you feel,you know, that it's doing you a good
service to have the content removed, but,but we don't do that.
And it's not that it's not frustrating.
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It's not that we don't feel like it'stheft of, you know, and all that kinds of
stuff.
But, but in the back of my mind, it'slike, these people aren't even want to go
here anyways, you know?
So it's kind of,
But at the same time, you know, probablymore to your point is like these people
run whole websites based off of scoring.
Yes.
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Yes.
Yes.
And so.
it is quite concerning that, you know, somany, and it's so easy to still content
too.
I mean, there was someone on, I think whenI was, I don't use Instagram much just
because they, they just like hit me somany times.
I'm just like, okay, it's not worth mytime.
But when I was using it, there would bemultiple accounts that would pop up.
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And the thing that, you know, I didn'twant to happen was my,
I would go and see my followers were allfollowing these pages.
So I'm like, no, you guys, no, no, no.
I don't have any of these accounts.
This is the one account that I have.
And the same person that had created aInstagram, an alt Instagram account with
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my name, Panty Nectar, they then went onFacebook and used my photos under an
account name like Janika something.
I don't even remember.
You look like a Janika.
Do I, right?
but they, I have like reported the page somany times and Facebook was like, no, we
don't see anything wrong with it.
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We don't see anything.
But these people were literally every postwas asking for money.
buy me this.
hey, look this.
Hey, look this.
I'm like, man, you're scamming people.
Like that is what I'm not okay with is thescamming people.
I've had somebody stole my pictures andwas messaging other creators and I had
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Luna I Can't remember her full name.
She's another cum slut.
She messaged me.
She's like is this your account?
I'm like no and then they She's like,yeah, they're trying to talk to me as if
they're you and trying to like work withme I'm like that ain't me and I had the
account removed through my
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my service that I do, but I actuallyhaven't had a lot of fake accounts made of
me on Instagram or anywhere else.
So I'm, I think the service is working.
Yeah, right.
You should probably look into it.
That's it.
Yeah.
Ha ha ha.
I remember being so frustrated, especiallywhen I went from a free OnlyFans to my
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paid OnlyFans and I found on some jankwebsite, but some, one of my subscribers
had actually been taking all of my stuffand been sharing it in folders on this
website.
And I remember like being so upset andlike so defeated.
Like I worked so hard.
I, you know, like people think that wejust post an upload and like sometimes
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it's watermarking and clipping and makesure it looks
making sure it looks attractive and doingthings like this.
And you, you put a lot of time and effortinto that stuff all for like someone to
just upload it and put it on a random asspage for people to look at.
Like it, I don't know.
And it's not just that.
I mean, it's like, you know, just likeTang, like you put a lot of most of the
stuff out for free anyways.
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It's like, are you not putting enough freestuff out there for you're doing it all
day?
So, and then you reserve.
a fit.
Like, there's like, my Red Gifts hashundreds of clips on it.
That's at least two hours worth ofcontent.
You could just go there and masturbateonto my clips.
Like.
is a great tip secret.
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There's a lot of good content that's easyto scroll through right there on RedGift.
it's inevitable and it's something I justhad to when people threaten me like if you
don't do this thing, I'm not going to.
I'm like OK bye like I don't care.
I'm not going to.
It couldn't be me like goodbye.
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think back to what you were saying aboutthe faceless stuff one good point to that
is don't put your nudes on the interneteven if you you know or
blurring your face out or not evenincluding your face.
And it's just, you know, neck down stuff.
Don't put it on the internet if you don'twant someone to find out who you are.
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I think that's just a good premise, youknow?
And it's like, and the reality is, is it'sfunny because in this space, you know,
there's a lot of judgment that comestowards us and that's okay.
You know, like you said, we decided to dothis and we understand that and not upset
at all.
But when you, when you start talking topeople that are not in this space and you
talk to them one -on -one and you tellthem what you do, you're like, they're
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like, that's cool.
You know, that's pretty cool.
It's like, like, so I think like, I'm notgoing to say most people have posted their
nudes on the internet, but I think there'sa heck of a lot more people that have
posted their nudes on the internet,especially anonymously that don't talk
about it, you know, and it's like, it'seven, even people that don't post their
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nudes on the internet, it's like, well,let me go through your cell phone then.
You know, I'm gonna go through your cameraroll.
Yeah.
lot of people, you know, it's like, no,you don't want to start with me.
We were laughing today because you know,ex just today decided to make everyone's
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likes private.
So now you can no longer see what peopleare liking.
And I was telling you today that.
This is gonna open up a lot because now itgives people the ability to go like stuff
that they, in human nature.
It is absolutely human nature for this tohappen.
And it's gonna be really interesting tosee the next few weeks, the next few
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months, how that kind of changes becausenow people are given privacy a little bit
and people act differently in private thanthey do in public, that's for sure.
tell you how old I am.
I am this many years old where I rememberwhen Instagram used to show you what
people liked.
That's what we were just, you were justmentioning that today.
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That's so funny.
How long ago was that?
That was a while ago.
I was a long time ago, but like I rememberthat and I was like that was the way I was
able to stalk people I was trying to date.
Now what and now I can't do now I can't dothat on Twitter.
What the hell?
The world's going to shit.
That's so funny.
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So we talked a lot about the sex stuff andthe sex work which is important to us.
Let's do.
But what is what's something that youenjoy doing in your personal life?
Is there something you know, like for me,I play music, I play guitar, I love it,
you know, is there something that thatkind of you take that you can take your
mind off of and do to relax?
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So right now, I work out like six days aweek.
I like weightlifting a lot.
I also, before I did sex work, I worked atmusic festivals.
So yes, I used to work for a clothingbrand.
I still work for the clothing brand.
And I used to travel to 25, 30 festivals ayear.
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And I would sell clothes at musicfestivals.
So that was my life for a long time.
Bye.
it's still part of my life, but as I'vegotten older and partying is, I don't know
if you know what it's like to be hungoverin your thirties, but it's terrible.
And then working 12 hours at a musicfestival with very high and drunk people.
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So anyways, I love going dancing.
I also travel a lot.
I recently got a cat.
So there.
nice.
know, the past six months, my life haschanged a lot and I've definitely slowed
down a lot.
So I'm just right now what's taking mymind off things is focusing on my health
and my body.
I want to be stronger.
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I want to have more endurance, especiallyfor titty fucking, cause my back be
hurting.
I'm like, this is why I started liftingweights and like working out five to six
days a week.
So I was like, I need to be able to ridedick and titty fuck like my back hurts.
Like,
And like I was just in Europe for threeweeks.
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And so that was amazing.
So traveling is another thing I like to dowith some of the free time I have.
I just started gardening.
So my lemon cucumbers are popping, but mytomatoes are not.
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great.
That's great.
You know, life for us recently, we wentfrom living in an apartment in downtown
Austin, which was wild.
to now we have goats and chickens andwe've got dogs.
And so like we dove head first into thisspace.
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But one thing that's really important tous is, living the most natural life that
we can and eating well.
And so, that's one thing that's beenreally fun for us.
We've not, I have not dove into thegardening yet.
I'm a little intimidated by it.
I need to just dive into it.
I was saying that the other day, but.
Right now we've just got the goats that welove.
We love milking the goats and
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I love that a lot.
It's so it is so amazing.
It really is.
It surprised me how much like when we gotthe milk.
So we have we have a mama milk goat andthen she had triplets but one of them was
a little buckling a boy and then the othertwo are girls but they're not old enough
yet.
So but the mama she's still milking and wehad bought her from somebody.
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I found her on like Facebook.
Somewhere in East Texas somewhere and sothey brought the goats down.
And we had never milked goats.
We had never done anything like that.
We didn't have like a stand so we had tobuild one.
And when we started doing that, it waslike, man, there was like such a
connection to like, almost like aspiritual connection in a sense of like,
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not like, my God, I'm going to heaven oranything like that.
But it's like, man, like this is the way Ithink we're kind of supposed to be, you
know, connected with earth type thing, youknow, and they're providing for us.
And then in turn, we take care of theseanimals very well and they love us.
And it.
And it's a symbiotic relationship, youknow, that everybody benefits.
Plus the milk's fucking amazing.
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my dream eventually is I'd like to havesome sort of small piece of land or
something.
I live in California, it is very expensivehere.
So I don't know if it's gonna happen here,but I've always wanted to have a little
farm and chickens and things.
So I love that for you guys.
That's like, it's like the best part ofthe morning when you go to let, we have a
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cage that's for our, a big pen that's forour bigger chickens, which I think we
probably have like, we have 17 of them.
Cause we count them every evening to makesure nothing gets up.
And then we have nine baby chicks that weactually bought as babies and have raised
up a little bit.
And so when you open their gates in themorning and they just flood out into the
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yard.
It's like it is literally the best thingin the world.
And when we get eggs, we're like, thankyou chickens.
Thank you so much.
So it is really great.
We went from getting like 12 to 14 eggs aday to now like two to four, because the
chickens are laying, you know, not intheir lay boxes.
And who knows, you just let them run free.
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Yeah, and people probably think I'm realsexy out there, but I'm in like boots,
I've got sweatpants, I'm searching for anest of eggs somewhere.
It is, it's crazy.
Tang, so what, the, the music, youmentioned music festivals, like what, were
they a specific type like EDM or countryor rock, or was it just kind of
everything?
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Or did you?
EDM festivals and some festivals that haveEDM and jam bands and mainstream bands.
Like we've done Bonnaroo, Electric Forest,EDC Vegas.
I actually did a show in Austin a coupleof years ago.
I can't remember what it was called.
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Illfest.
and then yeah, a lot of EDM.
They're like,
three to six day festivals, like how longwe're there.
So yeah, that was my life.
And before that I worked at a veterinaryhospital.
So I've had many jobs.
I bet people would love if you put yourvet outfit on and start.
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I bet that is such like a niche thing.
People are all going to their vets nextappointment thinking of shoes.
Music festivals were wonderful and I missmy community so much like that that's
where all my friends are and it's Now thatI'm mostly home all the time now unless
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I'm going to collab I spend a lot of timealone and
you know, that's another part of sex workthat some people might not realize is that
we, if we're single, like we do spend alot of time alone.
Like if we're not collabing, like, and, orI might go on dates, but you know, but
anyways, so I'm going to a festival nextweek, actually electric forest.
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I'm going to be working from Wednesday toMonday at the festival and I'll get to see
all my friends.
I haven't seen in like almost a year.
That's awesome.
So it's, I'm excited and nervous and, butI'm feeling real sexy.
I lost 15 pounds.
My titties are popping.
I'm tan as fuck.
I'm ready to go.
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They're taking up the entire screen.
awesome though.
That's really awesome.
What made you like I know that you said,you know, obviously holding up the titties
you got to work out but like was there aone thing for me specifically before I did
a lot of the sex work my community was youknow,
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my fitness, it is something that I haddone since I was 18.
It's something that's very important tome.
My parents went through a really uglydivorce.
And so being at the gym and like workingout for me was something that like meant a
lot to me.
And I built my friends there in mycommunity there.
And that is something that I miss a wholelot now.
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I miss my my group of friends, mycommunity, people that just want to like
lift and get it with you and.
Yeah.
about growth and I'm grateful that allthese platforms, X, Reddit, OnlyFans,
yada, yada, yada, they've all given me aawesome platform to be able to put the
information that I know out there, so I'mgrateful.
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But I do miss that.
Was there something that made you get intoworking out other than that stuff?
Was there a friend that maybe motivatedyou or a place that maybe caught your eye
that you were like, damn, I wanna work outthere?
I mean, I've been like working out andwith personal trainers since I was like
14, but this is like the most consistentI've ever worked out.
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it was simply just the drive to change mylife because I was in a not great place in
November and I was like, I have to change.
I gained weight.
I wasn't feeling good.
Like I was just like, I, I need, I justwant to feel better and I want to be
strong.
Like I want to look good.
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I want my thighs not to rub together.
You know, and as I'm getting older, like Ihave back problems, I got knee problems, I
got hip problems, neck stuff, shoulderstuff.
So like, I just want my body to be thebest it can.
And I'm so grateful I have the time.
Like having an OnlyFans and that being myjob working from home, I have the time to
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work on my body.
And that's something I'm forever gratefulfor because not everyone.
can do that.
They can't make the time to care aboutthemselves.
So I have to be super grateful that I cando this.
And I post like my little journeys onInstagram and people like, I'll see some
of my friends in person, they're like,Christine, you're such a good motivation.
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Like you're at the gym every day.
I'm like, yes, I am.
Yes, I am.
That's really awesome.
And you mentioned the mental health, youknow, and the, the, you talk about last
November, apparently that was a tough timefor you.
And it's, it's important to know everybodylistening, you know, everybody goes
through tough times.
It does not matter who you are.
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Right.
And oftentimes it's, it's a struggle topull yourself back up out of wherever that
is and get back on track.
But, but I know from personal experiencethat one of the best
ways to do that is through physicalactivity.
Have you noticed an improvement in yourmental health as you become more
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consistent with your working out?
Yes, I and some other factors, but yes,the working out has definitely helped and
it is a goal for me now.
And like, it makes me realize I can doanything.
Like, so I, it has improved getting thecat also helped too.
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And reducing like the amount of partying Ido.
And, you know, like I said, I had to makea major shift in the working out was like,
is the main catalyst.
Like if I drink and go to the gym the nextday, my trainer's like, were you drinking
last night?
Because your breathing is different.
I'm like, she knows, she knows.
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And then she's yelling at me when I'mcrying.
She's like, you want a fat ass?
You better stop complaining.
So yeah.
What type of training have you been doinglike weight training?
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Is that you?
do weight training.
So I lift weights at least.
I don't know.
I'll do a little bit of cardio and I liftweights for like an hour.
mostly working on my glutes right now andmy chest.
but yeah, I've seen since I startedworking out very consistently with a
trainer and a plan since February, I lostthe 15 pounds.
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My, my thighs are smaller, my arms arethinner and like more toned and like my
legs are just.
Amazing.
So it's.
that I think a lot of people like they'relike, if I lift weights, I'm going to look
like a dude.
And I'm like, that is so far from thetruth.
Like you, it does something to you thatjust makes you feel so powerful and so
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strong, like just so incredible.
It's been amazing for me.
Like I've just seeing myself be able tolift heavier and heavier.
And that is also spiritual experience forme when I'm in that gym and I'm lifting
with my music in my ears and I'm standing,there's a bunch of men standing around me.
I'm like, I don't care.
(57:15):
I'm lifting these 15 pound weights.
I don't care.
Like.
No, it's awesome.
It's something that, you know, is there.
I always notice a shift in my, like mymood and my daily everything.
I'm less motivated and I'll always telllike, I'm like, okay, I got to get my shit
together and start being more consistentand go to the gym because it is the only
(57:39):
thing.
It's just something that I'm very thankfulat a younger age.
I realized how important lifting was.
and, and you know, it's different forevery,
but like lifting for me was so importantbecause I had just always been so, I was a
runner.
So I was always so tiny and like so, youknow, always had these injuries and like
(57:59):
lifting was something that made me feellike a badass.
And like, and then like you're saying, youjust put some music, jam some music in
your ear and then every week you'relifting heavier and heavier and you're
like.
I am literally a super person.
I don't even know what's going on, but itmakes you feel super human.
So if that's one thing that I coulddefinitely push to anyone listening, like
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if you are struggling somewhere in yourlife, like go lift some weights.
Now don't go crazy and hurt yourself, butlike get a routine, get a plan and go lift
some weights, progressive overloading.
So just focus each week on getting heavierat those things if that's your goal.
And man, it's just, to me, it was alifesaver to me.
(58:42):
It is definitely something that changedthe trajectory of my life.
I definitely think with my upbringing andwith things like that, it would have been
very easy for me to just dive into alcoholand drugs and get lost in that stuff.
And fitness and lifting put me on thatdifferent path.
And I'm very grateful for that.
(59:03):
Yeah, it's wonderful.
Yeah, you're an entirely different personwhen you do and don't.
When she's not in or out of the gymroutine.
It's like it's like it's like it becauseshe goes early in the morning, you know,
she'll go like 5am or something.
And so it like sets the tone for the dayfor her, you know, and it's like I'm not
like pointing blame.
(59:24):
I'm a shithead all day.
So it's like whether I do what I just sayin your case is like you're working out.
It's like everything is it's you're justfucking rolling.
It really does something to my like, myhead space too.
I feel like it'll be easier for me to getfrustrated if I'm not in the gym.
It's harder for me to work things out andto like plan out and you know, I'm a huge
(59:49):
procrastinator.
So lifting early gets my ass going.
And so it makes me not be aprocrastinator.
And so it's definitely something that notjust physically because I like the way it
makes me look.
I like.
everyone on Reddit, it's so funny when I'mnot lifting, I lose so much weight because
what's on me is muscle.
And when I don't have that, I just don'thold on to anything.
(01:00:10):
It's not cause I'm not like I'm trying to,I don't try to.
It's just people, people talk, you know,like the comments, you know, like skinny
bitch or something like that.
Like eat a cheeseburger.
I'm like, first off, if y 'all saw what Iate during the day, there's literally
Oreos next to my butt.
Thank you.
But, but it, it's seriously,
I will see a shift in everything and thenpeople notice it and it's so funny.
(01:00:34):
It's like, I'll try to be like, you guys,it's cause I'm not lifting.
That's why you're not seeing that.
It's cause I'm not lifting, but it doeseverything to me physically and mentally.
It definitely helps me mentally for surethough.
love it so much.
Yeah.
Thanks.
So before you get out of here, what'swhat's what's what is your only fans?
(01:00:54):
What's your Reddit?
@sheisatang, right?
Yeah, that's my name on all of myplatforms, Reddit, Twitter, OnlyFans.
I was like, what am I saying?
Reddit, Twitter, OnlyFans, Fansly,ManyVids, and then my Instagram is chris
(01:01:16):
.tang27.
But yeah, she is a Tang, that's me.
is a ting.
T -A -N -G.
And she takes fantastic facials all thetime.
She is a facial queen.
(01:01:40):
my god.
Someone came to my house at 930 thismorning to shoot with me.
15 minutes out the door.
Tomorrow someone's coming to fuck me, giveme a facial and then fuck me again with
the facial and camera.
So.
so awesome.
That's so cool that we get to just likecreate the life that we want and do
(01:02:00):
whatever we want.
I think that's such an empowering thing.
And I think it's important to recognizetoo that that everybody's different,
right?
Like just because we do this just becausewe're comfortable doing this doesn't mean
that it's something that everybody shouldbe doing.
And we're not suggesting everybody do itright?
Like we're not like, you're a fuckingprude.
You should be taking facials and post themon.
(01:02:20):
No, it's like, just live your life andwe'll live our life.
Exactly.
I'll live my cum loving life over here.
I'm just fine.
Yes.
Yes.
Well, Tang, thank you so much for joiningus for an episode of the Painting Next
Podcast.
We had a blast.
(01:02:41):
And remember, you guys can look her up onanything.
@sheisatang.
I'm sure if you Google it, all your stuffpops up as well.
So you can find her anywhere.
And if not, definitely reach out to us,and we will help guide you that way.
And we will put it in the show notes aswell.
So she is a Tang.
Awesome.
Well, thank you.
and we will see you guys for anotherepisode very soon.
(01:03:03):
Thank you, Tang.
Thanks for coming on the show.
We appreciate it.
Bye.
Bye.
See ya.
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