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November 21, 2023 46 mins

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club, we delve into the profound insights of Matthew Phifer, a therapist, speaker, and trainer, specializing in navigating toxic relationships, narcissism, trauma, and emotional abuse. Tera and Matthew focus on the challenging terrain of co-parenting with a toxic ex, stabilizing both yourself and your children after divorce, and healing following a relationship with a narcissist. Matthew shares invaluable tips on establishing boundaries and cultivating a healthier post-divorce life, especially when dealing with an abusive ex-partner. His expertise sheds light on crucial aspects of post-divorce recovery, offering listeners practical guidance and a deeper understanding of the complexities involved. Tune in for a wealth of wisdom and actionable advice from Matthew Phifer on creating a more stable and empowered life after divorce.

Content warning before you listen: Matthew and Tera discuss emotional abuse and living with narcissistic partners. If this content is triggering for you, skip this episode. If you decide to listen, please have a plan for getting the support you need following the episode.

Music in this episode is from Bungalow Heaven. You can find more music from Bungalow Heaven and singer/songwriter Gretchen DeVault at gretchendevault.com.

Matthew Phifer, MSEd

Matthew Phifer, MSEd, is a therapist, speaker, trainer, and toxic relationship, narcissism, trauma and emotional abuse expert. He is the founder and owner of Matt Phifer Coaching. His trainings, which feature original work, has been presented in multiple states and countries and he is regularly featured on the radio, publications, and online. Matthew’s videos attract millions of viewers and his podcast “The Matt Phifer Experience” has been heard in over 100 different countries and is featured on Spotify, Apple Podcast, and Iheart Radio. Matthew has two children (Isaiah and Gabby). He resides in Dallas, Texas after spending nearly 20 years in New York and Washington D.C.

You can find Matthew on TikTok @mattphifercoaching on Instagram @matthewlphifer and on his podcast The Matthew Phifer Experience.

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