Miriam Moriarty Owens, Author of Shh Don’t Tell: A True Story of Survival

In this deeply moving episode of Radiate Realness, host Geraldine McGrath welcomes Miriam Moriarty Owens, a survivor of Ireland’s industrial school system. Miriam bravely shares her harrowing journey, from enduring years of institutional abuse to reclaiming her voice and identity.

Born in 1957, Miriam was placed in Nazareth House in Tralee, where she spent nearly 12 years experiencing the harsh realities of an industrial school. Stripped of her name and reduced to a number, she grew up in an environment devoid of love and care. At 14 years old, she left the institution and began working in Denny’s Bacon Factory. A new chapter unfolded when she moved to London in 1979, where she found kindness, met her husband, and built a family.

Throughout her life, Miriam has faced immense hardship, domestic abuse, the impact of intergenerational trauma, and the battle for justice and acknowledgment. But her story is not just one of pain; it is one of resilience, transformation, and purpose. From becoming a grandmother and going back to college to writing her autobiography and producing a film on domestic violence, Miriam has turned her pain into power.

Her mission is clear: to ensure survivors’ voices are heard, their stories are honored, and the past is not forgotten. She continues to advocate for those who have suffered in silence, proving that healing and hope are possible.

Key Takeaways from This Episode

• Surviving the Industrial School System
• Miriam spent almost 13 years in the industrial school system.
• Abuse was rampant, and children were stripped of their identities.
• She was given a number instead of a name, symbolizing the loss of self.
• The Irish government’s apology in 1999 felt hollow and insincere.
• The long-term impact of childhood trauma extends into every aspect of life.
• Finding Strength Through Life’s Challenges
• Motherhood was a turning point for Miriam, she finally felt like somebody.
• Her marriage provided initial stability, but struggles with alcoholism created challenges.
• A life-changing call from her sister led her to leave her marriage and seek safety.
• Miriam’s return to Ireland was met with unexpected support and new opportunities.
• She found healing in storytelling, community, and advocacy.
• The Power of Healing & Advocacy
• Healing begins with acknowledging the past and breaking the silence.
• Intergenerational trauma affects not only survivors but their families.
• Memorials and storytelling are crucial in honoring victims and ensuring history remembers them.
• Survivors deserve justice, acknowledgment, and a place in history books.
• Healing is a collective effort, requiring community support, connection, and self-love.
• Final Thoughts from Miriam Moriarty Owens

 

“No child should ever feel invisible. We were not just numbers, we were children with dreams, pain, and hope. Speaking out is not just about my story; it’s about ensuring no one else has to endure what we did.”

 

 

 

 

Connect with Miriam Moriarty Owens

Book: Shh Don’t Tell: A True Story of Survival

 

Social Media:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miriamowens

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