Menopause, Mental Health & the Magic of Connection - Lever 4

Feeling disconnected, lonely, or like nobody really gets what you’re going through?

You’re not imagining it - midlife and menopause can quietly shrink your world. Between work pressures, family demands, and hormonal changes that impact confidence and mood, it’s easy to drift into isolation.

It might be that you are busy, just struggling with the juggle of midlife, especially if the "sandwich generation" perfectly describes your world but in this episode of our mini series for Menopause Awareness Month, we explore why connection is one of the most powerful mood-boosters and protectors of mental health during menopause.

In the first episode we talked about how declining oestrogen affects neurotransmitters which will have a knock-on effect on how you are feeling, whether your mood, your motivation or even your self-esteem, and how it can be easy to withdraw and feel like you are going through this weird phase on your own - but here we will talk about the fact that your brain literally needs other people for balance, and how small, real-life interactions can rebuild your sense of belonging and joy.

Human connection is as important for our wellbeing as food, fresh air and hydration but this isn’t about joining a club you don’t have time for or pretending everything’s fine, it is not about adding further to the fatigue and stress by filling every remaining gap in your day with social events - it is about understanding the science of social connection, oxytocin, and nervous-system regulation, and finding ways to reconnect that actually fit your real life, and that add quality rather than quantity when time is already pressing.

If you’ve been feeling flat, anxious, or invisible, this episode will help - please remember that you were never meant to do this alone and there are lots of ways we can connect and have that sense of community, even without leaving home! Check out the https://actuallyshecan.co.uk website for details of my programmes and online coaching groups - having us in your corner can really help.