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August 7, 2025 56 mins

Most people don't get what they want because they are too attached to how they think it should happen.

Letting go of the "how" doesn't mean giving up. What it does mean is finally getting out of your own way.

In this episode, Alana talks with Susi Kos, entrepreneur and author of Super SynchronicityIn their discussion, Susi talks about how she turned self-doubt, rock-bottom moments, and "crazy" dreams into real success by learning to tune out the noise and trust herself. They get into how she built a 6-figure jewlery business with zero experience, "luck" twists that tossed the plan out the window but led to better results, and what it really takes to feel aligned and in sync with your next steps.

This episode is for anyone who's tired of overthinking, overexplaining, and still not seeing the results you're wanting.

If you're someone who has a big vision but feels stuck, tired, or unsure of what to do next, this conversation is full of insights and experiences that will speak to you.

Tune in to hear what Susi shares regarding the mindset and energy shifts that helped her go from overwhelmed and desperate to clear, confident, and living the life of her dreams.

IN THIS EPISODE:

  • The real reason letting go of "how" opens the door to opportunity
  • How to tell the difference between intuition and fear
  • Why trusting yourself helps you make decisions faster (and better)
  • What synchronicity is and how to become more open to it
  • How to spot the patterns of self-sabotage hiding in your routines
  • A simple mental exercise to break free from overplanning and overthinking
  • Susi's exact process for shifting her energy and attracting aligned results
  • How she manifested a six-figure business and her ideal partner
  • Why your mindset, not your circumstances, is usually the problem
  • How to create your own personal frequency formula to reset and refocus daily

A FEW GOLDEN NUGGETS:

  • It's not about your past or what others think, it's about your own inner reality.
  • Trusting yourself means making a decision, even when it doesn't make sense to anyone else
  • The how is never your job. Your job is the feeling, the frequency, and the belief.
  • You don't have to rewire every old belief. You just have to overwrite the ones holding you back.
  • Your future self already knows. Tune into that version of you and trust what it says.

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