Savage Lovecast
Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.
Episodes
January 16, 2026 • 17 mins
A cautionary tale from Jennie who went to the sex club with an open mind and ended up with bruises on…well you’ll have to listen to find out what went wrong.
We want to hear your story! The good, the bad, the ecstatic and the unpleasant.
Write about your weird time, and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report. We’re listening.
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January 15, 2026 • 65 mins
Welcome to the first ever Sex and...Television!
For those of you who are obsessed with the Canadian homo hockey romance Heated Rivalry, here's a convo for you. Dan and sex therapist Claire Perelman dish, discuss and swoon over the super-horny show.
Enjoy!
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January 13, 2026 • 59 mins
Happy New Year, and a very happy Feast of the Ass to you and yours.
In honor of the holiday, our first caller asks if he should keep a cup of mouthwash handy for when he moves from ass-eating to pussy-eating.
A man wants strategies on how to talk his sister out of circumcising her newborn son.
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Ellen Huet, a plucky, investigative journalist who uncovered an exploitative sex cult that revolves arou...
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January 13, 2026 • 14 mins
Christine and her husband went to a kinky viking party (as one does,) and had a very HOT time.
"How attached are you to these nipple hairs?"
If you have an amazing or appalling story to share, DO NOT KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.
Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report. Maybe we'll get back to you!
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January 6, 2026 • 58 mins
It's the 1000th episode of the Savage Lovecast. We started in 2006, when George W. Bush was President. And look at us now!
We packed this show with as many quick questions as we could. (One minute or less.) And Dan answered as quickly as he could. And! We invited long time friends of the show to pop on and answer some questions as well: Ezra Klein, Esther Perel, Mistress Matisse, Mike Pesca, Therapy Jeff, Doc Barak, Joan Price,...
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December 27, 2025 • 14 mins
Her needs were simple. She wanted to wear a trench coat with nothing underneath and to pretend to be a high-end escort for her boyfriend.
He gladly obliged and their session was full of surprises....
If you have a dirty little story you would like to share of your first time doing something unspeakably hot, writer it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with subject line: After Action Report. Fill our inbox.
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December 23, 2025 • 55 mins
"Who will buy my smelly panties?" A woman realizes that it would be a waste to just wash them.
A married man in an open relationship wishes his wife would be as affectionate as his lovers.
On the Magnum, it's everybody's favorite guy who knows things about sports...Mike Pesca! (Host and creator of The Gist, the longest running daily news and analysis podcast, and the author of Upon Further Review: The Greatest What-Ifs In Sport...
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December 19, 2025 • 16 mins
The scene: it's a secret threeway, upstairs at the party. 2 men, one woman, 2 minutes, one orgasm.
To hear more salacious deets, tune in.
We've heard of speed dating...but this is a whole other level.
Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: Q@Savage.Love
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December 18, 2025 • 53 mins
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A recent widow grapples with a surge in her libido.
A gay man has been a top for all of his sexual life. Now that's he's a dating a man who wants to top him every now and again, can he learn to like it?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Kelly Foster Lundquist, Author of "Beard." 20 years after her divorce from her closeted gay husband, Lu...
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December 16, 2025 • 55 mins
A married woman and her husband agreed to open the marriage up, with clear rules and boundaries. Guess what! He flagrantly broke the rules. Now, she is considering sleeping with someone else as a form of revenge. Too toxic?
A divorced woman is still very good friends with her husband. She's so close with him, that her boyfriends break up with her over it. Are they just jealous or is she part of the problem?
On the Magnum, it's a...
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December 15, 2025 • 21 mins
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It was her first time pegging a man, though she'd dreamed of it for years.
Dream fulfilled. How did it go? What did he wear? Who brought the gear?
All of your (and Dan's) nosey questions are answered.
Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: Q@Savage.Love
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December 5, 2025 • 15 mins
Hear the harrowing tale of the masochist lad who walked into the dungeon and ended up getting flogged...a lot.
Did he like it? Would he do it again? Listen and find out.
Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: Q@Savage.Love
Do you have a comment for this show? Record it and send it in to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064
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December 2, 2025 • 55 mins
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Listen in on Dan's conversation with a woman who learned that her husband had an affair early in their relationship. It turns out she's been chatting with the other woman for a year without knowing it was her! She lives up the street! Dan advises her on whether to broach the subject with her husband's ex-lov...
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November 28, 2025 • 14 mins
Meet Chrissy, a bisexual woman and self-identified pervert, who went to a sex club for the first time. What happened there? Well, let's just say you may feel...shocked.
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November 25, 2025 • 63 mins
We know you're struggling. So we brought in the most soothing human on the planet-Therapy Jeff- to offer tips on how to get through Thanksgiving with your nasty family. In short, don't take the bait, find your family buddy, and if you are alone on the holiday, get yourself to a gay bar.
Also, a woman who considers herself bad in bed wonders how she can find a "sex teacher."
And, a woman wonders if she has her sub drink her ...
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November 21, 2025 • 10 mins
On this weeks After Action Report, Dan spoke with Milo, a trans man who tried nipple torture after getting top surgery. This is a joyful tale of sexual recovery. We hope you enjoy it.
We would very much like to hear about YOUR freaky funtimes. Write about your new sexual experience and send it to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line "After Action Report." We'll get in touch!
Do you like this? Yeah you do. There's more of this...
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November 18, 2025 • 49 mins
She dated her neighbor for a while, until it became clear that she couldn’t enjoy sex with him because his giant, massive, gargantuan penis was too big for her. Now that she is starting to date other men, should she tell them the history of her friendly neighbor 5 doors down?
A woman has enjoyed friends-with-benefits relationship with a man where all they do is cuddle and have sex. No outings with friends. No movies. No hikes. Now...
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November 14, 2025 • 18 mins
For this After Action Report, Dan chats with Ember, a life-long sneeze fetishist. She gets turned on when her lovers sneeze, and thus, stocks up on imported sneezing powder. And although she prefers being a sneezing dom, she also delved into submission and share the details.
Hear about her journey.
We would very much like to hear about YOUR journey. Write about your new sexual experience and send it to Q@Savage.Love with th...
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November 11, 2025 • 61 mins
A mother's challenge: her 12 year-old son's lesbian friend (who isn't out to her parents,) said that she was into gooning. Right in front of her! The mom wants to be an ally, but also would like them to back off on the oversharing.
Sometimes on a sex advice podcast, you have to call a veterinarian. A man's new girlfriend, (a professed "animal lover,") lets the cat hump her leg to completion. He thinks this is kind of gross. Dan b...
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November 7, 2025 • 11 mins
After Action Report #3
Squirting Kira
This week, meet a woman who finally, after YEARS of persistence, has learned how to squirt.
Practice makes perfect, and now she has mastered the messy art. Hear all about how she got there, what she plans for her squirting future, and "Is female ejaculate actually pee?" Kira ends the controversy definitively.
Have you gotten out of (or into) your comfort zone? Write us at Q@Savage.Love ...
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