Saying Yes Again: Helping midlife singles and couples rewrite their love story.

In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Tony reflect on the journey of the podcast throughout 2025, expressing gratitude for the growth and community engagement. The conversation explores key themes such as healing from emotional baggage, defining non-negotiables in relationships, and the importance of flexibility in love. They celebrate the impact of their podcast on listeners and emphasize the need to spread hope and redefine love as they ...

In this conversation, Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony discuss the myth that women must choose between a successful career and a fulfilling love life. They explore societal expectations, the double standards faced by women, and the real conflict of energy and availability in relationships. The discussion highlights the importance of making intentional choices, cultivating emotional maturity, and forming supportive partnerships in achievin...

In this episode of 'Saying Yes Again,' Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the challenges faced by strong women in love and relationships. They discuss the concept of the 'soft life' as a counter to hustle culture, emphasizing the importance of emotional ease, vulnerability, and choosing peace. The conversation delves into practical steps for embracing a softer life, the significance of connection in modern dating, and the upcoming event aim...

In this episode of Saying Yes Again, we explore the challenges high-achieving women face in the dating world, discussing loneliness, emotional safety, and the invisible load they carry. We delve deep into the identity conflicts that arise when transitioning from professional success to personal relationships, emphasizing the need for vulnerability and communication. Also, highlighting the importance of building supportive partnersh...

In episode 18 of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony record their first uncut, unscripted conversation about dating and relationships in midlife. They discuss the challenges of a small dating pool for women, ways people meet potential partners, and the importance of honesty about intentions. Sharing their own journey from divorce to love, they emphasize the importance of healing, growth, and staying open to second chances.

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In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony, a midlife couple who found love after divorce, share five practical tips for dating on a budget during tough economic times. They discuss enjoying nature, cooking together at home, attending free or low-cost events, hosting game nights, and planning dream dates for the future. The episode is filled with personal stories, humor, and creative ideas for affordable, meaningful c...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and her partner Tony discuss the unique challenges professional women face in dating and relationships. They debunk myths about financial expectations, emphasizing the importance of emotional support, authenticity, and understanding each other's need for space. The conversation highlights how career-driven women can balance independence with vulnerability, set healthy boundaries, and ...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," hosts Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the challenges and rewards of dating professional, powerful women. They explore why some men feel intimidated by women in leadership roles, examining issues such as ego, power dynamics, and societal expectations. Drawing from their own relationship, they emphasize the importance of support, communication, flexibility, and mutual respect. The conversation encoura...

💡 Falling in love is easy. Staying in love — that's the daily choice that makes relationships thrive.

In this episode of Saying Yes Again, Dr. Lisa and Tony dive into what it really means to "say yes again" — not just once at the altar, but every single day. With warmth, humor, and honesty, ...

After divorce, grief, or major life upheaval, it's easy to believe your heart is too broken to ever love again. But what if those very cracks are what prepare you for a deeper, more meaningful love?

In this episode of Saying Yes Again, Dr. Lisa and Tony explore how heartbreak doesn't have to be the end of your love story. They ...

By midlife, women know exactly what they want — and what they don't. After raising kids, building careers, and learning hard lessons, women are entering relationships with more clarity, empowerment, and confidence than ever before.

In this episode, Dr. Lisa shares the five traits she wanted in Tony — and what she believes most...

What do men really want from women once they hit midlife? The answers may surprise you. Spoiler: it's not about looks or grand gestures — it's about peace, safety, and partnership.

In this episode, Tony opens up about the five traits he craved after divorce, and Dr. Lisa breaks down why these traits create healthy, lasting rela...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony, a midlife couple who found love after divorce, discuss how prioritizing health and vitality strengthens relationships, especially in midlife. They share personal routines—like walking, exercising, and making healthy smoothies—and highlight the importance of regular checkups, nutrition, sleep, and mental wellness. The conversation also covers navigating menopause, supporting ...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore body confidence after 50, discussing the challenges of aging, societal pressures, and redefining what it means to feel sexy. They share personal stories, practical tips like dancing and dressing for your current body, and encourage listeners to celebrate both physical and non-physical qualities. With warmth and humor, they invite their audience to embrace self-love an...

In this episode of the "Saying Yes Again" podcast, hosts Dr. Lisa and Toni, a midlife couple who found love after divorce, tackle the negative self-talk that often follows heartbreak. Through rapid-fire reframes, they challenge beliefs like "I'm too old," "I have too much baggage," and "There are no good men left," encouraging listeners to adopt empowering perspectives. Sharing personal stories and practical advice, they emphasize ...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony share their journey as a midlife couple who found love after divorce by dating outside their comfort zones. They discuss overcoming differences in background, profession, and culture, emphasizing the importance of shared values like spirituality and family. Using personal stories and celebrity examples, they encourage listeners to be open-minded and flexible in dating, highli...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony delve into the challenges of vulnerability when dating after 50, particularly following heartbreak or divorce. They share personal stories and practical advice on overcoming fear, recognizing red and green flags, and building trust through small steps. Drawing on Dr. Lisa's background, they discuss the science behind emotional openness and offer guidance on creating safe spac...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the guilt many feel when finding happiness after divorce. Challenging societal expectations that equate visible suffering with caring, they encourage listeners to embrace joy without apology. Drawing on personal experiences and public figures like Cardi B and Teyana Taylor, the hosts discuss setting boundaries, celebrating small wins, and reframing happiness as a sign...

In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the concept of non-negotiables in relationships, emphasizing their importance in dating and partnerships. They explore personal criteria for finding the right partner, share their own non-negotiables, and highlight the significance of flexibility in relationships. The conversation aims to provide insights and advice for listeners navigating their own dating journeys.