Saying Yes Again: Helping midlife singles and couples rewrite their love story.
Finding love after 50 isn't just possible—it can be the most exciting chapter of your life. Hosted by Dr. Lisa and her husband Tony, Saying Yes Again shares real conversations, personal stories, and practical advice for navigating dating, relationships, and self-discovery after divorce. From rebuilding confidence and embracing vulnerability to trying dating apps for the first time and blending families, we explore what it means to love—and live—fearlessly in midlife. Whether you're reentering the dating world, searching for companionship, or redefining what you want from love, this show gives you the insight, encouragement, and inspiration you need. Get ready for heartfelt discussions, expert tips, and a few laughs along the way. Because saying "yes" again isn't just about finding the right partner—it's about saying yes to yourself, your joy, and your second chance at love.
Episodes
In this conversation, Lisa and Tony explore the concept of necessary endings, inspired by Dr. Henry Cloud's book, "Necessary Endings." They delve into the importance of recognizing when to let go of old habits, relationships, and mindsets to foster personal growth and create a more fulfilling future. They share personal stories of their own experiences with endings, including relationships, careers, and identities, emphasizing...
In this episode, Dr. Nicole Rochester shares her transformational journey through divorce, healing, and rediscovering herself. She offers powerful insights on recognizing red flags, trusting intuition, and embracing second chances in love.
Dr. Nicole Rochester is a mom, pediatrician, business owner, TEDx speaker, and the host of the Your nEXt Chapter Podcast. She ended a 28-year marriage and had to navigate heartbreak, betrayal, gr...
Join us as Constance and William Del Toro share their incredible love story, which blossomed from a chance meeting at the airport into a thriving marriage. Discover how faith, timing, and boldness can create a fairy tale in midlife.
Takeaways
Be open to love at any age and trust divine timing
Honest communication and setting clear intentions are key
Self-healing and shadow work prepare you for love
Support and part...
This episode dives deep into the reality of starting over in love after divorce, highlighting how fear, trust, and self-awareness play pivotal roles in second chances at love. Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy share their personal journey, insights on overcoming inner obstacles, and practical advice on saying yes to love...
This episode explores how overanalyzing text messages can hinder dating, especially in midlife. Dr. Lisa and Tony share insights on overcoming fears, building trust, and embracing uncertainty to foster genuine connections.
Chapters
00:00 The Texting Dilemma in Dating
02:57 Understanding Assumptions and Reactions
05:45 The Impact of Communication Styles
08:54 Overanalyzing Text Messages
11:43 The Role of Uncerta...
In this insightful conversation, Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the complex relationship between independence, vulnerability, and emotional connection post-divorce. They discuss how societal norms and personal fears influence our ability to form meaningful relationships and offers guidance on balancing independence with emotional openness.
Takeaways
This episode explores the emotional challenges of dating after divorce, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, experience over performance, and reducing pressure to foster genuine connections. Dr. Lisa and Tony shares personal insights and practical advice for navigating modern dating with confidence and self-love.
Key topics
The impact of social media on relationship expectations
The importance of authenticity ...
Dr. Lisa and Tony Exploring the emotional barriers and defensive dating habits of singles over 40 post-divorce, and how fear and trust impact new relationships.
Takeaways
Fear of vulnerability often drives emotional detachment in dating.
Many singles over 40 wear armor to protect themselves from hurt.
Healing involves trusting oneself and learning to manage fear.
Defensive dating can prevent deep connections and true in...
This episode tackles the emotionally charged topic of prioritizing your spouse versus your children in blended families and remarriages. Hosted by Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony, it explores how to build a strong foundation, maintain healthy boundaries, and model love and respect for children and partners alike.
Action items:
Prioritize your marriage to build a stable family foundation
Create regular date nights to mainta...
In this episode, Tony and Dr. Lisa share their candid experiences and insights on blending lives later in life. They discuss the complexities of merging personalities, pasts, and family dynamics, offering practical advice and heartfelt stories for those navigating similar journeys.
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In this episode, Tony and Dr. Lisa explore why even the best, most consistent people often struggle to accept love. They uncover the emotional blocks that prevent many from opening their hearts and share practical insights to foster vulnerability and healing.
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Tony and Dr. Lisa explore why good, committed people often find themselves alone despite their qualities and morals. This episode dives into the complexities of compatibility, timing, and self-awareness in the pursuit of love.
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In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the often-overlooked struggles men face in midlife dating. They discuss how emotional wounds from divorce, financial setbacks, and societal expectations leave many good men feeling exhausted and cautious about new relationships. The hosts emphasize the importance of clear comm...
In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore why successful, emotionally intelligent singles over 40 often struggle to find each other. They discuss how established routines, protective attitudes toward personal peace, and past heartbreaks can make meeting new partners challenging. The hosts emphasize the importance of intentional socializing, mindset shifts, and openness to positive disruption. They also highli...
In this episode, attorney Laurie Thomas Williams shares vital insights on protecting your wealth and legacy no matter where you are in life but especially after rebuilding your life following divorce or a second marriage. Learn practical steps, common pitfalls, and how to plan intentionally for peace of mind and financial security.
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In this episode of the Saying Yes Again podcast, hosts Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony welcome April Nowlin, a certified relationship coach, speaker, and author. The conversation delves into April's personal journey through heartbreak and divorce, ...
This conversation explores the journey of finding love after 40, emphasizing that it's never too late to seek meaningful relationships. Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the mindset shifts necessary for those over 40, the historical context of relationships, and the advantages of maturity in dating. Key themes include emotional availability, the importance of knowing oneself, and the transition from chasing to choosing relationships. The d...
In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Tony reflect on the journey of the podcast throughout 2025, expressing gratitude for the growth and community engagement. The conversation explores key themes such as healing from emotional baggage, defining non-negotiables in relationships, and the importance of flexibility in love. They celebrate the impact of their podcast on listeners and emphasize the need to spread hope and redefine love as they ...
In this conversation, Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony discuss the myth that women must choose between a successful career and a fulfilling love life. They explore societal expectations, the double standards faced by women, and the real conflict of energy and availability in relationships. The discussion highlights the importance of making intentional choices, cultivating emotional maturity, and forming supportive partnerships in achievin...
In this episode of 'Saying Yes Again,' Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the challenges faced by strong women in love and relationships. They discuss the concept of the 'soft life' as a counter to hustle culture, emphasizing the importance of emotional ease, vulnerability, and choosing peace. The conversation delves into practical steps for embracing a softer life, the significance of connection in modern dating, and the upcoming event aim...
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