Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Four Christian marriage and sex bloggers chat about God's design for healthy and holy sexual intimacy in marriage..

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October 12, 2021

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1 Thessalonians 5 tells us to rejoice always, pray continually, and give thanks in all circumstances. Today we're going to talk about what this means in relation to sex. How can we pray about sex or during sex?

  • Some wives may think it seems a little weird to be thinking about prayer and sex. Why is that?
  • What does the Bible say about prayer and sex?
  • How can we help ourselves get more comfortable talking t...
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    We are down one host with Chris out today, but Gaye, Bonny, and I are here to answer your questions. If you have a question that you’d like us to address, head to our website, click the Ask a Question tab, and shoot us an email.

    While we cannot respond to all of your questions, we try to cover a lot of ground and answer what we can. Be sure to go back through our older episodes as well to see if we might have covered a topic you’re...

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    Today we’re going to give you a little update on what’s happening with us, talk about what might be happening with you, and then discuss what that might mean for your sex life and your marriage.

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    From the Bible

    What does the Bible say about when life is overwhelming?

    When I said, “My foot is slipping,”
      your unfailing love, Lord, supported me.
    When anxiety was great within me,
      your cons...

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    We are going to discuss practical ways to help you discover fun and playfulness between you and your husband. We talk a lot about being lighthearted during sexual intimacy, and today we want to spark your creativity.

  • What are some obstacles you can think of that would hinder playfulness in a married couple’s sexual relationship?
  • What would you say to a friend who sees playfulness as a challenge to incorporate...
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    Today’s episode has a tantalizing title, but what we’re really talking about are positions that work especially well for a wife, ones that don’t work, and positions might give you a better opportunity to orgasm.

  • Let’s revisit some basic concepts first and discuss why sexual positioning matters.
  • What are some of the more comfortable or pleasurable sex positions for the wife?
  • Now how about what Bonny has called ...
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    Today, we discuss a question that a reader submitted recently:

    How far is too far? How much do I compromise? I know I'm not perfect. I know I could have showed up more in the bedroom and have said as much. But I do try. It's hard as a woman, wife and now mother of 2. He says I don't listen and no one ever listens. So, he demands I do things I do not like. At times, it's not so bad. I can't handle it when he is a...

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    July 20, 2021

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    Today we’re talking about feeling comfortable in your body. This is a struggle for so many women, and it affects every area of our lives—inside and outside the bedroom.

  • So, ladies, when we say “getting comfortable with your body,” what does that mean? And why is it so hard to do?
  • What are some of ways that body discomfort shows up in women’s lives?
  • And, of course, feeling uncomfortable with your body tends to...
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    What do we do in our beds besides sex? Sleep, of course! Today we’re going to talk about the relationship between sex and sleep.
  • A recent study of over 3,400 women noted that those “who did not routinely get restful slumber were nearly twice as likely to report sexual problems, such as lack of desire or arousal.” While researchers don’t know which came first—poor sleep or sex problems—their study provides food for thought. How migh...
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    June 22, 2021

    Today we are exploring the term “sexual self.” Your sexual self is an unfolding aspect of who you are, woven into the fabric of your being.

  • What is identity and how would it relate to a sense of a wife’s sexual self? Or in other words, how does your sexual self fit into the whole of who you are as a woman?
  • What affects how comfortable you are with accessing this part of yourself?
  • How do we integrate biblical principles into our sexua...
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    June 8, 2021

    About this episode

    Today we’re going to talk about what prioritizing sex means, what it doesn’t mean, what gets in the way of it, and what it might look like in the lives and marriages of busy women.

  • What does it mean to prioritize sex? And is that the phrase you think we should use, or should it be something broader – like prioritize sex and intimacy? And why is it important? Or is it important?
  • On the flip side, what doesn’t ...
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    For many years, there were very few resources for Christians who wanted to learn how to have a healthy sex life. Now Christians can find more and more books, courses, and videos to help them. It's great to have choices, but sometimes it's hard to know whether or not a particular resource is good.

    Today we're joined by Phylicia Masonheimer. She encourages women to discern God's truth and live out their faith boldly i...

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    About this episode

    The marriage relationship overall can impact a wife’s sexual interest. Having a good marriage with intimacy in many areas can make it easier to want and enjoy sex. In this episode, we’re going to talk about things you can do in the area of nonsexual intimacy that can have a positive impact on your sex life.

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    April 27, 2021

    In this episode, we answer a few of your questions.

  • “What are other ways to relax and enjoy my husband guilt free?”
  • “I don't like feeling like it’s just sex.... Do I have a block? Was I wrong to be upset? How do I get myself [past] feeling like it's cold and not love?”
  • “I was hoping you could share some wisdom of what it's like moving in with your husband for the first time… what to expect…how to talk to one another about...
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    As mentioned in the episode, Chris Taylor of Honeycomb & Spice is doing a survey on chronic illness and sex. We'd appreciate you taking the survey, so that she can address this subject well.

    Click the link: https://tinyurl.com/chronic-survey

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    About the Episode

    How often should a married couple have sex? You might think this would be an easy question to answer, but we think it’s going to...

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    March 30, 2021

    titivate (v). – to make a person or thing neater or more attractive (Merriam-Webster).

    To titivate is to make small enhancing changes or to make oneself look attractive. For some women, titivation is a daily habit. For others of us, it takes intention to remember to do it now and then.

  • Let’s start by talking about why wives might titivate in the first place.
  • What are some reasons we might let titivation go?
  • How does titivation spill ...
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    There are a lot of resources about sex now, some great and some terrible. But often, resources have some important truths, some debatable points, and some myths. Today we want to talk about what really matters—the foundational points we want wives to know about sex.

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    From the Bible

    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness...

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    March 2, 2021

    Sex therapist and educator Joyce Penner joins us to talk about learning to enjoy sex more. Why do some women have a hard time seeing sexual intimacy as a gift? And what can these women do to pursue the enjoyment of sex with their husbands?

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    From the Bible

    What does God have to say that can help us better enjoy sex?

    Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be dec...

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    February 16, 2021

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    Today is our 100th Episode! On this special episode, we share what we do when we're not talking about sex, what ministry projects we're working on, and nearly half of a 100 sex tips list we ask our listeners help us complete.

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    From the Bible

    What does God have to say about our ministry (and yours)?

    Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Fathe...

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    February 2, 2021
    About this episode

    Today we’re talking about Valentine’s Day. It’s coming up soon, and women feel all kinds of different things about it. Some women love it, some hate it, and some feel kind of ambivalent about it. And it plays out differently in different marriages. So, we talk about it and come up with some ideas for making it fun and romantic for all kinds of couples and marriages.

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    With people staying home more than ever these days, monotony is overwhelming our lives. However, there is one area of your life than can certainly move from monotonous to mind-blowing with just a few simple changes.

    Yes, ladies and gentlemen, we are talking about boredom in the bedroom and what can be done to generate more passion in your experience.

  • What can lead to boredom in the bedroom?
  • What can a wife do to move toward more ene...
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