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April 29, 2025 22 mins

Ever feel like you get caught in an emotional whirlwind because of other people's actions or behaviors? Perhaps it left you feeling drained and frustrated as a result.

Instead of feeling victimized or trying to manipulate external forces, you can reclaim your power and ownership. With the “Let Them Theory,” a recent Mel Robbins book (inspired by Cassie Phillips’ poem and viral movement), let’s flip the script so you can take back control by shifting your focus inward.

In this episode of She Thinks Big, you’ll learn how to use the “Let Them” theory to shift into “Let Me” energy with actionable strategies that help you prioritize yourself and your well-being. I’ll teach you five ways you can apply this theory in your business–from navigating team dynamics and clients to dealing with setbacks and criticism.

4:43 - The foundation of the “Let Them Theory” and the piece that puts you in the driver’s seat

7:17 - How shifting to “Let Me” energy allows you to step into ownership 

9:08 - How this theory helps you lead your team without micromanaging

11:15 - How “Let Them” and “Let Me” can help you with client relationships

12:17 - How this theory can impact your management expectations and criticism response

14:34 - How you can apply “Let Them” and “Let Me” when handling setbacks and business challenges 

15:34 - How this theory allows you to prioritize yourself as a business owner

16:42 - What to do this week if you start spiraling over what someone else is doing

Mentioned In How to Use "Let Them Theory" to Reclaim Control as a Business Owner

Cassie Phillips

The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About by Mel Robbins

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She Thinks Big by Andrea Liebross

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