Great Leadership Can Be Learned with Johnathan and Melissa Nightingale

There’s good news for all you tech leaders who feel you got thrown into management without much preparation - leadership can be learned. My guests on this episode of SimpleLeadership are Johnathan and Melissa Nightingale, the founders of Raw Signal Group - a company with a simple promise, “We Build Better Bosses.” They are also best-selling authors of the book, “How F*cked Up Is Your Management?: An Uncomfortable Conversation About Modern Leadership.”

I can't think of two people better suited to talk to about the challenges of tech leadership. Prior to founding Raw Signal Group, Johnathan and Melissa were both tech execs who spent their careers running large parts of companies (product, engineering, data, design, marketing, PR, etc.). It’s honestly hard to find a role that one of them has not taken on. Through their work with Raw Signal Group, they've helped thousands of leaders understand their roles, build their skills, and be better bosses. Join us for this great conversation and learn how great leadership can be learned.

Outline of This Episode

• [1:50] The winding path that brought Johnathan and Melissa to their current roles
• [7:18] Leadership skills can be learned across disciplines
• [13:19] The point Johnathan and Melissa realized a gap existed in tech leadership
• [16:56] What are the mistakes that happen over and over in tech leadership?
• [24:35] The most important thing for new managers to focus on the first 90 days
• [36:00] Leadership is not about good intentions
• [40:40] How can managers contribute more to family planning and maternity leave issues?
• [43:15] How Raw Signal Group can build better bosses for tech companies

The same management leadership issues exist across disciplines and industries

There is a strange belief that exists among those who are in tech management roles - they think that leading engineers is somehow different than what other leaders within their organization deal with. It’s true that engineers can be a bit unique, but there is much more that can be learned from other leaders in different areas of your organization than you think. Even leaders in entirely different industries have something valuable to offer.

Johnathan and Melissa speak to the issue by pointing out how significantly tech leaders can be helped when they learn to humbly approach others they see doing things well to simply ask for insight into how they do it. Listen to hear how they coach leaders to build cohorts of help within their own organizations, across departments.

Have you identified the leadership skills you want to steal?

When it comes to learning leadership skills, every leader needs to be on the lookout for the things the leaders around them do well. It’s one way you can see things in others you admire and develop a list of leadership qualities or skills that you want to improve in yourself. Melissa refers to it as the “leadership skills you want to steal.”

But the truth is that you don’t really have to steal anything. Most leaders are eager to help others understand the things they do well. But it requires that you have the bravery to approach them to ask for help.

There are no natural leaders. You can learn good leadership

We’ve all heard someone described as a “natural born leader.” While we understand what is meant by the phrase, Johnathan a