#126 Treasured | a conversation with Courtney DeFeo

Remind her how she is cherished and one-of-a-kind. 

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 Intro Ends- 2:25

What was the brokenhearted moment that led to the wholehearted decision to write Treasured? -3:02

How do we help our daughters with their struggles when we find ourselves still struggling with the same things?- 9:00

“These things (the struggles) are going to stay with you but they don’t have to own you.” - 10:10

Our daughters need to see that their moms are human. It doesn’t help our daughters to see us faking it. 11:05

“These topics are too important and my daughter is too important to skip this key transition and just wait until she is a teenager.” 14:00

Do you know your Enneagram type and how has it helped your motherhood? 16:00

We need to be careful to not only examine our faults and weaknesses when determining who we are- 18:15

What was it like to take a group of girls through this curriculum?  23:35

 What are three practical things that we can do to integrate meaningful conversations with their tweens? 27:50

1. Listen more than you talk. -28:20
2. 1. Ask questions, just listen, don’t fix
   1. If you overreact, she will not come back. 
   2. If you do overreact, own it and apologize. 
3. Don’t freak out -28:40
4. Encourage more than critique- 29:35 

Outro- 32:25