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February 26, 2025 • 45 mins

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Navigating disruptive behavior in youth ministry is no easy task. From getting kids to pay attention during sermons to addressing behavior that might require asking a student to step away temporarily, these situations can feel overwhelming. But they’re also an opportunity to lead with grace, truth, and a focus on restoration.

In this episode of Stacking Chairs, hosts Josh Paulhamus and Kyle Gray are joined by guest Eric Gill to discuss real-life scenarios and practical strategies for managing disruptive behavior in youth group and camp settings. They share personal stories, proven techniques like the “three-strike rule,” and insights into balancing discipline with ministry values. Whether you’re a veteran youth leader or just starting out, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you lead effectively without losing trust.

Key Talking Points:

• How to get kids to pay attention during sermons 📖

• When and how to ask a student to step away temporarily 🚦

• How long a student should be asked to take a break from camp or youth group ⏳

• The importance of balancing discipline and grace in youth ministry ⚖️

• Personal stories of tough conversations with students and parents 🗣

Great Youth Ministry Resources:

• Free Youth Ministry Resources: Multiply.life

Join the Conversation:

How do you handle disruptive behavior in your youth group? Share your thoughts in the comments or send us a message on social media! Let’s learn from one another and grow together.

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About Stacking Chairs:

Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We're here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you're running a youth group, a camp, or any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who get there early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we challenge and encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs!

Special Thanks:

This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build deep and engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and creative Gospel events. Learn more about how we’re on a mission to ensure Every Student, Everywhere Is Growing In Their Walk With Christ at Word of Life Youth Ministries.

 

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